I'll see you in the next video.
The first seminar here is going to be about starting the conversation and I
think that starting the conversation is one of the most important subjects
because probably the start of the conversation and the end of the
conversation are the two most difficult things and they're also two of the most
important parts of soul-witting. So when it comes to starting the conversation it
starts first of all just when you get to the door and knock on the door. And a lot
of the things I'm going to be talking about in the next few minutes have to do
with mistakes that I've seen. So I'm not just talking about off-the-wall crazy
things. These are things that I've really seen and the good examples I'm going to use
are things that have actually happened too. And so over the course the next
couple days I'm going to break down everything about how to go soul-witting
from first getting there to when you leave. But today right now I'm just
covering only just starting the conversation. Just that one thing. But
it's an important part of the equation here. So first of all start with a
friendly knock. Now I've been with so many people soul-witting that just. And it
makes people on edge. It makes people nervous. You've already created tension
and anger and frustration before you've even said anything. So you don't want to
start off on a bad foot like that by banging on the door. So start out with
just a nice normal friendly knock. And when they come to the door greet them
with a big smile. Be nice. Be friendly. Be personable. Not only that it's good to
say that you're Baptist right away. Because you don't want people to mistake
you for being a Jehovah's Witness or a Mormon or something else. Even if I just
go to the door and people just take one look at me before I've even opened my
mouth and they're just like no. And they just go to slam the door. I usually if I
can just kind of get in there and just yell I'm Baptist you know just to at
least let them know. Because I don't mind people rejecting me but I just want to
know what they're rejecting. Because I've had some people go to slam the door and
I said from Baptist Church. Those are the words I usually yell out are just from a
Baptist Church. And then they'll stop oh yeah come on in you know I thought you
were the Mormon. In fact one time I was out soul winning and this car drove
by and these guys are yelling at us out the window. I couldn't even understand
what they were saying but they were angrily yelling at us out the window. Ten
minutes later the car pulls around and says oh man I'm so sorry I thought you
guys were Jehovah's Witnesses. I'm a Baptist too. He turned out he was a
saved Christian and he was just so angry that he thought that we were out
spreading lies or false teachings. So anyway I like to you know start out knock
friendly knock big smile be nice and let him know right away who you are. The
first thing out of my mouth is you know hi I'm just here to invite you to
Faithful Word Baptist Church. Something along those lines just to let them know
right away who you are and where you're from. And that leads right into the next
thing I want to say which is don't waste people's time. Cut to the chase. I know
one thing that irritates me when the Jehovah's false witnesses come to my
door is that they beat around the bush. They don't even tell you that they're
Jehovah's Witnesses. You have to ask them you know are you a Jehovah's Witness? Oh
well yeah you know get out of here. But the point is you don't want to beat
around the bush and waste people's time. So you know just let people know it's
polite to just let people know right away who you are why you're there. Be
friendly. Let them know you're from a Baptist Church. And then you're gonna
start to ask the person a couple of questions to figure out where they are
spiritually. Now you want to ask questions but what you don't want to do
is interrogate people. And I've seen a lot of people treat this almost like an
interrogation or that's the way it comes across. So they're not smiling. They're
not friendly. And then they just start hammering the person with questions. Now
there are some questions that you ask to get things started. The first question
that I like to ask is just are you a Christian? So I knock on the door. Hi my
name is Steve Anderson. I'm from Faith Forward Baptist Church. I just want to
invite you to church. Are you a Christian? The reason I like the question are you a
Christian is that a lot of people are going to give you a positive answer. So
then right away it's like oh okay great you're a Christian. So that's a little
common ground right there with a lot of people. So I just ask them are you a
Christian? Or I might ask them do you go to church anywhere? Just to kind of
figure out where they are spiritually. Now if the person says no. If I say are
you a Christian? They say no I'm not. Well then I don't really need to ask any
further questions to figure out whether they're saved. Because if I'm asking are
you a Christian? They say no. They're obviously not saved. So here's the way I
look at this. The purpose of asking questions is to learn the answer. And
that seems pretty obvious but I don't like to ask people questions that I
already know the answer to. You know if I ask somebody a question it's because I'm
looking for the answer. So if I ask someone are you a Christian? They say no.
