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The verse I wanted to look at there was a verse 21 where the Bible read and the brother shall deliver up the brother to death and the father the child and the children shall rise up against their parents and Cause them to be put to death That's a pretty scary verse when you read it talking about children actually causing their parents to be put to death I mean what causes that what is what could be something that would make children go to such extremes Go to a Jeremiah chapter number four. There's another verse in the Bible in Proverbs 30 It says there is a generation that curses their father and does not bless their mother There is a generation that are pure in their own eyes and yet is not washed from their filthiness So according the Bible there's generations that hate their parents This is not even found in multiple places in Matthew chapter 10 We see the primary reason these people are Against their parents is for Christ's name's sake is what the Bible says because they're Christian because they have the testimony of the Lord they Hate them, but if you have godly parents if you have Christian parents who love the Lord Or wanting to serve the Lord. How is it that their children? Hate them how that their children are against them. They even want them to be put to death What could possibly cause that well the Bible says train up a child the way he should go and when he is old He will not depart from it So according to the Bible if you want your children to turn out well if you want them to be trained in the right You want them to go in the right ways you need to train up the children in those right ways So how in the world do they become bad? Well, I think it's because you're not training up the children You're not spending the time with the children You're not working for your children. You're not doing things for your children. You're not teaching You're not training your children and the time of my sermon this evening is parental outsourcing Parental outsourcing I think one major cause for what we could see where a generation rise up and hate their parents This is not the only reason but this is one reason is because we see so many parents today They outsource the job of a parent they get rid of all the Responsibilities of what a parent should be doing the role of a parent the importance of a parent and they give it to somebody else They give it to tons of different people, but they themselves do not want to be the parent they do not take Responsibility in the role of a parent they just outsource it now a lot of companies today They they like to do the outsourcing and outsourcing is not necessarily wrong in and of itself But when it's your job to be a parent according to the Bible when the Bible's giving you clear instruction to train up your child It's not for you to just then outsource that to somebody else. There's a lot of bad consequences to that It says in Malachi 4 talking about John the Baptist and he shall turn the heart of the fathers to the children and the heart of the children to Their fathers lest I come and smite the earth with a curse So according to the Bible John the Baptist has come to set the love between a father and a son back to back to right back to where there's love He says when the parents and the children are an entity there's a curse on the earth There's a curse when children do not love their parents It's a curse in the land look at Jeremiah chapter 4 verse 22 for my people is foolish They have not known me. They are sautish children and they have none Understanding they are wise to do evil but to do good. They have no knowledge. What does America like today? It's full of sautish children. You say what's a saut? What's someone who's sautish? Well, if you look up in the dictionary, it says a habitual drunk Someone that doesn't take life seriously Some synonyms to this would be doltish or stupid If you look up the word dolt, it just says a stupid person What is our society filled with? It's filled with stupid people people that don't care about God don't care about righteousness Don't care about godliness. They're just stupid and foolish and wasting their life They're ruining their lives and you say why are so many people doing this? It's because their parents aren't teaching them the right ways Their parents have outsourced all of the instruction from the Bible to other people and they're teaching them bad things They're teaching them with the wisdom of this world they're teaching them how to do evil not how to do good You know the Bible says the wise shall inherit glory, but shame shall be the promotion of fools Bible says it's not good to be stupid. It's not good to be doltish It's not good to be a habitual junk a drunk that's gonna bring a lot of shame unto you Shame is a painful emotion that causes guilt It says it's a condition of a humiliating disgrace or disrepute People should be ashamed today of being stupid of being a drunk of being worthless I'm just causing their life to just have no meaning We see today people are proud to be stupid a lot of times. They're proud of all their ignorance They're proud of all their vanity. They're proud of being a drunk. They don't want to they make fun of people that are smart That's not what the Bible teaches Go if you would to Ezekiel chapter 18 The Bible says in 2nd Chronicles chapter 30 verse 7 and be not ye like your fathers and like your brethren which Transpassed against the Lord God of their fathers who therefore gave them up to desolation as you see now for the Bible We are supposed to honor and respect our parents We're supposed to obey our parents But that does not mean that you just have to make all the same mistakes as your parents and we see there was a generation in America that Wholeheartedly just does not seek the Lord that turned away from the Lord that decided to have a mass exodus from many of God's Instructions from the clear Bible and look you should honor and obey your parents But you do not have to make the same mistakes be not like your fathers if they transpassed against the Lord If they've gone against God's commandments if they've done wrong if they've done wickedly love your parents But do not fall after their ways follow the Bible do what the Bible says don't go and follow a multitude to do evil No, do what's right according to the Bible look at Ezekiel chapter 18 verse 14 Now lo if you beget a son that seeth all his father's sins Which he hath done and consider it and doeth not such life that he hath not eaten upon the mountains neither have lifted up his eyes of the idols of the house of Israel have not defiled his Neighbor's wife neither at the press than he hath not withholding the pledge neither as foiled by violence But I've given his bread to the hungry and have covered the naked with a garment That have taken off his hand from the poor and have not received usury nor increase Have executed my judgments have walked in my statutes. He shall not die for the iniquity of his father He shall surely live as for his father Because he cruelly oppressed spoiled his brother by violence and did that which is not good among his people Lo, even he shall die in his iniquity yet He say why? Does he not the son bear the iniquity of the father when the son hath done that which is lawful and right and have kept all My statutes and have done them he shall surely live According to the Bible a son does not have to take recompense for all of the father's actions now a lot of times unfortunately You know children do receive Recourse because of their parents actions what their parents decide to do how their parents decide to raise them They're going to suffer or be blessed based on those decisions