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Everybody thanks for joining us for another episode of the Baptist bias. I'm really excited about our show this evening
We're gonna be talking about feminism. We've got a special guest Elijah Shafer from slightly offensive is gonna be joining us
Before we get started though, we're gonna get kicked off with our pentalogue
All across this country women are being held down by a patriarchal system designed to enslave females
against their will
The obvious solution is a cultural revolution focused on feminine needs
wants and desires namely
Feminism nothing could be more freeing than kicking off the shackles of a husband and getting up early
Putting on that name badge driving into work and showing up to that morning meeting ready to do whatever your boss tells you
Oppression has been destroyed
Simply throw off the shackles of your misogynistic
overbearing red-pilled husband and march right on to work for your
sympathetic
understanding and caring boss
What victory I?
Can't even imagine a world in fact where women would take orders from men
except of course when flight attendants obey the pilot and
secretaries obey their boss and
Teachers obey their principal when waitresses get everything their customers want
Nurses when they tend to every need of their client when maids clean up every mess
But my point is it's beyond cringe to think of a society that would make women answer to men
Without women in the workplace the world would obviously
Collapse we'd have less adultery less complaining less accidents higher standards
no maternity breaks no need for HR and
Everyone knows our society couldn't possibly function without those things
Really it would destroy all the obvious
Contributions that women in the workforce bring to the table if they left it
I mean think about this if you were in the middle of a bank robbery
All right
Would you want a bunch of heavily armed young?
Strong red meat eating chads to bring their hammer down on a bunch of thugs or a small flock of compassionate eco-friendly
progressive feminists to talk down the poor
Victims of systemic racism, it's obvious which one of those scenarios would turn into a bloodbath
Look, I just don't want you to get confused into thinking that women would actually enjoy not having a job staying home
having children
cooking cleaning
Shopping going to church and following their husband's vision for the family only radicals would live that way
And it's obvious they have the Baptist bias
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Thanks everybody for joining us again for the Baptist bias, I'm your host pastor Shelley
I'm here with my co-host been the Baptist want to say hi to everybody excited to be here. Thanks for having me on
It's gonna be a great show tonight. We've got Elijah Shafer. We're talking about feminism
It could be triggering to those of you out there who have an unnatural
Hair color that are women and the effeminate limp-wristed male feminists out there who are hate watching the show
But we don't care go get a tissue cry about it doesn't matter to us. I'm looking forward to the show
So we'll go ahead and introduce and bring on our guest. We have Elijah Shafer from slightly offensive. Can you hear us? All right
Yeah, I can can you guys hear me? Yeah, sounds good
So thanks so much for joining us
Now I I'm happy I was gonna say real fast
I'm very happy to be here because I did watch some of your other content and I feel like there's not enough
genuinely conservative
Biblically based men who are not trying to be influencers and are not trying to be like famous
But they're trying to give a biblical worldview first and then not worried about how it's received because it's usually the other other way around
So I checked you guys out before I came on here
I gotta say I was impressed and I'm very grateful to be on the show with you guys
Well, thanks for the compliment and I know that you like to always start off your show with some high energy
So we figured we would do the same and we would get down
All let's do it. Oh
Yeah, you know what is this the same music from the show it is we ripped it
Baptist water they would get some confetti going
But you have to if you're white you it's part of the being white mode
It's like you have to do like the worst dance moves ever. You know, I mean
If you don't have bad white dancing, are you really white question
Oh
Because white people used to dance well when the cocaine was good in the 70s, but now
Yeah
Now we just dance like this, you know, we just dance like yeah on the streets of Philadelphia. I
kind of just
Do a little bit of Will Ferrell
Well, we just have a little bit of funds
Yeah, I loved it man, I'm feeling pumped you know, I am I didn't want to bring too much energy
I don't want to I didn't want to get too hyped
For the show because you guys seemed like you were like, hey, let's be an intellectual. Let's talk about this, but
Thanks for bringing me on for a topic that I love. So let's get let's do it
yeah, I've seen you have a lot of different clips and a lot of different shows where you
Really covered this topic, but I want to play a clip that Ben kind of made for us here clip number one
It just I guess just a collage here I haven't even seen it
So, I don't know what I'm getting into but we're gonna play a little bit of feminism here and see what's going on cringe
I'm so sick of talking about men. I have a male, baby
Man man, man, man, man, it's always about men
Oh
Screaming she's consoling
I
Ripping apart a sign
There I was thinking it was just me that had a problem but turns out it's the air conditioning the sexist I know
So many women in our office have the exact same problem, you know
We just sit there absolutely freezing at our desks trying to tie and you can probably tell I've got a cold right now
Which I blame all on the AC
And so it's just so actually quite nice to see this research
It's just such a relief to know that there's actually proof that this is happening that women, you know, do feel the cold more than men
Retrieving my very soul from inside your stomach
I am raw meat in a slaughterhouse packaged according to what you are hungry for that day
There's more
Let's just let's just kill the clip it's it's so cringe I mean if that doesn't make you want to get married
I don't know it will
Yeah, I sadly there are some men who are aroused by that stuff and I have been I don't under I don't understand
you know, I think I would call that like the opposite of
Of erectile dysfunction
Pills like I don't know. What's a good, right?
