Welcome to Faith Word Baptist Church
on the Sunday night.
It's very good to see you all here
for our Sunday evening service.
Find your seats, please.
Take a hymnal.
Go to hymn number 439.
And we'll begin tonight.
Hymn number 439.
Count your blessings.
Hymn number 439.
Once you find your place,
you get to sing all that first.
One of all my spillos is from Tetris Paws.
Hymn number 439.
Sing it out together now.
We'll end up.
on the service, so I've asked for the Jason, that's Sio, if you would lead us forward.
Thank you for this church, Lord, and thank you for all the soul winners doing
the work for you. Please bless the music, as we'll be seeing praises out into you.
And please be with our pastor as he's soul-winning across the world.
In Jesus' name, I pray, amen.
All right, at this time we're gonna go
over the bulletins.
If you need one, raise your hand
and somebody will bring your bulletin
as soon as possible.
If you have your bulletins, they quickly go over it.
On the upper left hand corner is our service times.
Below that is our so many times
at the bottom is our salivations and baptisms for the year.
Once again, happy anniversary and happy birthday
to those that have one this month.
The donors this morning was to celebrate your birthday
or your anniversary.
Please join us at 7 p.m. Wednesday, June 18th with our special guest preacher
Which is going to be Pastor Corvin Russell from stray paths Baptist Church on the back of the bulletin more information about the Father's Day weekend
So when a hiking trip
You know the schedule for Friday is right there in Saturday as well take a look at those when you get a chance
And also join us for so winning in downtown Phoenix. You know, we have a first Friday so winning time
This one will be on June 6 at 6 p.m.
Meetup time is at the Burton bar Phoenix public library in the address right there take a look at that when you get a chance
If you have any questions talk to brother Steve Tilson
And also, our upcoming events are right there.
Take a look at those when you get a chance.
Now, let's go over the sew in for the week.
If you've got somebody safe on Thursday,
go ahead and raise your hand.
And I'll start on this side.
Any salvations for Thursday?
Five.
OK, we got some over here.
Any other salvations for Thursday?
Friday.
Three.
Amen.
Saturday. Got one right here. Amen. Nine. All right. We've got nine over here. Six
back there. Any other salvations. And today. One right here. I see two over there. I see
two brother Mark. And the other seven. All right. Amen. Got seven right over here. There's
Five eight. All right a salvation's any other salvation's go once going twice. All right, brother Daniel
All right, turn your hymnos to him number
175 him number 175
It's just like his great love him number 175
Sing it up together now him number
175
A friend I have called Jesus, whose blood is strong and true.
And there is no wherehead, and I know that's what I do.
I sit against this love of his, for when I know to pray,
It's just my Jesus, you're going by the way
It's just my Jesus, you need to get by him
It's just my Jesus, all around the way
It's just my Him, way by
My down is one grand spot
I live 11th where she's been
Holding my despair
It favors but clouds between
And it shows me he's there
In dust my hands I'm slowly bound away
It's just like Jesus, keep me day by day
It's just like Jesus, all along the way
It's just like His great love
For heavenly hope he gives and shares
Like sunshine after rain
It's just like Jesus is all the back way
It's just like Jesus can keep you here again
It's just like Jesus all along
And bear him for there's no life on mine, His blood is in and over all, And win and waste all the bail, When Jesus' Christmas keeps me still, And it rolls us out the way, It's just like Jesus rolls us out the way.
It's just like Jesus to keep me there by day
It's just like Jesus all along the way
It's just like His great love
Love divine, all loves excelling, hymn number 172.
Joy of heaven to earth come down, hymn number 172.
Sing it out on that first now.
Love divine, all loves excelling, joy of heaven to earth come down.
He's proud, Jesus, thou art of compassion.
For unbounded love thou art, is it a sin?
It's unending, return and end
All right, man, good singing tonight.
All right, at this time, we're going to pass around the offering
place, and as we're passing out the offering place, please turn
your Bibles to 1 Corinthians chapter number 16.