I'm not gonna say well if you died today do you know for sure you're going to
heaven? Because they just said they're not even a Christian. So therefore I
already know that they're not saved. So if at any point in this questioning
process I know that the person's not saved then I know I need to present them
the gospel and that's what I'm gonna roll into at that point. So what I do is
I say are you a Christian? If they say no then I say well listen what I'd love to
do is just take the Bible and show you from the Bible how you can know for sure
that you'll go to heaven when you die. It'll take about ten minutes. Can I just
go through that with you real quick? And then hopefully they say yes and I can
show them the gospel. Okay if they say yes I'm a Christian then I might ask do
you go to church anywhere? They let me know what kind of church they go to.
Gives me a little bit of a feel for what kind of a background and then I say
to them well more important than church if you were to die today do you know for
sure that you're going to heaven? Now if they give me anything less than a for
sure yes I know for sure. If they give me anything like I hope so. Here's the thing
if they say I hope so that's not knowing for sure or if they say well yeah I
think I would I think so that's not a no so. So if there's any doubt of I hope so
I think so probably then at that point again I need to present the gospel to
this person. So if they give me anything less than a no for sure here's what I
say next I say well can I show you from the Bible how you can be a hundred
percent for sure? The Bible says we can know for sure. Can I just take a few
minutes and show you from the Bible how you could know for sure? Or can I show
you where in the Bible it says that we could know for sure? Something along
those lines. So anything less than a hundred percent I don't feel the need to
ask them well how you know what makes you think you're going or what you know
because I want to ask as few questions as possible. You know I want to ask some
necessary questions to start the conversation and figure out where they
are spiritually but once I realize this person's not saved or this person needs
to hear the gospel then I just roll right into it and I ask them first I say
you know can I go ahead and show you from the Bible how you can know for sure?
Can I just take ten minutes and just run through this with you? Now when I first
started out soul-wanting I didn't ask people's permission. When I first started
out soul-wanting I just showed up and if they weren't saved I just started giving
them the gospel and and I would I wouldn't stop until they stopped me. You
know what I mean? I mean I would just I'd get in there and I would just preach
to them whether they wanted to hear it or not and until they stopped me I was
just gonna keep going and let me tell you why I stopped doing that is because
I realize I only have so much time. I only have so much breath. My throat is
only gonna last so long. I don't want to waste my breath on somebody who has no
interest in hearing what I have to say. So I found that yeah I could cram the
gospel down somebody's throat that had zero interest and spend ten minutes
preaching to somebody who's just glazed over thinking like what do I have to do
to get this guy to stop talking to me? But what's the point when there's
somebody else down the street who wants to hear the gospel? So my mentality is
I'm looking for somebody who wants to hear what I have to say. I want to preach
to somebody who's interested in the gospel so if somebody has no interest I
give them that way out by saying is it alright if I show this to you from the
Bible? Now I I really want them to say yes and I you know I'll do everything I
can to get them to allow me to do that but I'm not gonna cram it down their
throat if they don't want to hear it simply because I'd much rather spend my
time talking to people that do want here because you'll find if you go out and
knock enough doors you will find a lot of people who would love to hear that
message. Even in the most unreceptive area you keep going you'll find people
that are thrilled to hear that message. So why waste your time on somebody who's
not even listening? In fact if I'm giving somebody to the gospel and about
halfway through I can tell that they're just kind of looking around and zoning
out and not paying attention I'll say to them hey I got about six minutes left on
this you know would you like to hear the rest or are you good for now? You know
because I want to talk to people that are listening so that's why I asked them
if I can show them the gospel. Now let's start over again. Okay I get there. I'm
from Faithford Baptist Church. Are you Christian? Yes. You go to church anywhere
so-and-so the church. More important than church do you know for sure if you died
today you'd go to heaven? Anything less than a hundred percent. What do I do? I
want to show them the gospel right? So if it's even if it's I
probably would or I'm pretty sure that's not a hundred percent unless they say
yes I do. Yes I know for sure I'm going to heaven. Now if they say yes I know for
sure I'm going to heaven then I follow it up with well what do you think a
person has to do to make it into heaven? Now usually they're gonna give you an
answer that's very wrong such as you know live a good life go to church be a
good person believe in yourself you know rescue animals you know all the
different answers that we've gotten out there of you know what they have to do
to go to heaven. So when they tell me the wrong answer right there then I very
gently kindly and in a friendly way I say you know a lot of people believe
that the Bible actually says something different than that. Can I just show you
what the Bible says it'll only take a few minutes only take ten minutes
whatever and but I don't just say well that's that's the horrible answer that's
you know you you're not even close you're gonna split hell wide open buddy
