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But I think there's a really dangerous philosophy today in the United States of America in 2015 in our culture, and I think part of it has to do with the internet. This idea where people, they have these really idealized views about what marriage is going to be like, or what their wife is going to be like, or what their husband is going to be like, to where they always think that something better is out there. This idea of, hey I married the wrong person and there's somebody better out there that I missed out on, instead of just being content with the spouse that they have. And I think part of this is also due to Hollywood, where Hollywood puts forth these really unrealistic love stories. See, what people don't understand is that everything on TV is fake. Everything in Hollywood is fake. And so they see these really idealized love stories where they find their soulmate, right? The soulmate, and oh just that one person in the world, and you find that person, and you ride off into the sunset, and you live happily ever after, and everything's perfect, and you're excited about that person every moment, but that's not real life. That's a fraud just like everything in Hollywood is a fraud. You know those actors on the movie screen that are falling in love, and everything's so wonderful? Those are some of the most horrible people in the world in real life. They're some of the worst degenerates in real life. They're all failing at marriage. They're all committing adultery. I mean they're all fornicating. Many of them are not even straight, you know, and you're looking at these people, and thinking oh man, why isn't my husband more like, you know, this guy in this movie or whatever, who's just this bad dude, but he's so sensitive, and he's so good looking, and he looks like, you know, the guy looks like he goes to the gym every single day for an hour, but he also makes tons of money, but he also just spends tons of time with her, you know, it's just this ideal that doesn't exist, right? And then the same thing, and then men are watching TV, watching Hollywood, and it's all these women that are just these, you know, these beautiful, gorgeous babes, and they're just so cool, and just, you know, they never start crying for no reason, and, you know, just being, I mean it's just, it's unrealistic. I mean, just the way that they look is unrealistic, the way that they act is unrealistic, just everything about it is fake, it's not real, people, wake up, like look around the room, this is what real people look like, okay, this is what real people act like. Hollywood is fake, TV is fake, but people literally, they see wives, and they think like, oh, why isn't my wife like that, why isn't my husband like that, because there's no such thing, okay, it's not real, now look, I'm not trying to paint a gloomy picture, because you know what, there are a lot of great men out there, and great ladies out there, but you know what, they're not going to be this perfect unicorn that you're looking for, and what you need to do is just pick one that you like, right, okay, pick one that you like, and you pick a person that you like, and you marry that person, and you decide you're going to spend the rest of your life with that person, and you get to know that person, and you know what, you go through the ups and downs, it's for better or for worse, you go through low points, you hang in there, and you realize that there's other things in life than just your marriage, you know, that you don't just have to freak out every time things aren't perfect, and then it gets better again, and then you have great times together, and then it's like, you know, you have a lot of good times, you have a lot of bad times, but you know what, it's about, it's about the commitment, it's about sticking together, it's about love and compassion that's enduring real love, not just this excitement and passion of, hey, we just hooked up two weeks ago or something, no, it's something that lasts for decades. It's real, and honestly, those who've been married for a long time, and have stayed with the Ark of the Covenant, and not sent it off to the Gittites, you know, those who actually stay with marriage, they realize that there are wonderful times in marriage that get better and better, and the relationship deepens, and the love is better, and also, you will have those mountaintop experiences where it's great, it's like being a newlywed, you know, all over again, if you hang in there, but you know what, it's not gonna be like that all the time, and it never will for anybody, because that's not reality, because reality has its ups and downs, and you know what, you're the same way, because sometimes you're a pain in the neck. Sometimes she's a pain in the neck, but so are you, right? I mean, both, you know, and there's no temptation taking you, but such is as common to man. It was so funny. We went, this is a silly illustration, but my wife and I went out to get like a milkshake and an ice cream cone at this little organic ice cream stand in Scottsdale, and we were there. I walked up to the place, you know, I found a little card for the place, I said, honey, I'm gonna take you to this place, let's check this out. So I walk up, I pick up the menu, chocolate and peanut butter milkshake. That's how I order, you know, it took me like five seconds, just pick it up, and I see something I like, and I order it. Done. My wife walks up, reads everything on the menu, and then starts asking questions about the menu. What about the, you know, what's it, now what's it, what, asks all these questions, goes on. By the time she's done ordering, they're already serving me mine. They already put mine in my hand, they'd already scooped out all the peanut butter, mixed it all up, and blended it, and given it to me. She's still deciding, she's still asking questions about the menu. And then it's like, oh, I changed my mind. After she's made the order, get something different, okay. So then we sit down at the little table there, and I'm drinking my milkshake, she's eating her, whatever she decided on, and then another family walks up right behind us. The guy walks up, orders, and then the woman walks up, okay, what's this, you know. And I told my wife, I said, look, I said these people are doing exactly what we did two minutes ago. And look, there's no temptation taking you but such is common to man. Everybody's going through the same things, you know. And obviously that's kind of a silly illustration, but I'm just showing you that there is basic human nature in all of us, and that men all kind of are the same in certain ways, and women are all kind of the same in certain ways, and they're different, right. There's a difference between men and women. So you can't expect your wife to be like a man, and you can't expect your husband to be like a woman. You know, we're different, and we're always going to be different, and if you just go trade in for someone else, get divorced, remarried, you know what you're going to find? The next guy doesn't fix stuff around the house either, you know. The next guy stays real late at work too. You know, the next guy doesn't ask his, you know, boss for a raise enough either or whatever. The next guy doesn't do this, that, and you'll find that the next wife also breaks down crying for no reason. And the next wife, you know, also will nag you, or the next wife will also tell you you're spending too much money, you know, I'm just throwing things out there that are the typical things that people complain about. It's different for everybody. I'm not saying everybody's spouse does these things, but everybody's spouse does these type of things, okay. And this idea that there's this wonderful unicorn perfect person out there is a dangerous doctrine because then when it doesn't pan out, people have this attitude, I married the wrong person, I made a mistake, instead of realizing, you know what, I love this person, in spite of their faults, in spite of their flaws. You know what, I love them anyway. That's what real love is. You know the Bible says, scarcely for a righteous man would one die, yet peradventure for a good man some would even dare to die, but God commanded his love toward us, in that while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us. You know, so Christ died for the ungodly. And so we, as husbands, need to understand that, you know, it's our job to love our wife and not be bitter against her and love her in spite of whatever flaws that she has. And to realize that everyone else has flaws too. And that this person that you're seeing on the internet, and where I would bring in the internet to this, is that on the internet, you're basically seeing all these other options in a sense. All these, you know, you go on Facebook, there's all these other women out there, and you know what, they're all putting their best foot forward on Facebook and it's not real either. Look, Hollywood, not real. TV, not real. Okay, Facebook, not real.