Like I don't know what it is, but it makes me want to not be around women
it makes me want to go to an island and just
bury myself in sand because it's like I cuz if you're actually married and if you've been around females, you know what a good
One is and you really know what a bad one is
Dude, you can't pay me enough money to spend time with these people. They're absolutely insufferable
Well, it was kind of funny because I think we talked about it one time
We were like, would you would you rather be?
Mig tau for the rest of your life or have to marry one of these crazy lunatic feminists. What what?
What do you go on that?
Well, I like well like well, of course a pornography and masturbation is a sin
It's like what's worse that or murder and self-suicide combo because I feel like you know one hand
It's gonna be hard if you withhold yourself from a woman but like don't kill them either so I honestly it's uh, yeah
That's my that's my case
I don't think I could survive more than like three weeks with a woman like that in my house
It would it wouldn't be it wouldn't be a nice place to live like
It's just when when females are living outside of their role just like men living outside of their roles. It makes for an extremely
Incompatible
Existence right? Like I don't even want to I don't even want oxygen in my lungs anymore
So I guess I'll move to Canada and just do a death pod
Well, according the Bible you'd be willing to go to the wilderness because it's just like man they're so cringe
Well, we have another clip here and I wanted to get your thoughts on
I want to play clip three here for a second
but this is a you know, someone kind of going the antithesis here of
feminism and and you know pearl she
is kind of like
An antithesis of feminism in my mind and you know, I I don't know what I think about this clip
But I just kind of want to get your thoughts
she kind of went on this rant about how men are just better than women at everything and
We'll just hear from her. Let's play the clip
So I have spent the last couple weeks
Genuinely trying to think of something
That women are better at and this didn't come out of malicious intent
This didn't come out of trying to put women down or whatever
Genuinely, I was just looking at some numbers. I'm like, what are women better at?
Well, the premise is women are more caring and nurturing
well
If so, why are we more likely to kill?
infants and elders
Wouldn't the most caring and nurturing gender?
So then I was like, okay, I guess that number doesn't make sense
So then then I start asking myself. What about teaching women are better teachers?
Turns out we have ruined the education system. We can two women cannot teach as effectively as one man
Okay, we're not better teachers. All right chefs were the cooks right where women are better cooks
Wrong all the top Michelin chefs are men then I was like, okay. What about
What about aren't there more female doctors?
no, no, no, if you look at the top doctors and
Like surgery and all the advancements in the field, it's all run by men
Men then I was like, well aren't women out earning men in cities
Um
Yes, but it's usually in industries that are subsidized or
By beauty and men still pay 80% of the taxes 70 to 80% of the taxes
So then I'm thinking all right
All right, women have to be better at something
Okay, I guess we're not more nurturing. We're better parents, right? We have to be better parents. Well
It looks like
Single-mother homes are the root of basically everything wrong with society
They're more likely to go to homeless the kids are more likely to be homeless
Mental institution. I mean you name it. We suck at raising kids by ourselves and what I realized is
women
Can only be shoot. Sorry guys the best version of ourselves
Under the authority of a guy whether if it's at work. It's in a company they built
if it's at
home
It's under the authority of male
headship of the household
If it's in society
Well, it's really only under guys authority
so
I've sort of concluded that men are just superior beings. I don't say this to be mean I
Don't say every single man
But I will say
That I can't think of one thing
That women are better at that numbers back up
But I don't know maybe I'm just an old sexist. So let me know in the comments like the video guys
I'll talk to you. So that was kind of a longer clip but and I like pearl
I like a lot of things that she says but I'm curious are men just superior beings
Well, of course no III think
And the podcast just ask me that question. Yes. There you go
but but
No, I think it's it's not to get too intellectual here
But it's mind-blowing to people to watch this clip and try to process what she's saying
But it shouldn't surprise you because we're also in a culture where I'd like I have people show up on my ex feed
Which is formerly Twitter who are 28 year old men with breast implants
Still just trying to like explain to people their gender, you know what I mean?
Like that is that is we're in a situation where grown adults are like arguing about
Rudimentary things and making complicated. I mean simple things complicated like our men superior
I don't think that's the correct even like phrase, right?