1 Corinthians chapter number 16.
1st Corinthians 16 the Bible says now concerning the collection for the saints as I have given
order to the churches of Galatia even so do ye upon the first day of the week let every one of
you lay by him in store as God hath prospered him that there be no gatherings when I come
and when I come whosoever ye shall approve by your letters them will I send to bring your
liberality unto Jerusalem and if it be meat that I go also they shall go with me now I will come
unto you when I shall pass through Macedonia for I do pass through Macedonia.
and it may be that I will abide, yea, and winter with you, that ye may bring me on my journey
whithersoever I go. For I will not see you now, by the way, but I trust to tarry a while with you
if the Lord permit. But I will tarry at Ephesus until Pentecost, for a great door and effectual
is open unto me, and there are many adversaries. Now, if Timotheus comes, see that he may be
with you without fear, for he worketh the work of the Lord, as I also do.
Let no man therefore despise him, but conduct him forth in peace that he may come unto me,
for I look for him with the brethren. As touching our brother Apollos,
I greatly desired him to come unto you with the brethren. But this will was not at all to come
at this time, but he will come when he shall have convenient time. Watch ye, stand fast in the faith,
I beseech you, brethren, you know the house of Stefanus, that is the first fruits of Achia,
and that they have addicted themselves to the ministry of the saints, that ye submit yourselves
unto such, and to everyone that helpeth with us and laboreth.
I am glad of the coming of Stefanus and Fortunatus and Achaicus, for that which was lacking
on your part they have supplied, for they have refreshed my spirit and yours, therefore
The churches of Asia salute you. Aquila and Priscilla salute you much in the Lord,
with the church that is in their house. All the brethren greet you.
Greet ye one another with an holy kiss. A salutation of me, Paul, with my own hand.
If any man loved not the Lord Jesus Christ, let him be anathema, Maranatha.
The grace of our Lord Jesus Christ be with you.
My love be with you all in Christ Jesus, amen.
The first epistle to the Corinthians
was written from Philippi by Stefanus and Fortunatus
and Achaicus and Tumotheus.
Dearly Father, thank you for this opportunity to gather here today and hear your word preach to us
Please open up your ears and our minds in order to
Be hears the word and doers of the words as well and Lord
Please take care and heal all the sick amongst us so we continue to serve you just name and pray amen
It's great to be back this evening with you guys and the title of my sermon this evening is
Soft Men vs. Strong Men.
And we have an epidemic in the world today of soft men and it really pisses me off.
And you know the Bible says here in 1 Corinthians chapter 16, look what it says in verse 13,
The Bible commands men to be strong.
It's not my idea.
I'm not just preaching some wild personal conviction here.
The Bible is commanding men, quit you like men and be strong.
Now quit you like men.
It's kind of a phrase we don't really use in our modern understanding or vernacular,
but an older understanding of the word quit just means to conduct oneself or how you behave.
So what this is saying is behave like a man and be strong.
So men are supposed to act a particular way there to be strong and of course the Bible tells us that women are the weaker vessel
and so that means that men are supposed to be stronger.
So you shouldn't act like a woman, you should act differently, you should act like a man.
And often, it seems like this kind of woman-hating attitude that comes from some single guys
out there, they're always trying to remind women that they're the weaker vessel.
You don't have to remind them that the weaker the vessel, just be strong.
When you're soft you have to kind of feel like you have to tell women
Hey, you're supposed to be weaker if you're just strong
You don't have to remind them it's just evident that you're much different and that you're much stronger
And I have a lot of points that I want to make this evening
But we'll be the opposite of this would be being soft now
Just for sake of remembering my sermon a little better. I'm using some alliteration here. So
All of my points that are negative are going to be symbolized with an F, alright?
And then you've got all the good ones that are going to be symbolized with an S, alright?
So, don't be feeble, be strong.
Okay, don't be feeble, be strong. Go to Ephesians chapter 6.
Go to Ephesians chapter 6. Now, I'm going to make a lot of biblical points quickly
and then I'm going to get into a lot of preaching.
So, you know, I just want to make some of these points that are clear in the Bible
and then I want to just talk about them and elaborate on them quite a bit, but...
Bible tells us in men that we shouldn't be soft, we shouldn't be feeble.
Now, when I was looking up soft in a dictionary, the first definition of soft was this,
yielding readily to pressure.
yielding readily to pressure, meaning that you essentially just quit quickly,
you succumb, you're push over, you just let go,
you're not going to put up a fight. That's kind of the idea of being soft,
whereas the idea of being strong is that you're not going to quit easily.