But according to the Bible God's not a respecter of persons and God is not going to impute your father's iniquity onto you He's going to judge you based on your actions and we see here an example of a father that was doing a lot of bad stuff He said look they're doing adultery. They're exacting usury. They're not following my statutes. They're not following my judgments They're just like wholeheartedly just not following the Bible. I mean just almost in every way Or they're not doing any of these things right look you need to do all of those things, right? Not just get half of them right not just all we just won't commit adultery, but we'll still do the usury You know we still will forsake his commandments. No you need to get it all right You need to follow all of God's commandments And we see even if your parents even if the whole world even if a whole generation is doing evil That should not affect what you do. This is what should affect what you do This should be our life unto our feet the lamp that guides us in life. Go to Psalms chapter 106 So the first point that I have this evening about how parents have outsourced their Responsibilities is that they've outsourced the responsibility of teaching their children now I've preached a lot of sermons recently about this. I'm going to try and go to some different scriptures. Go to Psalms 106 I'll read for you from Deuteronomy chapter 4 verse 10 It says especially the day that thou since before the Lord thy God and quorum when the Lord said unto me Gather me the people together And I will make them hear my words that they may learn to fear me all the days That they shall live upon the earth and that they may teach their children in Deuteronomy The Bible says that parents are to teach their children in Deuteronomy chapter 6 verse 7 It says and thou shalt teach them diligently under thy children Diligent that means Consistently that means over and over you have a planned Dedicated effort into teaching your children. It's not a whim. It's not well every once in a while when we go out on Saturday I might talk about the sky and kind of talk about science a little bit. No you have a plan you're diligent You make you're going to execute that plan It's not just a whim you're making a plan on purpose to educate and to teach and to train your children And you're making sure they get it you're not just trying it. No you're making sure they understand you're repeating your patient one thing It's very difficult to teach a child to read it takes a lot of diligence I mean you're like hey B. No hey hey you say it with me. Hey, no hey hey What is this letter a it's just over it's repetitive. It's constant look it takes a lot of patience You know it's worth it. Why would I why would I not want to teach my children? Why would I want my children to be stupid? I don't want that I want my children to be smart and I'm going to take the time to teach them Diligently the Bible says in the deuteronomy 11 and you shall teach them your children speaking of them when they'll sit in my house And when they'll walk us by the way and when the lies down and when they'll rise us up the final saying look you should be Constantly teaching your children we see a lot of people today They just give it to the public school to teach their children They literally do not teach their children ever the only instruction They ever get is from the public full system is from some other educator from some person that doesn't even believe the Bible Somebody that doesn't want to teach the Bible this is we need to learn things abstract from the Bible We need to be politically correct We need everybody to feel special and you know gifted and helped and you know Even if your child's smart and didn't get things very quickly We're going to learn very slow just so everybody's on the same page or in the case of your children's very slow Maybe they have to rush through things for them, but it's not accommodating to the child It's trying to accommodate the masses which basically accommodates nobody nobody really gets accommodated the state gets accommodated They get all the money from all the teachers. Yeah, look at Psalms 106 verse 32 They angered him also at the waters of strife so they will ill with Moses for their sakes Because they provoked his spirit so that he spake unadvisedly with his lips They did not destroy the nations concerning whom the Lord commanded them, but were mingled among the heathen and learned their Works and they served their idols which were a snare in them Yeah They sacrificed their sons and their daughters and the devil's and shed innocent blood Even the blood of their sons and of their daughters whom they sacrificed under the idols of Canaan and the land was polluted with blood Thus were they defiled with their own works and went a whoring with their own inventions Therefore was the wrath of the Lord Kendall against his people and so much they abhorred his own inheritance So we see here the children of Israel. They do very wicked They do it we would know is today's abortion and verse 37 they sacrifice their sons and their daughters in the devil's Yeah, that devil down at Planned Parenthood That'll go and murder babies the abortion doctor. He's a devil and they're taking their babies down there to get murdered They're killing their children. You say what could cause a person to kill their own child. Well, what did it say verse 35? But they were mingled among the heathen and learned their Works if you put a kid in the public full system today if you raise your kid based on the world They're gonna train them to murder their own Children you say well, that's not our values. That's not our beliefs me and my wife. We don't feel that way Yeah, but you're not teaching them you're outsourcing it to the public full system and they're gonna say oh you're 14. You're 15 You're 16. You can't raise that kid. You don't know what you're doing. You need to just get rid of it You need to just take care of it and they're gonna learn their works and they're gonna do their works You say how could a person do this? You're outsourcing that education. You're outsourcing it to another person and they teach them this wickedness to shed innocent blood It's murder according to the Bible if you kill your own child Says that they were defiled with their own works They went a whoring with their own inventions therefore the wrath of the Lord kenneled against his people and so much the abhors on me His own inheritance. So look they're learning all this wicked stuff. Where are they getting it? They're getting it from the heathen and if you send your kid to the public full system You will learn the ways of the heathen and many of them will be corrupted and learn their works I don't want my children to learn the works of the heathen to learn the works of those that are going to teach them Hey, you need to murder your child. Hey, you need to worship other gods Hey, you need to go out and whore around and be a whore with all kinds of different people No, you need to love the Lord God, you need to serve the Lord God You need to think that life is precious and never murder your own children That's what the Bible teaches We see so many parents today and they just send their kids to the public full system and when their kid comes home Just believing all kinds of weird junk doing all kinds of weird junk It's like what where did that come from? Well, it didn't it didn't just come out of nowhere It was learned by somebody else children are like sponges They're going to learn and if you don't teach them somebody else will if you don't teach your children about this world They'll learn it from their friends. They'll learn it from their teachers though. Worst of all, they