you know because I'm trying to be nice I'm being friendly I just met this
person and I don't want to come across too heavy-handed or rude or mean or
anything like that and so I I kindly mentioned to them that the Bible says
something different than that but usually I'll soften the blow by saying
something like well you know a lot of people think that same thing I've you
know a lot of people told me the same thing but let me show you what the Bible
says and then I roll into that now let's say they give me the right answer what's
the right answer believe on the Lord Jesus Christ you know that's what we
have to do to make it in heaven it's all by faith right or or Jesus did
everything it's his death barrel and resurrection that's why I'm going to
heaven it's nothing that I'm doing or I'm earning they'll give you a good
answer like that well then if they give me that great answer then the next thing
I'll ask the final question is do you believe that there's anything that you
could ever do to lose your salvation or do you think it's possible for a person
to lose their salvation because you're not gonna believe this but people will
sometimes they'll give you the right answer on the boy I just believe just
accept Christ as Savior whatever but then when you ask them that next
question of is there anything you could ever do to lose it I can't even count
how many people then turn around said well yeah you I mean you can't just
live however you want you know it's like they just told you that it's just by
believing it's just by receiving Christ the Savior but then in the next breath
is well you can't just live however you want and what does that reveal that
reveals that they're actually not trusting Christ for salvation but that
they actually have a works based salvation because they believe that
they're continually working to stay saved and whether you have to work to
get saved or work to stay saved that's the same thing now when I first started
out soul winning you know I was taught the basic soul winning plan that was
around before I was born typical just Romans Road soul winning the type of
soul winning that my parents did when they were younger the type of soul
winning that churches have done for a long time and my method of soul winning
is is pretty close to that method but I'll tell you the big difference the one
thing I tweaked when I started soul winning was that I added that question
about eternal security see everything else I was taught by others of you know
asking them where they go to church do you know for sure if you died today you
go to heaven how do you know you're going to heaven that type of thing but
they never asked that question of can you lose it I'll tell you why I added
that question because I just went soul winning so many times and I would run
into people that I knew weren't saved Roman Catholics people that are just
part of denominations that are very workspace but they'd give me an answer
like oh yeah you just have to receive Christ as Savior or accept Jesus into
your heart or something like that and they give me that answer and I saw so
many soul winners that I would be with just accept that answer oh great then
you're saved then yeah that's exactly what we believe but I'm thinking to
myself this person's a Roman Catholic or this person's a oneness Pentecostal you
know these people they don't believe that that's all you have to do so I
found that that other question of can you lose it and that really opened the
door to give a lot of people the gospel that a lot of my old soul winning
partners would have just pronounced them saved and moved on to the next door when
in reality that person was not saved and make no mistake about it we strongly
believe that if a person doesn't believe in the eternal security of the believer
that person's not saved and you're gonna hear that a lot at this so winning
conference because that's a key point and you know I don't want to steal my
own thunder or pastor Jimenez's thunder on those points but we strongly believe
that so when it comes to starting the conversation that can be a diagnostic
question that can help us to realize where people are in error now let's say
somebody's not interested let's say I go through my questions with them and I ask
them can I show you what the Bible says about how to know for sure you're going
to heaven only take 10 minutes or it only take a few minutes you know and if
they say no no I'm busy I don't have time that's an answer we're gonna get a
lot so just expect to hear that a lot don't worry about it that's normal a lot
of people are gonna just not have time and and not be interested have no
interest well if they're not interested like that then I still want to leave
that person on a positive note here's some wrong things I've seen out soul
winning with people is you know oh no I'm not really interested really
whatever I mean I've literally I've been so winning with somebody and literally
the person said oh no thanks and they just went like they didn't even say bye
they just they just go yeah who cares whether your soul goes to heaven or hell
who cares right oh no no by all means go back to your video game you know now
look we don't want to be rude like that's not going to accomplish anything
having that kind of an attitude right even though we might be thinking those
things you know I'm cooking dinner right now it's like well really because I
don't smell anything oh I'm real busy oh you're busy so that's why you're
holding the video game controller in your hand huh because you're so busy
right but you know we don't want to be rude so if someone says oh I'm busy no
thanks I'm not interested take no for an answer okay but but here's what I like
to do in that situation okay because remember I told you in my early days I
would just cram the whole gospel down their throat whether they want to hear
it or not and when I say early days I'm saying long before I was a pastor okay