I think her phrase on the authority though is correct because yeah superior would mean that we're competing
So then we are above them in the competition
but I feel like the main problem with feminism has been the competitive pitting of men against women and
That's that to me is where the disaster started. So like well, I love her. She's not a Christian
I don't think I don't think she she has like a biblical worldview
I don't think she is but I but I but I hear what she's saying. She's coming from like an anti-feminist perspective
So she's coming with the assumption of like well we do compete
So on a competitive level if you believe feminists worldview, then she's a hundred percent correct men are or men are superior
That's why feminists are make me laugh because if you compete men against women, we're a hundred percent superior. Yeah, they have childbearing
Yeah, they have homemaking etc, etc. But you show me a home decorated by a woman and a home decorated by a gay man
Still kind of a superior there
I'd say the game right somewhat better at decorating because they have a you know
A lot of these architectural gay guys on HDTV or whatever are incredible at decorating a home
So another breastfeeding babies, so I don't want to get into that but I'm just saying like that's the that's what you have to accept
To believe women are better than men is that we're competing and if you do accept that
You know pretense then they lose in almost every single round and that's why God literally created us as compliments
Because in a competition, it's just not fair
Yeah, and that's a good point
I you know for me what I really liked about pearl is I have a guy on my crew that
He always loves to tell everybody how he men are better than women at literally everything and I always joke
There's not a girl out there that he could ever date and then I found pearl and I was like well
If you go on a date and she just tells you your superior being maybe maybe that's the match you got
That's like a match made in heaven. Yeah, exactly
But I do want to play a clip based on what you said clip for
Because you know even the military has gotten so extreme on this point
And I get where pearls coming from because I think if you if you put it in the context of a physical competition
Men are superior beings, but I wouldn't agree with that is just an overall statement. They're they're equal in value
Obviously in a physical competition though. There's no even chance and in the Marine Corps, they're letting women
compete against men and
Well, let's just look at the results here
Once
Again to prove that there is no difference between biological females and biological males
We see this female marine against this male marine and watch how it is a completely fair and equal bow
I like the commentary
The commentary put it over the top for me
I mean he the guy just like destroyed her which it's kind of sad to laugh at that
but it's like
You know, that's the logical conclusion that we get to and we even have people arguing this in our government
Let's play clip 5 if we can get that with Benny Johnson
He has a short here about people just spouting this nonsense in our government. Go ahead and play that clip
On with these people
How many female members of the NBA do you see?
Well, I can say that you know
There's been this news article about men that think that they could beat Serena Williams in tennis
Right that they think that they could actually score a point on her
And it's just not the case. She is stronger than that. What's your experience been?
Male female both Serena and Venus lost to the 203rd ranked male tennis player, which they're phenoms for women
Somebody got a body bag. I
Kind of like Benny, I don't know
What where he's coming from on things but that it's a child friend of mine, by the way, you know, really we grew up together
Yeah
He's friend of mine from when I was a kid
that's what's so weird one time I saw him years ago at like a political conference and I was like
Benny Johnson from childhood. It's like hey, and I was like, wow weird how he got it
Both got into this home school kids or whatever weird. Yeah, he's got such a just like generic name Benny Johnson
It's just so funny that
People yeah, it's so funny that these people are just like literally advocating that women are literally better than men at anything
To the point where you then have like the antithesis of someone like Pearl, you know having to say look
Literally women just aren't even better at
Absolutely any competition or physical event or something like that?
And I think that you know in some regards when she says some things about the abortion statistics
Like it it is true that women will vote more for like pro abortion than men would
but at the same time, I think it's unfair to categorize all women as just like these
Creatures that would kill their children because like my wife
I think that she loves our children way more than I do and would be
Way less likely to do any harm or injury to them than I would so it's not fair in my mind to categorize all women
As being these rabid psychos who would murder their children more than a man would I mean, what about your experience?
well, I think that this is a really interesting topic that I'm really glad we get to discuss because
Something that I see people doing specifically on the conservative right, which is a like neoliberal feminism
Light, right? That's that's what the right-wing means now. It's that you're just a little bit less progressive
And you want to restore America back to 2010, you know back to our great historical or 20 right of 2000. Yeah
Yeah, exactly. So so, you know, one of the things that I they'll make a case for is
How important female virginity is and the majority of women today young women are whores according to traditional standards
I think I was reading that, you know
It's less than 5% of women after college still retain their virginity and that's not even accounting for for looks
Okay
So we're not even accounting for those could just be ugly women who are have a hard time gonna have a hard time getting married
But it's looking like when I look at stats
Oh, there's been no blind study on looks any girl that's like a four or up in terms of male attraction
aka the would or wouldn't if you would the likelihood of them being a virgin after college is near 0% and
That's a really important understanding of like well then is what's what's different about women today?
I guess the main thing that's different about them is not their rights
It's their lack of virginity and virginity is such an important factor for women because women have a purity sense
And I think that it's I compare women's virginity and this is a little bit weird to some people to like a child's
Purity right one of the things that we hate the most in society are child sex abusers, right?