can learn online I mean the internet's filled with all kinds of junk and if you don't teach your children if you're not filling that sponge They're going to gather from all the wrong places go to Nehemiah chapter 13 They say when did abortion, you know really come into play in America? Well, it says in 1973 was the landmark decision in Roe vs. Wade where abortion came in to America where it became legal 1973 that's a date to start, you know get set in our brain There's a lot of things that happened in the 70s There's a lot of things that happened in that generation where people are doing a mass Exodus against the Lord where they're just forsaking all the ways of the Lord Daniel chapter 1 verse 4 says children in whom was no blemish but well favored and skillful and all wisdom and cunning and knowledge and Understanding science and such as has the ability in them to stand in the king's palace And then they might teach as a learning in the tongue of the Chaldeans So in the Bible we had you know The Babylonians came and they took all the wisest of the children and they were trying to teach them the ways of the even Now it's possible for a godly person even in that environment to still serve the Lord But you know what? I don't want to suggest subject my children to that and just hope that they're Daniel Just hope that they're the one out of the thousand that you know is going to actually decide to choose to serve the Lord Obviously there's choice I want to be the one that's in control and I'm going to turn to my child and we should go and when he's old He's not gonna depart from it Look at Nehemiah chapter 13 verse 23 and those days also saw a Wow, sorry in those days also saw a Jews that had married wives of Ashgod of Ammon and Moab and the children spake half in the Speech of Ashgod and could not speak in the Jews language but according to the language of Each people and I contended with them and cursed them and smoked certain of them and plucked off their hair and made them swear by God saying you shall not give your daughters under their sons nor take their daughters under your sons or for yourselves Did not Solomon king of Israel sin by these things? Yet many yet among many nations was there no king like him who was beloved as God and God made him king over all Israel Nevertheless even him did outlandish women cause a sin Shall we then hearken unto you to do all this great evil to transgress against our God and marrying strange wives So you see here it's an interesting sentence there in verse 24 it says and could not speak in the Jews language, but according to the language of each people So they were speaking in some of the Ashgod and some of the Jewish language. They didn't really know one language They kind of knew both And I think is a good example of you don't need one good parent. You need two good parents You need a godly man and a godly woman to instruct the children. You don't want to learn both ways You know And it's just as important by more important for my wife to be godly than me in a lot of ways Because my children spend more time With my wife than with me now obviously as me being the one that's supposed to lead in to guide her Me being godly can help her to be more God to serve the Lord to be more faithful unto the Lord But at the end of the day, I can't be godly enough for the both of us I can't be the one that makes sure that our children turn out right by myself I need my wife to be godly. I need my wife to serve the Lord I need my wife to train up the children I need my wife to be there to guide and to train them to not outsource it to the public full system No God gave me a wife for a reason to be a help made unto me to be a help me help me raise the Children help me instruct the children help me teach the children help me love and nourish the children You know, it's not You know, why does so many pastors their children turn out bad? Said man that guy's a pastor, you know, I mean he loves the Lord. He's serving the Lord I think honestly it's probably because their wife is not serving the Lord It's not good enough just for the guys or the Lord He needs a godly woman by his side to be home raising the children guiding the children Disciplining the children teaching the children being there with the children It's my job to make sure that my wife is doing a good job with the children saying hey, you know What are you teaching the children? What are they learning? What are we doing? Are you being diligent with the children because I can't be there all the time I have to go out and provide for my family I have to do a lot of other things so I need to make sure that my wife's doing a good job Not because I need to be a lord over her because I hate her because I don't like no It's important for both of us to be a good example out of our children because we both love our children We want our children to be raised right? I don't want them to learn half of God's Word and half of the heathen I don't want them to you know, go on church on Sunday and then as soon as they go in the afternoon They're watching the TV and they're watching all the filth online and they're just going out and they learn both No, I wanted to be all Bible I wanted to be all the Lord all on the righteous path learning, you know, the whole Jew language I don't they don't need to learn Ashdod. Nobody speaks Ashdod Go be with the revelation chapter 2 The Bible says in Exodus 34 for thou shalt worship no other God for the Lord whose name is jealous is a jealous God lest I'll make a covenant with the inhabitants of the land They go a whoring after their gods and do sacrifice into their gods and one call thee and now eat of his sacrifice And I'll take of their daughters and advice on their daughters go whoring after their gods and make thy sons go whoring After their gods look who you marry is a very important decision You need to make sure do you marry a godly person a person that loves the Lord a person that's saved Because they're gonna affect your children whether like you like it or not. You know, that was probably one of the If not the number one reason that I wanted to marry my wife Say what is the number one thing you were looking for? Was it just just the best-looking That you know the best singing voice, you know the best cook Honestly when I thought about it I just wanted someone that was gonna love my children and be a good mother unto my children I got all those extra ones as bonus, you know You know icing on the cake But I knew when I when I would see my wife interact with my nieces and nephews When I see her interact with other people when we talk about the Bible, I knew this woman is gonna love her children She's gonna care for her children that you know, she fought with me I'll confess my fault into you She fought with me because she wanted to always stay home with the children all the time Even even if they did go to school She would always be there always be willing to teach them always be willing to be with them and I was kind of like yeah But you can still work some and you know, maybe go back to get some more money and you know work And I have a change of mind to realize that's not important I can even if I don't even make good money I'd rather my wife be with my children all the time than to outsource this as a responsibility for them to learn the ways of the evening Say yeah, but what about college? Don't you want to go to college get a really good education? I wonder if Timothy, you know what Timothy thought after Paul instructed him he said Oh Timothy keep that which is committed I trust avoiding profane and vain babblings and Oppositions of science falsely so-called you think Paul was saying Timothy you need to go get philosophy 101 at