You don't buckle under pressure, but you know what? You're going to stick with it.
You're going to be steadfast, aren't you?
And I believe as Christian men, we should not be easily pushed over, we should not give up easily,
we should not succumb to pressures, but rather we should be strong, and we should be like Christ,
we should be like a rock, which is unmovable, always abounding in the work of the Lord.
And we need to be strong today, and a lot of people are just feeble.
You kind of have this term thrown out there of a snowflake generation.
I'm telling you it's real, and I'm not even just saying in the world, you'll meet men
even in church that are snowflakes, and it's sad, it's pathetic, it's embarrassing.
Men are constantly, to me, men, I'm constantly embarrassed for them, I'm having secondhand
And of course the world wants to confuse you and make you think like hey, as a man, it's okay to be sensitive.
This is not true.
There's lots of things in this world that should not be sensitive.
And if you're sensitive, there's a problem.
Here's one analogy that I like, your teeth.
You know, your teeth, if you go to the dentist, you know what they do?
They get this sharp little prick.
device and they poke at your teeth. They just go around and they just poking everywhere with this sharp metal device and you know
What they're checking for?
Sensitivity on your tooth because if it's too soft somewhere, that's a problem
And they say if it's soft it's either potentially developing a cavity or it already has developed a cavity and it's a bad thing.
You don't want your teeth to be too sensitive or too soft in certain areas. It's unhealthy. It needs to be strong.
And in the same way, if men get that little bit of poke and it's too sensitive, there's a problem with the man.
You can be too sensitive and too soft as a man and you know what men should not be so feeble that a little poking
Causes them to that bleed that causes them to just have all these problems
You know what they should be tough and be able to take some poking take some prodding
It needs to be hard not everything can be something
Sensitive obviously when you talk about a pillow. Hey, we want that to be soft, right?
There's things in this life that should be soft
There's things in this life that should be sensitive.
Obviously, God gave you a mother, okay?
But he also should have given you a man as a father.
And you know what? He needs to be strong.
He needs to be different.
And my children know this difference.
When they are injured or upset or need someone to cuddle them
or coddle them, it's mom.
Because dad doesn't do that.
Dad is not the same as mom and you know what? It's good to have both. You don't want to have two moms
All right
This isn't faggot month that we're celebrating tonight. Okay
We don't need two moms
We need a dad in the home and boy if the black community has taught you anything not having a dad in the home runs everything
We need some men in the home and we need them to be strong not feeble Ephesians chapter 6 look at verse 10
Finally, my brethren, be strong in the Lord and in the power of His might.
We are to be strong.
Now, I could just show you a slew versus the Bible tells you to be very strong, very courageous
in the book of Joshua, just over and over.
The Bible is telling men to be strong, courageous, tough, bold, standing up for the things of
God.
You can't be too sensitive.
You can't be feeble.
You can't be a snowflake.
Go over to 2 Timothy 2.
How men that are attracted to, quote,
new IFB preaching can be so sensitive.
I'm thinking, like, have you ever heard us preach?
Do you even know who we are?
Like, how are you just so sensitive about words
or your feelings or your emotions?
It's like, I don't have time for this.
I don't have time to babysit men's emotions
and make sure you get a cuddle bear or something like that.
You're supposed to be taking care of other people at the end of the day and
We need some men to have some some strength and not be so feeble not just be so offended easily
Second Timothy chapter number two look at verse number three
thou therefore endure
hardness as a good soldier of Jesus Christ God likens
Spiritual truths with carnal truths a carnal truth. They look the military doesn't have a place for sensitivity
And America is destroying its military with sensitivity training and inclusion and all this nonsense.
But at the end of the day, on the battlefield, we don't have time to check your feelings.
Make sure that someone didn't insult you or something like that.
I mean, this is literal war. And you know, we're in a spiritual battle today.
We don't necessarily have time to check everyone's little feelings and make sure you feel okay.
And did you get a participation trophy? And did you get a ribbon?
And are you okay?
You know what?
Sometimes you just need to be told the raw truth as a man and just get over it.