We hate child sex abuse. Amen. Uh, if you if you if you go on the internet
There's like one thing that I would think people could agree to and that was you know
the the punishment should be harsher and the reason why we we have that is
You notice all these like gay liberal single people with no
Children are the ones advocating for maps minor attracted people towards love is love towards like, you know
Reducing the age of consent why because they don't have kids and you don't really I mean you do understand children's purity if you're a
Normal person but you really understand how important their purity is when you have your own kids
Because you look at them and you go. Oh my gosh
This is a being that has not been tainted by the world that has not been decimated. My son has not seen pornography
He is not chasing after hose and I need to protect this or my daughter right now
We know the children's purity is intact
But I always say that the interesting thing about women like you said where they're not all rabid whores or they're not all like
Feminists, it's true
But here's here's where most of them are like that and why they they should be treated like that and where we're wrong as a society
is I think that the
Like I need to be careful how I word this
But I think that it's really weird when you look at the argument over age of consent in the West
On both sides and what I found at the argument of age of consent meaning age of adults being able to relegate in in consensual
Sexual activities really is an argument of when someone can start being a whore. I'm not joking. I watch this
It's like people will argue, you know, there's there's some countries that have younger ages like 15 16 or 17
So a lot of countries are 18. That's what I'm accustomed to in, California
But if you look at what people are really arguing
It's like when is a woman old enough to start whoring herself out to men and you look at the context of their argument
and it's like for me then if that's the argument of age of consent, then I say then
My daughter is not ready to have sex even at 24 at 25 because I'm not gonna argue about when my daughter's ready to start
Being a whore. I'd rather have my daughter retain her virginity
Until she's ready to get married because at a point when a woman starts to become a whore
There's no age for that
Like it's not the younger people arguing 16 or 17 or the people arguing 18 or 19 should if you're 30 and you're a woman
That's not the time to start being a whore. It's just not the time
There's no time because there's something important about not engaging in that and when women don't engage in whoredom
When women don't allow themselves to do that
It's important to realize that there is a broken
Factor to when you are a whore and the the God even instilled that with the hymen with something that literally there's a barrier
Flesh just like the men have foreskin or there's different things
It's a barrier flesh that literally signifies the changing of a girl to a woman or from like the Bible says don't awaken love
Before it's time so the whole context and arguments about women's liberty and when they can become like you guys mentioned earlier
Subsidiary women to men in the corporate workplace and rabid whores. I hate that argument
I reject that argument and I want to have an argument of you know, what is the purpose of sex?
What is the purpose of of females?
what what are what is their role and the role is to be wife's and to be in the home and to
Take care of the family and no that doesn't mean they can't run a candle company on Etsy
Doesn't mean they can't do part-time secretarial work if the family needs money
It doesn't even mean they can't work full-time if you're in a financial crisis or the husband's disabled
God is a god of understanding but we don't run our lives like Jesus said with the Sabbath, you know
He gave an exception like if your beast falls into a pit, would you not help it out on the Sabbath?
Yeah, but you don't intentionally throw your beast into the pit to help it out on the Sabbath
You you don't you don't live your life based on exceptions. You try to apply your life to the rule
So I'll conclude on this though, you know, so I don't take up any more time here
I just don't want people taking this out of context
And so whenever you're talking about consent stuff, you have to be very thorough. So people don't miss misconstrue what you're saying
My idea of like not all women are like this is this is why we need to really promote virginity and females
Yes, sanctity just chastity and men too. Okay, like people always go like I'm talking about on the right wing
You're like, oh so men's virginity isn't important. No it is. It's just not the same importance
It doesn't have the same value just because we're not competing men and women's virginity are different
Okay, they just they are and because men masturbate commonly. It's very common and they're not in love with their hands
Okay, and this is like a pomela. Henderson, right? You're not gonna marry her. This is not it's not promoting masturbation
I'm just saying men's sexuality is wired differently and we have to understand that and accept that and work at all costs to prevent women
From ever thinking that they're at an age to become whores and I feel like that's the whole problem of feminism
It's let's let's 18 is a woman's age to become the whore
She was designed to be that's working a job that she hates for less money than then is needed
And then that's the value of a woman is that she's working
She's an economic unit and that she's able to freely express herself sexually and I reject the entirety of that argument and say
The woman's value is nothing to do with sexual liberty
It has nothing to do with her economic output and it has nothing to do with her
Liberty to freely express herself under foreign men's authority. It's quite the opposite
I mean, maybe it's extreme for some people but that's I just feel like the argument is incorrect
We're arguing whether we should have less feminism or more and then I reject the argument entirely
Well, I like some of the points you made and you know
You brought up even the fact that the woman has a hymen and the Bible does give allusion to that because it's the token
of her virginity and
You know even secular science and just even personal anecdotes will tell you that a woman
who only has one partner is just gonna naturally be way more loyal to
Whoever she is with for the first time and there's that stigma that I think Hollywood and a lot of the media
Want to try and put out there about Oh virgins are the worst because they're so clingy
Afterwards and they make it seem like that's bad. Like it's bad that she's clingy, but every man that wants a wife
He wants her to be loyal and and cling unto him and the Bible even used that language about how
the husband and the wife are to leave father and mother and cleave one to another and
So I think it's really important that we don't destroy
the the woman's natural emotions and natural affection by
Allowing her to be a whore, you know, even myself good. I have a few daughters already now
They're very young, but I don't even want to let them go into college and go out in the world
I mean, I think they should always be chaperoned just to not allow, you know them to get destroyed by
You know men that are obviously having bad intentions for my daughters. And so I think you know from a biblical perspective
It was always the men's fault when women are out there being promiscuous
It says essentially going out and committing feminism and I think even today it's not really the women's fault
They're just not being reined in we don't have any men that are willing to keep their daughters virgins and
Allowing women to basically run rampant because they're just interested in whoredom, you know
They've allowed a whoredom to cause the land to fall. What is your assessment been on this?