the college down the street No He said you need to avoid that place Don't even go anywhere near it avoid all this vain and profane babbling right and that's what the professor's are like Professing this is to be wise they became fools and they just babble and self glorify They're the most arrogant prideful pricks on the planet. It's a professor a college professor. They love themselves They love to hear themselves talk. You know what they just talk foolishness They don't talk the wisdom of God's Word and they're instructing so many people in the ways of the heathen Ways against God they hate God they preach all kinds of filth and wickedness and blasphemy You know there might be a godly professor somewhere But I don't really know and all the professors that I ever had that I've ever met there's some of the most arrogant Prideful people God hates the proud God does not respect the proud. He resists the proud look at Revelation chapter 2 We see it's important Where you learn stuff? Look at verse 12 and to the angel of the church in Pergamos right these things that he which have the sharp sword with two Edges I know thy works and where thou dwellest even where Satan's seat is and now hold as fast my name And has not denied my faith Even those days where an Antipas was my faithful martyr who was slain among you were Satan dwellers But I have a few things against thee because thou hast them That has their them that hold the doctrine of Balaam who taught Balaam to cast a stumbling block before the children of Israel To eat things sacrificed unto idols and to commit fornication So as though also them that hold the doctrine of the Nicolaitans which thing I hate So we see here the doctrine of Balaam He's teaching the children of Israel to commit fornication to eating sacrifice Unto idols. We need to be careful who we're learning stuff from. Oh, I need to go to Bible college Oh what so you can learn after the fornication so you can learn how to eat meat sacrifice unto idols like Balaam taught You know, he was a prophet. He proclaimed himself to be a prophet of the Lord. Well, is he teaching false doctrine? Go to a lot of these Bible colleges the professors aren't even saved and they teach doctrines of devils They teach all kinds of wicked, you know, satanic filth. They're not teaching the Bible. They're not teaching God's Word But I don't want my kids to go to public college. I don't even want to go to Bible college. That's probably even worse They're gonna learn, you know, even worse filth worse things that'll get them in green You see that parents though. They want to ship them off to college. They want to outsource all of the education to the world They don't want to teach them literally anything, you know, this is not the way the world used to work for a majority of history Children would learn the trade of their father. They would just do their last name was often what they did Smith Hey, he was a blacksmith, you know I mean Whatever their last name was a lot of times was the work that they did and their son did it their son did it and we Even see with Jesus Christ like is this not the carpenter song and then another gospel They're saying isn't this guy the carpenter? I mean, they're like, hey, whatever your dad did That's probably what you're gonna do why cuz that's what the Bible is always top. That's what people have constantly done It's just in the last few hundred years where you see people going really far against what the Bible teaches where they want to get them lumped under these schools and Teach them all the wisdom of the government teach them the wisdom of the heathen of the Chaldeans and that the language of Ashtad And teach them all this filth get them on Balaam's program all this false doctrine That's not what the Bible teaches Not only should we not just outsource our public education like math science reading arithmetic all these things But even people they'll they'll outsource their spiritual education They won't even teach their children the Bible church is where they learn the Bible Church is where they learn about God Church is where they hear the Bible read to them or their youth group or their Sunday school class How many parents never open their Bible and sit their kids down and read the Bible to them and explain the Bible I mean even if they do it's very rare That's sad. You really think you sired this child you're gonna have them for at least 18 19 20 years and you're never just gonna open the Bible and Explain the Bible to them, but we see so many parents today. They're outsourcing this job. Go to Jeremiah chapter 28 You know, I was raised in a Christian home I think the only time that my parents ever even opened the Bible was on Christmas Eve and we agreed Luke chapter 2 You know, we read the Christmas story We read you know, just we wouldn't even read the whole chapter because it's a pretty long check We just read like the first little bit of it, you know, just a few verses here or there that was like deal And there was no explanation. There's no talking about it. Just like let's just kind of read a few verses. I Mean how can you say that that's what the Bible telling you to do look at Jeremiah 28 verse 15 Then said the prophet Jeremiah and a hand and I of the prophet here now hand Anaya the Lord have not sent thee But thou makest this people to trust in a lie Therefore they say the Lord behold I will cast thee from off the face of the earth this year thou shalt die Because thou hast taught rebellion against the Lord So hand and I the prophet died the same year in the seventh month No The Bible says that there's many false prophets that are gone out of the world most preachers most Pastors most instructors of the Bible are false. So if you're only relying on them to teach your children There's a lot of odds stacked up against them that they're teaching them rebellion against the Lord not the ways of the Bible not what the Bible clearly teaches not what they should be instructed in a lot of These prophets are teaching rebellion and if you don't know the Bible if you're not instructing your children There's gonna be a lot of times they learn false doctrine You know, I learned a lot of false doctrines growing up in church a ton of deal pre-trib, you know stuff a lot of false Doctrine about money a lot all kinds of false doctrines. Okay. How did I get that? Did my parents ever teach me anything? No That's a shame No, obviously you should go to a Bible believing church where the pastor does teach you a lot of good things where you can learn A lot from the man of God, you know The primary instruction should be coming from the parents I believe the parents should be making sure their children know what the Bible says Because they're teaching it to them not because somebody else is teaching don't outsource your children's spiritual education to somebody else You should know the Bible. You should read the Bible. You should instruct your children in the bike That's how you have safety you have a young safety when you know the Bible and you're teaching it to your children Now there's people outsource it just to tutors or you know They'll just hire some other person to their children not even themselves No, I'm not against you know, maybe have a big family let your own children teach your own children some I mean That's a great resource to have, you know, you can you learn so much better when you teach others Have you ever you know Had to teach somebody something that you weren't really, you know that sure of when you first started out But after you tie it to them after you took the time to play in your lesson and really learn you're like man now I really know because I tied to this guy you have to know something to be able to teach