You know HR departments have just ruined companies because now you can't just yell at your employees and just tell them like you suck
And this is bad because everybody gets their feelings hurt or something
And of course we have all these women that we have to work around and so they're so soft that we can't just yell at them
And scream at them because they cry
Yes, I've worked in a software industry and we hired a woman
I don't know why and of course she cried on the first day of the job
She cried all the time because the boss would yell at her and look
Yeah, the boss asked her, hey, do you know this?
She lies, he kind of embarrasses her because it's like, hey, you don't, you lied about
this and then she's just going to start crying and it's just like, what in the world?
You know what?
We don't have time for this.
We don't have time in Christianity for men to make sure that all their feelings aren't
getting hurt or something like that.
We're supposed to be able to endure a little bit of hardness.
And on the battlefield, you know what, there's going to be casualties, there's going to
be uncomfortable situations, there's going to be times where you don't get exactly what
you want, you miss a meal, you didn't get all the sleep you needed, you have a headache.
It's so pathetic to me how some men, it's like they miss everything when they don't
feel a hundred percent.
They got their tummy hurts.
They've got a headache.
drink some water if you need to take a nap take a nap or whatever but quit
complaining about it you know just get over it and you know as a man there's
gonna just be some days where you just have a bad day and you just have to get
through it you didn't get enough sleep or you had a headache or your tummy
hurts or you don't like what's going on and you just have to you know grin and
bear it it's called being tough it's called being a man be strong endure
What if the Apostle Paul had this attitude?
I mean the Apostle Paul has to get stoned, shipwrecked, spend the night and day in the deep.
You think that guy can endure a little bit of hardness?
Do you think the Apostle Paul is sitting here complaining about headaches or something like that?
I mean, it's just silly how sensitive and how soft men are today.
And boy, if you have a military background, you are probably just wanting to just gag
yourself on how soft men can be in America today.
You're just thinking like, boy, you would not survive boot camp for one day.
You would not survive very much opposition whatsoever, and you know what, it's kind
of appalling that Christian men today are so soft.
Go to the non-denominational church and you'll find a bunch of soft men today.
Thiebel men that talk about their feelings and all their sensitivities and it's just like dude, we don't care
We can hardly pay attention when our wife's telling us about our feelings
We're just sitting here. They're like, yeah, sure whatever. She's like, are you paying attention? It's like no, I don't you know
What's the problem?
We just don't get it. I'm not into that look at verse nine
Look at the apostle Paul.
Where and I suffer troubles and evildoers even unto bonds,
but the word of God is not bound.
Therefore I endure all things for the elect's sakes
that they may also obtain the salvation
which is in Christ Jesus with eternal glory.
You know, sometimes you just have to endure stuff
that you don't want to deal with.
What is enduring?
You don't like it.
Jesus Christ had to endure the cross despising the shame.
Do you think he really loved that?
Do you think Jesus was feeling good when he'd been whipped?
You know, you talk about your headache.
How about having a crown of thorns shoved on your head?
You think your head hurt for that one?
Drinking some poison drink happened to bear his own cross and carry it up on the Mount Calvary.
You think he really liked that? You think he really wanted to go through that?
No! You know what? Jesus Christ is a man!
Jesus Christ is strong! Jesus Christ was...
They were saying he's beside himself. He's just working so hard.
He's not getting all the sleep he needs.
You think that he's getting all the sleep he needs when he's staying up all night praying
before he's going to go through the one of those excruciating, painful experiences man has ever
gone through and then man has just complained about the littlest, most pettiest things.
It's embarrassing. It is embarrassing. Why can't you be a little bit strong?
Go to 1 Corinthians chapter 13. Quit being a snowflake.
Oh, you know, I don't really like what you said.
It offends me.
I think the preacher is preaching about me.
Good.
You need it.
Hey, was that sermon about me?
Yes.
Is the preacher mad at me?
Probably.
Do I need to change?
Of course.
Quit sitting, I mean, how many men?
They're just like, oh, I think the preacher
is preaching about me.
Good.
Like why is it do you really want to go to church?
I mean think about the opposites you really want to go to church the preacher never preached anything that had anything to do with me
Why would I want to go to a church like that?