Well, the Bible tells us in 1st Corinthians 11 that the head of the woman is the man and when they don't have that head
They don't have that authority structure over them
That's where you start to see them decay and it's visual you brought up your daughters not going to college
well, I've seen a visual decay in women because I used to go to a
College in Florida and I saw a visual decay in women who came into college one semester
Looking completely normal and feminine and a few months later in the next semester
Short dyke haircut looking just awful looking like a dude on meth or something
It's just terrible the when they get infected with the disease of feminism and that most often occurs in
those post-secondary
Institutions and so I would say
It's obviously the right decision to shelter your daughters and women are in need of that authority structure
The reason why we're seeing feminism
Be so pervasive in our society is because that authority structure has been lost the men aren't men anymore
You know, what's interesting I never thought about that until you said this but I went to college too and
you could always tell the difference between a freshman or a first-semester freshman girl and
Anyone past that because all the freshman girls they came to they came to college classes looking very pretty
Dressed really nice wearing makeup and then all of the girls that were sophomores juniors and seniors
They're wearing sweatpants and a t-shirt like they you can tell that they just like don't care anymore
Like they've just totally and it's almost like you could almost see like maybe they've been defiled or they've been just like
Destroyed somehow and they just don't even like care anymore and it's just it's just kind of sad
I had a lot of them didn't care and it's cuz they're wasting away their prime years
Sitting in a college class. They couldn't possibly care less about instead of getting married having kids guiding the house
Submitting to a godly husband now. I know they don't care. I know you recently had your first child and
I think I I watched a show where maybe I heard you say something about
Like you don't even let your wife get on like social media and stuff without you kind of paying attention
I was just kind of curious how you even came to that conclusion
Well, okay, so it's unironically is I met my wife through social media
I met her on I met her on Instagram and
she was actually
Running something for Stefan Molyneux and Lauren Southern out in Australia
And she jumped into a crowd of antifa and they started like sticker attacking her which is something they did out here because they actually
Prosecute violence because this is a this is a country where you still can't be violent to people and get away with it
I'm like the u.s. Which is why they have 87% less violence here, by the way
I would remind you that the u.s. Could be less violent if they actually prosecuted it people would stop doing it anyway
you know, I saw her there and
Man, I there is a bit of falling in love. I just see this girl and I thought she was super cute
I was like, wow, I really like like her. I love her accent and
Man, when I started talking her the moment she told me she was a virgin we were married within six months
So like that's the guy who was just like, all right, we're doing it
I'm like marrying this girl because I have not met a virgin in the US, you know
That's that's even semblance of attractive, right? Yeah, probably that's a sad part
They're ugly, dude. Let's just be honest here. Like that's the problem
Everyone's like, oh meet a nice girl at church church girls. Stop being fat and ugly
yeah, that's my best advice because because men are sexual and we're we want to be aroused and it's like you don't need to be
Angelina Jolie and put filler in your lips and you know Botox and stuff and hair extension
You don't have to be and look like you're a slut or you're looking for sex, you know
There are beautiful dresses that you know, if you're if you're thin as a woman a lot of men
That's enough like just an shape Lee body is enough
Even if you're a homely looking face a lot of men are gonna be okay because they value your virginity
They value that luckily. My wife was actually smoking hot and
And I love her so much anyway
through the years
One thing I noticed that whores hate the most and feminists hate the most is women who are not whores and feminists
And a lot of people's hatred of me has come from their hatred of my wife and I've noticed that people would attack her
More than they would attack me and they would always come for us. It never came from my views
They would never come for anything
There's just always
personal attacks and fights and things and I noticed that like women we are around or people like in the Democrats or something like that
or like political figures would like
Would like share pictures of her and be like this woman's like in slavery and you know
All this crazy stuff people would just like send her dick pics and just like rape porn and yeah and horrible horrible stuff
And so, you know and then so we had a mutual conversation. I said there is no reason as a woman
that like your mind should be off anything other than your family and
Like your home and your marriage like why should you be concerned about?
Like these these brutish things. Why should you even know what rape porn is?
You shouldn't even know what that is. You're a female
this is not this is like I don't even want to know what that is, but I but I'm a man I can handle it and
You know and I said like well, we look at the net positives and the net negatives
So she stopped posting stuff and then she's actually on her own
Found it to be so beneficial and she started dressing more feminine
She deleted any pictures of herself in a bikini or anything. She started buying like it was just natural
I didn't even push her started buying like beautiful like handwoven skirts and
Sexy still girls. Don't don't not there's a way to be modest but sexy for your husband, you know
but like not to the world and and she just started taking on these like she became so much more
positive and
emotionally stable
when she stopped interacting with people on the internet and stopped posting so many pictures and getting outward validation that she's
Decided to pull back and now
She's it's her own choice completely. I she went further than I even at we even discussed
I didn't tell you I asked we discussed it and we came to an agreement that this was where it was the best best best
Place but she went further because she found it was so helpful that now she wants to start something
You know for for moms and mothers and she told me like, you know
I want to start something but I'm gonna let you know if only women can join
Like I'm gonna I want to create a private server and this stuff and I want to connect with women share recipes
She has this whole thing. She's starting with her mom
She's like and I want to do it with my mom
So I have an older wiser woman and that we'd like both have access to the community
And she said like I don't think women should be interacting with men on the on the internet
Like I just don't think it's appropriate and I don't think that it's beneficial
To them, you know if they want to go on Facebook and message their mom
I mean, that's not weird, right?