it If you don't know something you can't teach so so it's important There's a lot of times even have children teaching the other children. It's good tools. It's a good way Don't bring in some other third party don't bring in some other tutor that needs to be instructing your children Parents are so afraid to teach your children children education. Well, if you can't teach it to them you need to learn it You shouldn't just be stupid and doltish and saunas Like all the people that God's cursing and saying it's a curse to be like no you should learn it, too Go to 1st Corinthians chapter number 6 There's a lot of ways that we need to be instructing our children and we need to be teaching Our children and we see today parents are outsourcing this completely they say as soon as I'm done with school I never want to learn anything again, and I never want to teach anybody anything. I'm done I just want to get on my phone and just watch movies and sit back I'll let the school teach my children and guess what your children are gonna be wicked. They're gonna hate the Lord They're gonna learn all the ways of the heathen They're gonna murder their own children and then later they might even murder you That's what the Bible is teaching. It's not I mean, it's sad It's sad to think that people can have you know God will give them a gift of a child and they don't even care enough to just teach it anything they teach it nothing How does it my parents do if they just were that you know wicked and I didn't teach me anything now Of course, my parents did teach me a lot of things and did spend time with me, but they could have done better You know, I I appreciate a lot of things my parents taught me But I'm not gonna follow their example because it doesn't match it with the Bible says I'm gonna try and match up with what the Bible says look at 1st Corinthians chapter 6 verse 1 Dare any of you having a matter against another go to law before the unjust and not before the Saints Do you not know that the Saints shall judge the world and the world shall be judged by you? Are you worthy to judge the smallest matters? No you not that we shall judge angels How much more things that pertain to this life if then you have judgments of things pertaining to this life Set them to judge or at least esteemed in the church. I speak to your shame Is it so that there is not a wise man among you? No Not one that shall be able to judge between his brethren the brethren goes to law with brother and that before the unbelievers Like another way that people will sometimes outsource responsibilities is their kids are kind of having problems The kids are kind of struggling so they'll send them to a counselor or you know Maybe you have problems in the world and you go seek a lawyer you go let a lawyer You know judge your matters figure out what's right? This is a wicked thing to do I would rather that the most least Esteemed person in faith or Baptist Church would give counsel unto my children rather than some just counselor out in the world That's gonna teach some Sigmund Freud's, you know wicked worldly philosophies. I'm teaching them Oh, you don't feel good. Take this drug. Oh, you don't feel special every second Oh, you did something wrong and somebody told you no, that's not right You know, you need to feel special all the time and you need to feel entitled and you need to get it You know pat on your back and we need to make everybody feel good We need to sing Kumbaya and you know your boss at work tells you wrong you could sue him You know, you can sue for harassment and you can sue for you know wrongful termination I mean, this is what the world thinks today They just go out and seek worldly, you know godless counsel that's gonna fix their problems It's not gonna fix your problems. You need to get a kick in the pants by the least esteemed brother in the church Hey go to work shut your mouth do what the boss says no obey your parents Hey if you do wrong, you know, it's not gonna break your head receive it with a little gladness Let it drip down on your beard like Aaron You know in the Bible say look don't seek the world's counsel I'm not gonna ship my kids to some worldly counselor to get filled with drugs and get more problems They're not gonna get better. They're gonna get worse like the woman that was seeking cured from the physicians She was worse after she spent all their money. That's what you're gonna do these, you know godless counselors You're just waste all your money because they're expensive man Are those counseling sessions expensive and it's not gonna make you better. It's gonna make you worse People walk in there kind of confused they leave even more confused They don't even know what to think and now they're on drugs now. They're not even sober I mean, it's just it's just wicked. It's never gonna help Let's go to my next point go to 2nd Thessalonians chapter 3 So not only our parents today Outsourcing all of the things that they're teaching their children and a lot of ways their outsourcing just work in general They're just outsourcing the role of a parent to provide for their children In 2nd Thessalonians chapter 3 verse 10 the Bible says for even when we were with you this we commanded you that if any Would not work Neither should he eat according to the Bible the right to eat is not granted The right to eat is by you working by you going out and providing for yourself We see a lot of people today they feel entitled to food so we have these programs like wick Who knows what I'm talking about wick you go to the Walmart today. Maybe these big pink labels. They'll say wick It's where people just get free food it says in Psalms 37 verse 25 I've been young and now I'm old yet have I not seen the righteous forsaken Nor is seed Begging bread according to the Bible the righteous are not begging for bread. They're not in constant want no They're working hard. They're providing for themselves. They're not even doing that they're providing for others many times They have so much abundance coming in because they're working so hard that they can bless and help the poor That they can help you know those that are in need too. We see this wick program Let me give you the date that it started on Says an amendment to section 17 of the Child Nutrition Act of 1966 was ratified on September 26 1972 so that person 1973 abortion is instituted this wick program was instituted in 1972 It says that all participants must be deemed at nutritional risk and with inadequate income However, what constituted inadequate income was not defined so they basically wick stands for women Infants and children and it's a program that was run by the state You just basically give free food to these people because they just they just earned it just because they're a woman They're an infant. They're a child if you're a man. Well, sorry too bad. You're a man I mean when they talk about how men are so, you know, so privileged They have all these things given to them being a white male. I have no extra privileges No, that's a special, you know programs just made for me. There's all kinds of programs for women infants It's just hey just being a woman you can qualify for this program And so they get food stamps or they have Medicaid and AFDC participation basically, they just qualify and they can show their card and they can get all time kinds of food and Things at the store just free they just walk in and they get it completely free now Here's the thing a lot of people on these programs. They don't even need the stuff They just get all of the free stuff and then they sell it They just go out into the world and they just they'll get all this formula. They don't even have a baby They'll just get all these because