when I was just first getting out there soul winning like man we got to get
people safe and my heart was in the right place but I didn't realize I was
burning up a lot of effort and time that would have been better used down the
street with somebody who's actually listening okay so if the person is not
interested though even though I don't want to spend 10 minutes talking to them
when they have no interest what I do want to do is plant a seed you know I'd
like to take the opportunity at least plant a seed so what I often do is say
can I just leave you with one verse and most people will accept the one verse
nine out of ten people will say sure yeah let me just leave you with one
quick verse sometimes I don't even phrase that as a question I just say
okay well I'm just gonna leave you with one quick verse and I just leave them
with that one quick verse because I've already acknowledged though that I'm
ready to walk away you know so make sure that they know okay no problem like I
don't have time let them know that you're accepting that you're taking no
for an answer hey no problem I understand I'm just gonna leave you with
one quick verse nine out of ten people are gonna accept that verse and I'll
give them a verse now you know depending on what church they go to I might use
different verses or just it's really just what I feel like quoting at that
moment it might be John 3 16 it might be Roman 6 23 it might be Ephesians 2 8 and
9 it might be 1st John 5 13 but just whatever the verse I quote them that one
verse and then I expound that verse to them in a couple of sentences I just
give them a little truth from that verse whether it's John 3 16 for God so loved
the world that he gave his only begotten son that whosoever believeth in him
should not perish but have everlasting life you probably heard that verse
before haven't you it's pretty familiar to most people but notice what it says
whosoever believeth it doesn't say whosoever lives a good life whosoever
goes to church whosoever does good deeds those are all good things to do but it
says who sort of believeth in him should not perish all right God bless you have
a great day okay now every once in a while I'll leave them with that one
verse and sometimes they'll give me a reaction that they're very interested in
what I just told them so life has been no no thanks I'm not interested okay
well I'll just leave you with one quick verse I quote them the verse and then
they'll give me a reaction like oh wow that's really it I've never even heard
that I've never thought about that Wow now if they give me that kind of
reaction then I'll press the issue and I'll say hey listen let me just show you
a little more you know have you got five minutes have you got ten minutes let me
just show because I've then sometimes had those turn into a situation where
now they are interested you know because it's sort of like the expression goes
the appetite comes with the eating you know my wife came to me a few mornings
ago and and she wanted to feed me this big breakfast and I'd already been up at
like 4 in the morning and just binged on a bunch of cereal okay so I'd already
eat a bunch of cereal at 4 a.m. so she comes at me with this cooked breakfast
at 8 a.m. like no no I've already eaten no thanks no I'm not hungry no thanks
and then she's just like are you sure you know it was like it was like these
poached eggs avocado and crumpets and and bacon so I'm like well you know what
I'm just gonna eat that bacon you know I'm too full for the right I'll just do
the big but you know what after I ate one piece of bacon and I ate another
piece of bacon and then I ate the crumpets with the avocado and the eggs
and everything and I ended up eating the entire plate I'm I even went back for a
little more what because once you start eating right you get hungry even if you
didn't really think you were that hungry and I'm kind of hungry right now just in
case you're wondering but anyway the point is that sometimes when you give
people that one verse sometimes they'll all of a sudden act excited and wow
that's amazing well then at that point I'd say hey sure you don't just have 10
minutes I'd love to show you the rest oh yeah sure and I've had that turn into
but if I show them that verse usually you're gonna be at the same place you
were before the verse was presented and then you just say hey God bless you have
a great day now especially when you're in Phoenix Arizona is this true because
we have 200 and some people going soul winning every week we're gonna be back
at that door again we'll be back I mean there there are many many areas that
we've knocked six seven times receptive areas near our church anything within a
15-20 minute radius of our church we shall meet again so what so I don't want
to be rude and burn that person because you know we might be able to let that
seed sink in a little bit be watered and then come back another time and water
that thing again and so we want to leave on a positive note now let's say I get
to the door and the person just right away is sending me strong signals that
they have no interest in what I have to say you know sometimes you open the door
and just from the moment they see you even after you've said you're Baptist
they want nothing to do with you you know what I just I take off I leave like
if I open the door and somebody just says I'm not interested I don't say you
know well more important than you not being interested do you know for sure if
you die today yeah yeah so like if somebody if I just if I just say hey I'm
from faith forward Baptist Church and they just say I'm not interested then I
say all right have a good day I mean look before the the sentence is even
fully out of their mouth I'm already leaving why because I have better things
to do I have other doors to knock where people are interested so if I open the
door and I don't even get to my question I don't get to anything it's just you
know hey from faith for Baptist no no no no no no no no no then I'm just like