but it's when you start reading the timeline and you start getting involved you add friends from high school and they're
28 and whoring themselves out and you start feeling jealous because they look like they're having fun and you know
I mean that's basically where it's come to so we found that as a net positive and I'll just say for men too
If we spent less time on social media, we'd probably be happier as well
Unless your job is social media, then you're kind of in a catch-22, but whatever. Yeah
I remember I like deleted my Facebook for a long time, but then I got like a marketing like email job
I was like a software developer for a company and they would like wanted me to promote everything on social media
so it kind of like
Got me back in and then I end up I kind of like have like a love-hate
Relationship with social media because it's like, you know, I love the memes and I love
You know a lot of videos and stuff like that
But at the same time it's just that it's where they just surprise you like with that that gross
Disgusting stuff that you weren't expecting and you're just like really taken aback and I mean, I've got me the stuff I share most
Yeah, and and definitely pictures of your face, but I mean it's just like oh it's a new profile picture, right?
Hey, I gotta get off this
But I mean I've even had my wife like unfortunately because we got so much negative attention a few different times like
They're emailing or all these things like hey
We'll help you escape your husband and you know just sending all kinds of weird emails and stuff
But fortunately Facebook just labeled me and my wife terrorists. So we just we didn't even have a choice
We just got new from it or whatever
But well, they can't fathom the idea that a woman's actually happy in a conservative traditional biblical marriage, right?
So that's why they send her those messages
Yeah, they're always like we know you're so unhappy and you must hate your life and you know, we're here. We love you
We want to rescue you and all this all this nonsense and everything like that
but my wife she only likes social media to like talk to you like you said her mom or friends and
homeschool fit like groups and stuff where she can buy homeschool curriculum and like kind of some of those things are pretty
Beneficial but like just the vast majority of social media is just so it's just kind of trashy
Well, it feeds narcissism as well for a lot of women who might have that issue
You know when you talk about feminism
That's a big part of it and they get a lot of attention on there that feeds their ego
It becomes a monster they crave that attention and they get it on social media
Well, I mean for me like the trashy aspects mostly even coming from the companies itself because like on Facebook
I feel like every other post is an ad it's just like this ad for something
I don't want or just
Smut or filth or it's just like, you know
It's so annoying and obviously they got everybody addicted to just looking at their newsfeed and scrolling and stuff like that
So then they could just slam us with a million. I mean even YouTube. It's just like I know but how many?
Though but here's the thing. So this is what I noticed. So I'm like, um, like dude, I can't get into this right now
Because I it's an ongoing sensitive situation
But like there's a like I've had I've had like three hit articles written about me in the last like 24 hours
And it's it's almost gets and it's almost like a void
right to where like I feel like I've had every single thing in the world thrown at me or said about me that now I
Just like don't care anymore, right?
So I'm kind of immune to the negative side of Twitter and YouTube and you know people making videos
Like I don't even respond to people anymore. So on one aspect you said like the negative side of things
I think once if you're a public figure you have to embrace the fact that like a good majority of people will believe lies about
You and that there no matter what you do because you're a public figure and there's slander laws
There will be a certain amount of lies that you will never be able to remove legally that just you just whatever you just embrace
It would be everyone's lied about however, I think that's the main thing with social media. Isn't the ads
I think it's people's fragile egos
Because I noticed that a lot of people like i'll just like disagree with someone on twitter
And they'll go like on a tirade against me with personal attack
Even some personal attacks based upon gossip or lies or different things like where it's like literally so insane. We're going
How people have really fragile egos, right?
And I think that there's an insecurity in a lot of humans because they're right, you know, they're not living in their gender roles
They're not living with their identity in christ
They're not living, uh, you know for for self-improvement and bettering themselves, you know, according to what god has for them
They don't have families to find identity with and so like a lot of people walk around with anxiety
And I really think that a lot of the world's anxiety is caused by social media. Like I I genuinely think
That and a lot of the lack of character development and the the soullessness you see in people's eyes
And that like emptiness, uh when you meet a teenager now and there's nothing going on
Versus seeing a teenager in the 50s when they'd be interviewed and how they could communicate
Is they're so wrapped up in what people think about them in a digital world
Um what their profiles like I mean it's gotten so crazy
There's a lot of teenagers that put nothing on their profile because it's considered cooler to have nothing
So you have and they freak out about it
Because they can't comment on anything because they're not a lot of comment because they can only comment a couple times a year
And they have these like rules and stuff
And so I think it's this meta world digital space that's removed people from the real world
And like that's how i'm able to stay they go. How do you mean you're impervious to attack?