formulas expensive man You buy one of those things of formula It's like 50 bucks and you can get like three or four of them a month for free So they get like, you know $200 for the formula and then they're just selling it for like 80 cents on the dollar so they can get an extra $160 for their booze money or for them to go out and gamble and buy lottery tickets Says in December 2000 the White House issued an executive memorandum Authorizing the WIC program to begin screening clients for a childhood immunization Status so when it started out this WIC program, they're just getting people and they're just giving them free food They're just giving them the free stuff from the stores. They're just buying it, but then they were like well Now that we're just giving them all this free stuff maybe we can require some things of them So now they're starting to require that children vaccinate their children to qualify for this program So now they have some control. Look nothing's free. Nothing is just given to you for free. They're saying hey We'll give you free food if you you know, stab your kid with a needle with drugs with poison Hey, you poison your kids and you kill your kids. We'll give them free food. What a deal That's horrible, that's wicked and we see this WIC program It's just giving you know food to people that don't need it don't deserve it Says in their roles that it says this is the primary roles of WIC Number one to find out about a child's need for immunization and share that information with parents Number two to carry out minimum immunization screening and referral protocols not replacing the state immunization program responsibilities Number three to implement other measures to increase immunization rates of WIC children It didn't even mention food. It says the three roles of WIC is the vaccinate kids And you know, it's such a great program. They're just trying to feed the poor and help them out No, they're basically ruining them by teaching that it's okay not to work, but these people can just they're just entitled food They don't even have to try and provide for themselves They can just get knocked up with whoever for wherever and then the government gets to poison all their children That's their goal. That's their three roles to figure out all their immunization stats says in the 2009 to 2016 The funding for this program has been between six and seven billion dollars every year and says the participation rate From 2008 to 2012 and 12 has been about eight to nine million people every single year So you see this is not affecting just a few people it's affecting many people the Bible says in Exodus and Titus chapter 2 verse 5 that women are to be discreet chased Keepers at home good obedient to their own husbands that the Word of God be not blaspheme Why are these women doing this so that they can just you know? Not have a husband not be a keeper at home So they can just go and pour around do whatever they want and still get food and still get provided for They let the they let their daddy be the government. They let their daddy be these institutions You know it makes me think of the children of Israel and Egypt you see Joseph after they run out of the you know money To pipe the food they basically went on wick Where the you know he's just giving them food, but he's mortgaging the lands He's taking all their goods, and then what happens. He's like wow there's a lot of people here You know we're just feeding these people, and they're just multiplying so you know we need to kill their children And they started telling the Hebrew midwives to kill the children. What do we see Americans doing hey? They're trying to kill them through vaccination. That's what their real goal is that's what the real motive is They're trying to kill the children, but young ladies today They need to learn how to keep House and if they don't go out and spread their legs and have all these children without a wedlock They're gonna go from their dad's house to their husband's house. They don't need the WIC program They don't need the state government to get involved You know if a woman does find herself in a bad situation go back to her dad go back and obey her father Go back and find a family member a godly man to submit unto and let him provide for you The Bible says that if the men provide not for his own He is worse than an infidel is what the Bible says so Men are supposed to take care of the length ladies not the government. It's a man's responsibility to be the one to feed Women and the Bible says look the godly women. They're not the ones begging bread They're not the ones going without it's the whore mongers and the whores and the adulteresses and those that want to live of this world Go to Proverbs chapter 22 You Know women today they want to outsource all working You know as a as a woman is not her job to go out and provide all the money, but what is her job? How about cooking meals you know women today? They want to do that. They want to just go get the fast food They just want to go go to the restaurants. They just want to have somebody else prepare the food They don't want to clean they want to get a maid service, or they just wouldn't let their house get filthy They just won't clean they just sit around and do nothing the Bible says that the Proverbs woman She look as well to the ways of her household, and he does not the bread of idols You know women today They don't want to do the laundry or their clothes buy new clothes They just go to Walmart and buy the dollar clothes Just so they don't have to do their own laundry take care of the clothes You know because if you don't wander the clothes if you don't take care of them they wear out quickly the wear spots They'll get dirty, and they just throw away and buy new ones I mean you go to the thrift store, and it's full of all these is garbage clothes Why because people aren't taking care of them people are just constantly going through and in and out and just buying new clothes The Bible says that the virtuous woman And says she's not afraid of the snow for her household for all household are clothed with scarlet She may give herself coverings of tapestry her clothing is silk and purple her husband is known in the gates When he said among the elders the land she may give fine linen and self it and deliver the girdles under the merchant You know the virtuous woman she's making Clothing for her family. She's not trying to find the most expensive clothing, and she's gonna take care of it I guarantee I bet if you take all the time to make that garment You're gonna make sure it gets wise and you're gonna look well those ways you say I really like that You know garment that I made I'm gonna take care of it the husband He doesn't have to go worry about it Let's see he just he's gonna look good no matter what because his wife's gonna take care of that for him We see that as the wife's responsibility And you know when a wife doesn't do this the daughters learn not to do it the daughters learn hey I don't need to learn how to cook. I don't need to learn how to clean I don't need to learn how to take care of my husband and do well under my husband and when they don't see that model When they don't see that woman working hard and they outsource all these things then the children suffer the children suffer when the mother Is not a hard worker when the mother's not taking care of her family when the mother just says well the government will just take Care of us let's just go down and get our wit card and we'll get our free clothes or free food And we'll scan the system, and we'll just sit around and be lazy and go get our McDonald's Get our just get whatever we can whatever junk food. We can for free This is not