Like what's the point of wasting hours of every week to show up somewhere to have no preaching applied to you at all?
That doesn't even make sense. You know what? I would rather maximize the opportunities
I'd rather go to church where it felt like every sermon is about me
Why would I want to go to church and I just feel like oh man
He just keeps preaching about things that have nothing to do with me. No application. No relevance
I want to show up at church where I feel like man every sermon
I feel like it's just pointed right at me and I need to fix I need to change
Because it's a blessing for someone to help you get better
If he's never, if he's never getting onto your sin, you know, you're kind of at a disservice.
It's actually a blessing if he's calling you out with your sin.
And look, in the Bible, they're calling people out by name in the room.
People think like, oh man, I think, I think other people might could have told that this is about me.
It's like, how about when they're just using your name?
How about in 1 Corinthians chapter number five when they're like, hey, that guy in this church that's sleeping with his father's wife?
I think everybody knew who that guy was.
I think everybody kind of knew who Jezebel was when he named Jezebel.
Hey, there's a woman in your church named Jezebel.
Wink, wink, nod, nod. We know who that is.
And she's wicked.
It's like, oh man, how dare you name names?
That's Jesus Christ in the book of Revelation.
And it wasn't even to one church.
It was to seven churches which are in Asia.
Oh, you're talking about drama in another church.
Oh yeah, that's Jesus again.
You know people they're so soft today. Oh, did you know this preacher preaching? It was kind of about me or whatever good
This preacher named somebody he's calling people out sounds like he's like Jesus sounds like he's Paul
You know people are just so soft today, and it's just sick
You know one of the attitudes of a godly Christian is one that just doesn't get offended by stuff at all
Look at verse Corinthians and we're reading about charity here verse 4 charity suffer as long and is kind
Charity envy is not charity vaughn does not itself is not puffed up does not behave itself unseemly seek
It's not our own notice this is not easily provoked
If you are easily provoked you have no charity
You can't have both if you are easily triggered you don't have charity the liberals are not charitable
Leftists are not charitable. Democrats are not charitable. They don't have godly charity.
They are very easily triggered. Faggots have zero charity. You look at a tranny and you
accidentally say sir or something. It's like it's ma'am. It has no charity. It's easily
provoked today. And you know what? How embarrassing is it when a man is just easily triggered
You just get this the second hand embarrassment for them go to Proverbs chapter 24 go to Proverbs chapter 4
We need to be strong and not feeble
We need to be a kind of guy that it's like man, it doesn't really matter what you say what you do around this guy
He doesn't care
Honey badger don't care
I mean, that's the kind of men that I want to be around.
I don't want to be around men where I feel so,
I feel so nervous and I have to walk on eggshells
about everything I do and everything I say
and they're going to just be so triggered
by anything and everything.
They can't take a joke.
They can't take a criticism.
They can't take a sermon.
You know what, that is someone
that doesn't like hard preaching.
Recently, there was a single guy that rage quit our church because seven months ago,
when we were at our chili cook-off, I was looking for judges and I couldn't find enough
because most every husband, his wife, entered in the chili competition.
And I don't want, you know, there'd be bias, so I don't let them judge.
So I said, there's a bunch of single guys there, I said, hey, any womenless men can
help me judge?
The guy never said anything at the time never brought up now seven months later
He's rage quit the church because of that joke
Dude you're you're in the new IFB and you can't even take a joke
You can't even take a little comment. What's wrong with you?
That is just so soft. That is so feeble. Hey, you're going to a soul-winning church reaching thousands of people with the gospel
and you can't even take a joke!
You're a joke!
And how in the world are you gonna say that you have charity when you're that easily provoked?
You would not be able to take any kind of adversity.
And, you know, it's just sad that we have people that act like this that get so offended.
You know, the Bible says if the footmen have leery thee, how are you going to contend with horses?
I mean, the Bible is saying, hey, not only you need to run with men, you need to run with horses.
But you can't take a joke. Wow. Wow.
And this person wants me to apologize and I'm like, I'm not going to apologize to you. That'll only make you worse.
I said, you know what? You need to just man up.