It's like oh some people on the internet are talking poorly about me and lying about me
Guess what? I can go walk to the grocery store and buy a ribeye and cook it and butter
It doesn't like what like you know what i'm saying? Like what does that do to my life like something? Yeah
So so the people that are chronically online don't you know are are good, you know tomorrow
They'll they'll they'll get involved in hating somebody else because that's their internet people
They just they just consume like they're like alcoholics
Where it's just get through the morning hangover so you can drink again, right?
It's it's like it's definitely just get through the next gossip to get onto the next gossip
And so like yeah, but i'm gonna I just leave it there
That's why I think it's toxic for women to be on there particularly because I don't think women
should have
Should they do have fragile egos? They're emotional beings and the criticism they're more sensitive the lack of likes
Yeah, it's it's too much to where I like
How can you be caring about what your husband only thinks about you or your family and your in-laws and just your life?
But now you're worried about what stacy from ninth grade says about you know, your couch like I don't know
I just don't think that we're meant to have that level of connectedness
Yeah
And how many of these comments are literally trolls or there are just liberals that work at facebook that are hired to just post
Crap comments on high profile, you know accounts or just to attack conservatives or you know, whatever
I mean a lot of it's even fake number one plus people, you know, of course if you hang out with someone
They're not going to say every single thing they think about you
But when you're on the internet, you'll say all kinds of just stupid things that you would never actually say in person
And you know, it's it's very true that people can't seem to handle the heat and I think that a lot of teenagers
A lot of young people definitely
They are so wrapped up in their influence. They want to be an influencer
and they
Don't really look at making real world connections and real world relationships
And unfortunately, most people aren't even saved so they don't have that joy of the lord
They're not necessarily have an inner peace. So it doesn't really matter what the world throws at you
but you know, we've experienced that too where
Like because we've had a couple of places where we were renting for our church
And we got a lot of heat and you know for us. It's it's just like another day in the park
We don't really care. We'll get five thousand, you know, voicemails saying they're gonna murder all of us and it's like whatever but you know
Our landlords or business associates. They don't they can't handle that like right?
They've never experienced something like that before and they don't realize that
You know in five days from now, no one will call them. No one will care. It's all blown, you know
It's just kind of like this quick heat and pressure and they try to make people
Fold, but they don't realize that it's going to blow over so fast
And I think that it's important that our culture wakes up to the reality that if if people don't always just cower
Every single time someone says something negative about you or puts pressure on you. They're going to lose their power
Like there's this mob online that's had so much power for a while
And I think that we need people to wake up and realize like it's you know
Sticks and stones may break my bones, but online trolls can never hurt me
No, I mean yeah, I like I don't know but you're but you're right
But I think this is where like i've lost seven figures of income because of like pressure campaigns. I mean, I like oh well
real
Yeah, like I mean i've had i've had like a guest say a joke and I lost 300 like 75 000
In 24 hours, okay, so i've had i've had things happen like that where it's it's uh,
It starts to hurt. Let's just say that like like, uh
Yeah, like it just starts to hurt because and i've lost seven figures for not backing down
But it always happens yet because they start calling and i'm going through something, uh right now that I can't explain
Because I think i'm gonna win. Uh, that is a similar situation
And that's why even now I don't even bring attention to details because I don't even want to add to their bullshit
Uh, sorry for the the curse word there, but but I but I I genuinely don't want to add to it
But I feel like that's where the book by uh, diangelo white fragility
The problem is human fragility because when your identity isn't in something then you are weak and that's why feminism is a lie
Because when a woman's identity is in her job, she'll never be satisfied
So she makes her job like the home starts getting too concerned with interpersonal relationships and gossip
And hr complaints and this and that and it creates this toxic work environment where everyone's not really friends anymore
There's no real workplace friendships and relationships
There's no community that you're not you don't have workplace barbecues and everyone's together
Work is just this place where you're trying not to offend people
You don't want to get in trouble for your dick joke or you know, or you looked at somebody wrong, right?
You looked at a girl wrong and now you're being accused of rape or something like I mean
This is really what what it comes down to right?
um, you know so much to the point that states have changed their laws that even if like you uh,
Something happens and you text an employee outside of work and they don't like your joke
Then you can get in trouble for sexual harassment in the workplace and you're probably fired actually
We're just like texting someone a meme, right?
I mean people I know many people have been fired over memes. I get emails every day
And uh, and it's on their record forever, right? They call. Yeah, I sexually harassed a woman and it's like what happened
Oh, he sent her a meme of uh,
But uh, it was uh, what's it called miss piggy from the muppets and she had big boobs and it was inappropriate and you're like, okay
Is that really sexual harassment? I don't know. However
That's my point is that women are out of their role. They're not in their identity
They're trying to live in a male identity
So they create destruction and whenever we're out of our identity men and women we create a path of destruction and that goes for men
When we're living our lives out of order when we're living our lives out of discipline
And i'm not lecturing men because i've gone through many seasons living outside of order
I'm still a man and there's parts of my life that are still out of order that need to be brought into subjugation
And where's the chaos in my life?
It's in the areas where i'm not living in the order and discipline of male leadership
Or i'm not in self-control or these things that god has called me to and where are women?
Weak is when they're out in the world. They're vulnerable. They're subjugated to all these things. Do you know how women can end?