how we're gonna raise a godly children This is how your children will rise up and hate you the love the government the government takes care of me The government's my you know protector the government's the one that's looking well to me my parents. They could care less They're just they're just sitting around just enjoying life The Bible says the rich rule it over the poor and the borrower is servant to the litter Hey, you want to be a servant then just borrow and just be lazy Let the person who makes the money makes the rules I'm not saying that we should desire to be rich we should desire to you know accumulate a lot of wealth on this world But according to the Bible as a man you're supposed to provide your house. You're supposed to take care of your house You're supposed to have money to take care of other people take care of the poor That's a godly man a godly man is one that can provide for his house take care of his house And we see the godly woman. She's doing all that she can to help her husband You know it's expensive to go out and just go to restaurants all the time She just constantly if your wife never cooks that's gonna be expensive if your wife never cleans That's gonna be expensive if your wife's not looking for deals and taking care of the house and finding the clothing and taking care Look I never want to go shopping again if I don't have to now I'm going to because my wife loves shopping, and I'll just go with her But look if I never had to buy another clothing article for myself again I'll be I'll be fine with that I can let my wife buy clothes for me That's great, but she does a lot of great things for me a godly woman can help her husband Was even with men I'm gonna skip it for sake of time But we see men today because of all these things they're even forsaking work the United States Is third worst and men participation rate and labor? Among developed countries in the world amongst all the developed countries all the countries that are kind of the same economic status The United States is third worst and number of men going into the workforce You know what number one country is in the world the worst male participation rate Israel Israel is the worst participation rate of men going out and working Interesting fact this is why they say this article This is the reasons they provide number one wise in the workforce women going to work That's the number one reason you know I even work with a lady Who her husband stays home, and she says well? I have to work to be able to apply for both of us if he went out and work He wouldn't make as much money, and then we couldn't pay for for childcare We couldn't pay for daycare hey news flash if you're home You can watch the kids you can go and make the meals you can clean the house You can do all these things You know the man's supposed to be the one going out and working hard and providing for the family not backwards Says the second thing Oh government assistance programs I think I remember you know talking about that wick we see men won't even go to work because these programs are providing for the women Providing further you know women on the side. They're not married. You know that their girlfriends taking care by wit Well, I don't need to you know provide for I don't need to do anything. Why even get married says less blue-collar jobs You know I'm pretty you know speculative, but they're just saying there's less blue-collar jobs There's pretty much more high-end jobs, and there's low-end jobs Well, it sounds like I need to get some smarts then sounds like I need to get some skills If they're limiting all this you know middle layer work if I don't want to work it You know McDonald's for $15 an hour, then I better get a real job You know it's good if that continues if the government continues pushing this minimum wage It's going to destroy a lot of middle-class jobs. It's going to basically be you know the rich and the poor well If I have that choice, why don't I be smart? Why don't I get some skills? Why don't I work hard and have a good paying job be somebody that's desired number four Incarcerations is it I mean we're just putting a lot of people in prison Let's just face it so many guys are just going to prison in America. It's wick I Read for you, but it says, but if they need provide not for his own and especially for those of his own house He has denied the faith and is worse than an infidel. That's hard language I'm saying you're worse than an unbeliever You're worse than someone that's not even saved if you're not providing your house many to revive with their family Let's go to the last point go to lamentations chapter 4 the Bible says that the age of women likewise that they've been behaviors become of holiness not all diffusers not given much wine Teachers of good things the last way that I think parents outsource. You know their responsibilities Not only they're not teaching their children. Not only they're not working hard. They're outsourcing a lot of their work They outsource their time. This is probably one of the worst things that you can see you see so many parents They put their kids in daycare. They put them in childcare services They don't even want to have their kids around them and you know daycare is with little kids when they're probably the most vulnerable to wickedness the most vulnerable the type of things when they're establishing many of the beliefs and the Characteristics that they're going to have for the rest of their life Limitations chapter 4 verse 1 look at verse 3 even the sea monsters draw up the breast They give suck to the young ones the daughter of my peoples become cruel Like the hostages in the wilderness The tongue of the sucking child cleave it to the root of his mouth for thirst the young children ask bread and no man Break it under them They didn't feed delicately or desolate in the streets. They that were brought up in scarlet embrace dung Bible says look even the sea monsters draw up the breast Look the person that cares the most about your children is you if you're gonna get one thing from the sermon The one thing that's the most important about this is a parent is the most influential person in a child's life He makes he has the biggest impact on their child's life And why in the world would I just want to give that to somebody else if God has blessed me with a child Why would I want to outsource that to other people? No, I should be the one that's giving them the time I should be the one that's teaching them. I should be the one that's working hard for my children The Bible says the rod and the reproof give wisdom but a child left to himself bringeth his mother to shame You know a lot of parents TV has become their new date. They've been their new daycare. Oh Just set them in front of Disney. Just set them in front of some movies Hey, I'll just go do my thing all day and you can just watch TV watch the Disney Channel watch cartoons Watch the internet do whatever you want. They're not even spending a time with their children Says in 1971 the comprehensive child Development Act was passed by Congress. It says that Richard Nixon actually vetoed it though He says it would have created nationally funded child care centers providing early childhood services and After-school care as well as nutrition counseling and even medical and dental care So in 1971 the government wanted to create these huge daycare institutions all these institutions It's not enough for them to have the kids at school all day. They need them before school They need them after school, maybe on the weekend. Look, we just want your kids full time We wanted to learn the learning of the Ashdod's, you know The language of the Ashdod's all the time and today we see that