all right have a good day see you later right why beat your head against the
wall when there are plenty of fish in the sea just move on to the next door no
big deal so if they say no right away just blow you off then just take off
just get out of there they have no interest if you go through your
questioning and then you get to the point hey can I show you and they're
like well no I don't have time whatever leave them with one verse expound it to
them quickly and then head out unless there's an obvious change that now
they're interested now another good thing to do besides just leaving them
with one verse that I often do especially if it's a young person is I
pull out the business card you know like pastor manly Perry was talking about the
business card has the video with the Bible way to heaven on it our business
cards are a little bit different they're like a YouTube card so young people see
it right away and you know they connect with it and it says right on it the
Bible way to heaven and here's what I tell them oh you're busy you don't have
time well listen here's a video on YouTube that'll explain to you the same
thing it's only seven and a half minutes long would you please just take like
seven and a half minutes and just watch this video later would you do that yeah
sure I'll watch it yeah I'll check it out thanks usually people are really
friendly and happy to do that so I tell them about the video and say you know
because a lot of people are just shy they're nervous they they're weird about
talking to you at the door but they might go watch that video if they have
an interest other people are gonna get saved right at the door there are all
kinds of people in this world so that's why we have all kinds of hooks in the
water we've got the soul winning hook we've got the internet hook because we
just want to reach people any way that we possibly can so the card that has the
video link is effective don't use it as a substitute for preaching the gospel
yourself I don't want to get all the rewards in heaven that's my reward if
they watch my video no I'm just kidding I'm joking just kidding but my point is
you know you need to open your mouth boldly and make known the mystery of the
gospel don't leave all the soul winning to me or anybody else right you get in
there and you show them the gospel because you know what there are a lot of
people that would never get saved listening to me but they'll listen to
you and there are people who would never listen to you but they'll listen to me
why because everybody's different and it takes different kinds of people so God
can use us all in different ways to reach different people so you know the
video a single verse at least that way you're planting a seed now I've only got
a couple minutes left but what about in your personal life friends family
co-workers and the best thing about that kind of soul winning is that it's really
easy to disciple those people because you know them personally so you can
actually keep helping that person grow you know a lot of people that I've
worked with and I've won to Christ I've been able to then ride in the work truck
with them and play preaching popping in CDs of preaching and listening to that
or listening to Alexander Scorby reading the Bible with co-workers that I've
won to the Lord hey let's learn more about the Bible you know you just got
saved and so I've had a lot of great experiences with discipling and mentoring
and training people that I won to the Lord that were my relatives or friends
family co-workers because you're gonna see those people over and over again so
we don't want to only go soul winning door-to-door but we also want to do this
in our personal life so when we're talking about starting the conversation
that's relevant to our personal lives as well right because we want to be able to
start the conversation on that airplane start the conversation in the work truck
start the conversation at a family gathering here's a good rule of thumb if
you're alone with someone give them the gospel you say I'm waiting for an
opportunity if you're alone with someone give them the gospel that's your
opportunity now sometimes if you're in a group and there are a lot of people
around it can be difficult awkward ineffective when you're alone with
someone that is a great time to give them the gospel so how do you start the
conversation well the way that you start the conversation is that you just bring
up the subject of church and that's not a hard thing to bring up let's say
you're getting to know someone you're chatting with someone whether it's on an
airplane whether it's on the job whether it's with your friends it's not a
strange question just to say hey do you go to church anywhere do you ever go to
church I mean that's is that just a crazy question so that's a pretty
natural smooth way to bring up the subject of spiritual things is to say
do you go to church anyway or are you a Christian right now once you've asked
the question are you a Christian or do you go to church anywhere guess what now
you're back at the door so here's one of the most important things I learned
about soul winning in my personal life do it similar to the way you do it at
the door because I remember before I became a door-to-door soul winner I
would try to witness to my relatives my co-workers my friends and I never had
any success I always failed at it okay and here's why because I would just sort
of dialogue with that person and it would just kind of become a discussion
or an argument or a chat session and you just kind of get off on rabbit trails
and you're just kind of all over the place well when you go door-to-door
soul winning you're kind of following a plan you kind of have a program because
you're doing it over and over again week after week after week month after month
so you get good at it you get in a routine you get a system down that works
you get methods that work listen if those methods work use them in your