You need to quit you quit you like a man and be strong and get over yourself and just move on with your life and accept
Your reality, but this person's sensitive in this area because they're single
Not my fault
I'm not telling women not to date you
You're doing a good job without your own
How's that my problem? You know, I really have a hard time empathizing with the single guys as much just because in the Bible
I don't read about all these guys struggling to be with women. I read the opposite
Have you ever read the Bible? I
Mean how many guys in the Bible are struggling with finding a woman? It's like finding too many women
You kind of have the Benjamites, I guess, but like they go and just grab a girl dancing and like be my wife
You know what? I mean
There's like bam just grab one or whatever
You you know you read about a small group of people
They just they have that whole story about Benjamin and they get
Decimated and they have like a few guys left and they're like what do we can do for wives?
They're like there's some girls dancing grab one
Come on
It's like David explaining to David like man, you know women. He's like, yeah, I got way too many
Solomon way too many. Okay. There's men have a problem with women, but it's not the way you have it. All right
I'll just say that why because strong men don't have that problem soft men have that problem
You know, why is it that Japan is struggling all young ladies are struggling to get husbands?
Because the guys are soft
You know probably France is the same issue because the men are soft
I'll tell you what soft men do not attract women if you want a woman be strong
And you know what being offended by jokes is not going to win you over with women
If you complain to your wife about man this guy made a joke, and I'm just all offended
She's gonna look at you like you're sad
And if you were dating, she might break up with you.
I don't know, I'm just trying to give you some advice here.
If you don't like my advice, you can go anywhere else.
I don't care.
Passengers will be back next week.
Proverbs 24, look at verse five.
A wise man is strong.
Yea, a man of knowledge increases strength.
So point one is this, instead of being feeble,
you need to be strong.
Here's the second point.
Instead of being a fool, you need to be smart.
Wise men are going to be strong and they're going to increase strength.
That tells me that strong men are wise.
And at the end of the day, what does this really look like?
Well, when you don't have answers, when you can't say anything,
when you have nothing to say, it's being soft.
Whereas when you're red, you're bold and you have an answer, that's being tough.
You ask the Jehovah's Witness what you have to do to be saved and it's going to be a soft answer.
You ask the non-denominational pastor about doctrine,
he's going to give you a soft answer because he doesn't really know what to say.
They're confused, they themselves don't know.
Hey, you ask a man in faith where Baptist Church,
he'll show you in 10 minutes how to be saved, with confidence.
They'll say, no one can know if they're saved.
Someone from this church will say, I know how to be saved, I am saved,
and I can show you how to get saved right now.
because he's strong, because he's smart, because he's wise, because he has answers.
A fool doesn't even know what to say, and because he doesn't have anything to say,
because he's stupid, because he has not read anything, he hasn't learned anything,
he doesn't have knowledge, he's soft. What does the Bible say in the next few verses?
Look at verse number seven.
Wisdom is too high for a fool, he openeth not his mouth and the gate.
When you don't have wisdom, you don't stand up and you don't judge.
You don't call anything out. Why is it that non-denominational pastors?
Why is it that all of these southern Baptist preachers aren't ever getting up in the news?
They're not getting headlines like pastor Oz of it's terrifying because they have nothing to say
because they're soft
Why is it that they're not getting all these clips of their hard preaching and ripping face and calling people out?
It's because they're soft. It's because they're fools and they don't have anything to say.
So they shut their mouths and they say nothing.
You know what? It takes a strong man to learn what the Bible says, hear the harsh truths and then just open his mouth and say it.
You know what? Jesus Christ crushed the Pharisees in arguments.
Who was put to silence the Pharisees were put to silence because their fools and they have nothing to say
Paul put the Jews to silence
Steven smashed the Jews they didn't have anything to say so they had to just try and kill him
Apollo was a man mighty in the scriptures and mighty in the word and he was able to mightily convince the Jews because he was
Wise and he had something to say
You know what being strong is having answers
The Bible says that if a woman wants to learn anything she's supposed to ask her husband at home
And you know what a woman likes a woman likes a man that has answers
Not a fool that just says I don't know I don't care. I'm just gonna drink my beer and watch NASCAR
What a loser what does the Bible say? Oh
You know what you sound you sound like somebody from the South
and look I'm from the south we're not all retards okay some people are but you
know Florida man that guy he'll just open his mouth and say I'm a retard from
the pulpit there was a guy preaching behind a pulpit in Florida at a church
called Revival Baptist Church saying I'm a retard I'm an idiot I don't even know
I can't even read half the words on this page.