it's worked. A lot of people are doing this in 1975 only a generation ago more than half of all children had a stay-at-home parent and so it's usually the mother but today Fewer than one in three children today have a full-time stay-at-home parent So we see a large excess from 1975 To now we see this generation before us Forsook the ways of the Lord they forsook being a parent and many of them are not doing what the Bible teaching They're letting it go to somebody else Go to first Kings chapter number three Another statistic says almost one-quarter of children under the age of five are in some form of organized child care arrangement Which includes daycare centers nurseries and preschools This includes one-third of those with an employed mother and more than one-quarter of those whose mothers are not employed But are in school. So this is affecting a lot of children a lot of children a lot of young babies They're not getting time with their children The parents drop them off at the daycare in the morning Then they go to school on the day then they go to the after-school program Then they come home and the parents get a babysitter and they go out at night and then the kids go to bed They never even see their kids They never even talk to the kids They're not teaching their children They're not even you know working with their children showing their kids out of work They're not spending any time with their children And if you don't spend time with somebody you're not going to develop a relationship You say man, I want to be a better friend with that person. You gotta spend time with them Hey, I want to have a better relationship with my spouse. You gotta spend time with them I want a better relationship with the Lord. You got to spend time with the Lord You got to spend time to develop a relationship. I want to have a good relationship with my children Hey, you got to spend time with them. Hey, why do those kids want to rise up and slay their parents? They weren't spending time with their kids. They weren't teaching their kids. Look at verse Kings chapter 3 verse 23 Then said the king the one saith this my son that liveth and thy son is the dead and the other saith nay But thy son is the dead and my son is the living and the king said bring me a sword And they brought the sword before the king and the king said divide the living child in two and give half to the one And the half to the other then spake the woman who the child living child was under the king For her bowels yearned upon her son, and she said oh my lord Give her the living child and in no way slay it But the other said let it be neither mine or thine but divide it We see the heart of a mother is always going to do the best thing for the child What nobody loves your child as much as you it's not even close not your grandparents Not your uncle not your aunt nobody not your friend Especially not the government especially not you know some daycare not some college. They don't care about your children They don't love your children Go to third third John chapter one go to three third John. Oh, that's where we'll finish You know we shouldn't even get babysitters Bible says in John 10 verse 11 I am the good shepherd the good shepherd given his life for the sheep but he does a hireling and not the shepherd whose only sheep are not seeeth the wolf coming and leave it the sheep and fleeeth and the wolf catches them and scatter the sheep the hiring leave because he is a hireling and Careth not for the sheep I am the good shepherd and know my sheep and am known of mine like if you're hiring people to raise your kids They don't care. They're gonna. Flee when trouble comes. They're not going to do that Which is right look it says that he careth not for the sheep. Why is he watching your kids for money? Look people don't like watching other people's kids, but let me family just help you out I do not want to watch your children. You know why people do it for money That's why they not because they care not because they always love the children Oh, yeah Is that why all the teachers have all these red for head signs because they love the children so much No, they love money. Yeah, they're money-grubbing. They don't love the children. They don't care for the children They care not for the sheep. They care for their own belly These after-school programs these sports programs other family activities look parents. Just want to get rid of their kids go play basketball Go get in the YMCA go in the after-school program get a babysitter get the daycare get out of my life You know what's going to happen the kids are going to rise up, and they're going to slay their parents They're going to hate their parents. They're going to spy their parents We need to realize we have the most important role in our child's life We do not just outsource everything to everybody else we need to be the ones to teach our children We need to be the ones that are working hard for our children. You know what? We spend time with our children you want your children to love you you have to spend time with them Look at third John chapter 1 verse 4. I have no greater joy than to hear that my children walk in truth You know you get really good joy in your life Seeing your children raised for the Lord loving the Lord serving the Lord doing that which is right How are you going to do that you have to train up a child in the way? He should go that's how you're going to do it And that's how you have the greatest joy am I going to have the greatest joy by not spending time with my kids and working You know going where my job? Living for the pleasures of this life living for myself Now I have greater joy for my children to do right for my children to do things that are Godly I want to sew into my children so I can reap of my children I'm not saying that we should vicariously live through our children. You know some people go overboard of that you know Obviously this is talking about the other extreme we need to have obviously God is our number one We need to make sure that we're setting that example Hey, I'm getting up and reading my Bible and showing my kids the importance of reading my Bible I'm getting you know praying going to church Serving the Lord and when they see that precedence when they see that example they can follow that example Hey, I need to be teaching them the Bible to not just for myself It's not important for me to just learn the Bible. I need my whole family to learn the Bible You know I need to be working hard to provide for them And I need to be spending the time with them because I have the single most Impact on my children. Why would God give you a child? For you to just waste it you just squander He gave you a soul a living soul if you have a child you have multiple children He gave you and trust you that soul and you have the most impact over that soul What's going to happen under them you need to punish that child so he won't go to hell You need to teach him so they can live for God You need to show them how to work hard so that he will work hard and you spend time with that child So they don't love you. Let's go in prayer. Thank you Father so much for your word Thank you so much that you're always willing to spend time with us and give them to us and to teach us and work with us Just thank you so much for your example I pray that we would not you know take lightly the responsibility of a parent that we not just outsource this to other people We would not just give up. We not give our responsibilities to others But we would love and enjoy the responsibilities that you give as a parent We realize the importance of a parent in the role in the in the life of a child Thank you so much for your word in Jesus name we pray