personal life so if you can get to the point of are you a Christian which is a
super normal question to ask right do you go to church anywhere then you just
say well hey more important than that do you know for sure if you die today you
go to heaven and then you're right into your normal pattern of soul winning that
you're used to so it's it nothing could be simpler nothing could be easier so
one of the biggest tips if I could just give you one tip about soul winning in
your personal life is do it similar to the way you do it at the door the more
similar it is the more successful you'll be because you're successful at the door
you know and I think soul winning door-to-door is much easier than
soul winning in your personal life because when it's door-to-door you're
thinking like I'm never gonna see these people again so you don't really care
if you if you if you make an idiot of yourself but you really don't want to
embarrass yourself in front of your friends family and co-workers so you're
a little more nervous right the pressure is on door-to-door is the way to learn
you want to win your relatives to the Lord you want to win your co-workers the
Lord you know what go door-to-door soul winning that's where you're gonna get
the tools and the skills and the experience that you can turn around and
be an effective soul winner in your personal life that's been my testimony
because I failed failed failed failed failed then I got in a soul winning
church went door-to-door and then succeeded succeeded succeeded succeeded
in my personal life because of the fact that I got the experience out door-to-
door and let me just close on this point you must truly love people and the
reason I bring this up is because I talked about at the beginning being
friendly big smile being nice to people and throughout all the points that I've
just given you a theme of it is be nice be friendly be kind be polite but I'll
tell you what makes this easy if you actually love people then being nice and
friendly and kind and loving and smiling comes naturally because you're being
real it's actually coming from the heart okay now if you do not love people if
you don't have a warm heart and love in your heart as you do this then it might
be a struggle to try to smile and be friendly and people can kind of read you
even subconsciously through your body language and the way that you're acting
that if you don't like them or if you don't care about them or if you're just
being robotic and you're not really interested in them but when you truly
love people from your heart that comes across and people will sense that and
they'll be much more likely to listen to you you say well how can I love someone
that I just met well you know Jesus loved people that he just met because if
you remember the rich young ruler it says Jesus beholding him loved him that
guy was an idiot he was prideful he was not saved he wasn't gonna get saved he
was self-righteous but yet in spite of his sins Jesus loved him Jesus beholding
him loved him and you know what when that door opens and you don't know who's
gonna be behind that door but when that door opens you've got to love that
person you got to want that person to be saved not so that you can get someone
saved but so that that person goes to heaven because you love that person and
you're there to help them now you say what if it's a horrible reprobate here's
the thing you got to give people the benefit of the doubt you know they're
innocent until proven guilty you know maybe they maybe it is the most horrible
person ever and the worst reprobate spawn of Satan that opens that door
sometimes that's gonna happen but you know what you should go into it though
assuming that this person is ready to receive the gospel and let them prove
you wrong and I don't care if they're covered in tattoos and they have more
piercings than if they fell out of a fishing tackle box and if they are all
you know goth out and and whatever you know what so what so what you know can't
you love people that are different than you and we shouldn't just assume that
someone is a horrible reprobate just because they look strange because we're
living in some strange days where even people that are normal people even nice
people sometimes look like freaks and we got to be able to see past that because
a lot you know we don't want to just jump to conclusions now if somebody
comes to the door in drag or something it's like all right I'm out of here you
know what I mean I'm gonna get out of there as fast I can if some dude is in
drag that's not what I'm talking about I'm just talking but but look there are
a lot of guys today they're just effeminate and they're not even queer
they're just effeminate that's the society we're living in folks welcome to
2018 America and there is so we don't want to just assume the worst and jump
to conclusions give people the benefit of the doubt you know and and and go
into it with love in your heart for that person and you have to truly care you
can't fake it you've got to actually love people and actually care and that's
one of the best soul winning tips love people care about people that's gonna
make you do a good job be thorough why because you actually care because you
actually love that person and you know people can feel it when you love them
they can also feel it when you're just going through the motions let's bow our
heads and have a brief word of prayer father we thank you so much for the the
job that you've given us Lord what a great job to go out and and win people
the Lord and Lord you've committed unto us the ministry of reconciliation you've
given us that work to do before your second coming Lord help us to be
faithful to do it and help us to do it for the right reasons and with love in
our heart and with a tear in the eye and help us to learn as much as we can over
the next three days so we can become a better soul winner in Jesus name we pray
amen
you