(Disclaimer: This transcript is auto-generated and may contain mistakes.) I mean there's people here right now your marriage is a mess and you know it you know everything is not going like it's supposed to go you're not happy you're miserable every time you see your spouse you're upset and it's like if you would just do what the Bible said it would fix most of those problems but instead you're gonna figure it out on your own good luck with that maybe instead of just being mad at what Ephesians 5 says just do it as a husband lay down your life for your wife and love her and care for her and as the wife show respect on your husband and look at him as the leader and guess what most of your problems will vanish away but you don't want to do that or you're waiting for your spouse to do it first okay good luck with that just keep remaining miserable and I'm just gonna start calling you Pharaoh