Uh, you know rape
Be around male guardians. Don't be going out out of clubs and drinking like, you know, these crazy situations in these random places
You know how you can prevent, uh physical violence on the street
Don't be jogging at 11 o'clock at night as a single woman in your 30s in your underwear and you go
Are you blaming the woman? Um, yes and no i'm saying it's a shared responsibility of society of men and women not living in their roles
And it's just never going to work out
Well, and if women are living in their homes if they're finding their satisfaction in the work
I mean in their families in rearing kids
They're probably actually going to be the strongest women possible because they have a man protecting them
They have a value for their family and their foundation and then they have a shield of christ and a faith
For their own personal lives keeping them
You know and their hearts secure even when their husband fails them or their children fail them or their family lets them down
They're still going to be ultimately reliant on god
So it's like we remove that system and you have a bunch of weak
We have a bunch of weak people right women acting like men men acting like women and you wonder why everyone's depressed anxious
And nobody's happy and everyone's suing everyone. It's like because they just they're looking for money and you know the wrong things
Well, there's definitely nothing feminine about feminism, right? And I think that's the major theme of this ideology
It's a bunch of women acting like men
Yeah, you would like it sounds good. Like you would think like hey, let's make women more feminine
But then it's really just making them masculinist
But they're never going to be a good at being a dude just like dudes are never good at being girls
And you know
Well, that's why complimentary the complementary aspect is so important and you guys already touched on it
But the idea that god created men and women to complement each other
And they're not at all in competition whatsoever. A wife is a help meet. It's a harmonious relationship actually
Well, you know, I even agree with the definition of patriarchy that it's you know, still supposed to be male authority top down leadership
and of course women do
uh compliment men but
you know, we don't want to get so extreme to
Misidentify the fact that men are just literally different than women
And that women are not good at doing men things and men are not good at doing women things
And so we don't want to put women in men's roles. It's going to screw everything up. Obviously men are
Going to be able to handle themselves a lot differently in a workplace environment when there's no women
It's just going to be much different
And i'm even remember one of my bosses said he's like I became a software developer because there's no women
And I said that to you. Yeah, he said that he's
He's like i'm not interested in the neck beard software guy, you know like
And so, you know, and of course that's changed a little bit
I think there's more girls that have gotten into that industry in the last 10 years by force though by design
Like it's not because they just wanted to be in there
It's because they get massive scholarships diverse and these companies diversity hire
And they don't even give them any real projects go watch tik tok coders. I this is the only time
And go watch tik tok female coders. They don't do anything. I promise you this. They're just well
Sure, I i've been in that industry and it was very evident, uh
why they were there but
Before dude engineering too, by the way, i'm just saying engineering. I have a I have a female friend. She at least admits it
She's like dude, they pay me so much money and they give me no responsibility
And they don't even trust like my like my engineering
uh, but like they'll never fire me and i'll just get raises and I was like
She'll probably get put into management
She'll probably get put into management because like they they don't know what to do with them
And they don't want them to be the engineer
So they're just like well just don't screw up the emails and the you know, whatever the meetings and everything like that
But before we I want to talk about something a little bit different
Uh, but before we do I want to make sure everybody realizes we're going to be switching over to rumble only here in a minute
Uh, that way we can say whatever we want and uh, we have a kind of a quick little game
We want to play with elijah here in a second. And so you want to make sure you switch over to our rumble
the baptist bias
and we're going to be kicking off youtube because
Really? They just kind of suck and they don't like us. So
well, we're gonna move over to rumble here in a minute, but
you know, it's it's just kind of it's sad that men allowed feminism to
come into being and
Of course, you know you you brought up how they're not happy. There's an article we had
from abc
I think we can pull it up. But I mean even just
Secular science in the world will tell you. Yeah
Well, this article says women are more likely to experience depression anxiety new cdc data shows
Of course feminims is making great strides in the last 10 years
for their ideology, but women are miserable because
women innately want to be mothers and
Want to have children and you know, I don't I don't even have to tell my daughters
But just even at the ages of one two three
They all want baby dolls and they're carrying them around and it's like they already want to be a mom
At one two and three and of course that just innate
desire that god planted into their heart is so important to cultivate and to
You know bring up whereas the public school system
and college they're not talking about being homemakers and
Uh the importance of being a mother I think in the in times past there were classes like that
But in today's schooling you don't see that I mean where you went to school
Was there anything like a homemaking class or like a home ec or something like that?
No, not that I recall at all, especially not in college
there's like the opposite there's you know, how to be a whore literally like a
whole
event
Whore 101. Yeah, it's like
How to commit fornication the right way. Here's the like a sex ed class or something. What are you saying?
Yeah, literally
It was a whole week-long expo
Here's how you be a whore
Here's the devices you could use
You mean rush week?
It's like rush
Where you meet all the other whores and they train you and they train you how to be a coward
Sorority house
Oh, man
That's crazy. All right. Well, we're gonna go ahead and just drop it off and go over to rumble only
So if you're still on youtube, you know, you got to get over there on rumble
We'll check you out over there and keep the stream going
so
YouTube you can just go to hell