That is not a strong man.
That's not what the Bible teaches.
The Bible says to get wisdom.
Can you imagine saying,
hey, I'm going to get up here and preach this book.
I don't even know what half the words are on this page.
Can we get anybody else up here to teach?
Is that the best guy in the room?
Like if he knows only half,
what does the rest of the crowd know?
I mean, you're just a functioning idiot, like how in the world is that the Word of God being
thundered forth from a pulpit?
Of course they're not going to preach the hard truths of the Bible, because they're
espousing foolishness, nonsense, stupidity.
And this is what the world's turning into, it's turning into the movie Idiocracy, where
everybody just watches a man's rear end fart on screen and laugh.
What the movie's about.
Isn't that what the world's deteriorating into tick-talking shorts just watching slap humor
Slapstick comedy where people are just falling down hurting themselves. You know the movie jackass
Where they just go around and hurt themselves. It's so funny. How is hurting yourself on you know in the Bible when people hurt themselves
They said oh, they're demon possessed
They didn't think of that was super cool. That's being a fool
And you know what, that's being soft, smart men, wise men have something to say.
You know what the Bible says?
In Jude chapter 1, that we're supposed to earnestly contend for the faith which is once
delivered unto the saints.
How are you supposed to do that if you have nothing to say, if you have nothing?
Men are supposed to fight!
And we fight with our words, we fight with the truth, we fight with knowledge.
If your wife has a question, you give her an answer.
There was a time when me and my wife were reading through the Bible.
and I was trying to convince her of the King James
and different doctrines,
and I was trying to say like,
hey, if you have a question, ask me.
And I remember she asked me at one point,
like Mark 13, she says, what is this chapter?
She's like, I have a question in this chapter.
And I didn't know what the question was,
but I thought, you know, I don't want to go home,
and her asked me this question,
and then I'm like, kind of just,
In shock, I don't know what to say or whatever, so I'm like, okay
I'm just gonna read this whole chapter and I'm gonna think about every verse and if I don't feel confident about every verse
I'm gonna figure it out before I get home
So I'm like reading it and then it says like after that tribulation and I was like
What in the world did that just say because that was pre-trib at the time?
And I'm thinking like what in the world so then I'm like flipping the first this line is for and I'm like studying
And then I basically became post-trib before I got home because I'm just like well
I bet that's a question and I'm all like ready. I'm all like ready when she comes home
You know for the question. I think she forgot. She didn't even care later, but you know what I
Did not want to show up ill-prepared. I didn't want to be soft
I didn't want to show up my wife's like hey, what is the Bible mean? I'm like, I don't know I
Wanted to be ready. I wanted to have an answer. I want to say this is what this verse means
This is what the Bible is saying. You know what that's what a strong man is like
is a man that can explain the Bible to his wife and he has an answer
and he's confident and he knows what the book says. And look, if you're saved and have the Holy Spirit
there is nothing in the Bible you can't understand. On your own if you read and you study and you pray
and you ask God for wisdom and you should be doing that every day.
I don't care if you're never going to be a pastor, you better know what the Bible says
and you better have answers for your wife, otherwise you're soft.
You know what women want a husband that are explaining the Bible to them?
And, you know, I thought about this, like, womanless man thing.
I don't even know if that's even unbiblical to say that, because, you know, the Bible
talks about women asking men to marry them to take away their reproach, saying, like,
not getting married for a really long period of time is, like, kind of a reproach.
Why do you think that Leah is given unto Jacob?
Because it was embarrassing.
What's going on? What's wrong with Leah? So, you know, her dad kind of had to trick Jacob into marrying Leah
So that she wouldn't have that reproach of no one wanting to marry her and at the end of the day
It's like yeah, if you're just really undesirable, maybe there's something you can change
Now look, being single, there's nothing wrong with being single.
According to the Bible, you can be single, and in fact, you can be the greatest Christian
alive like the Apostle Paul.
But at the end of the day, yeah, you know, usually people are single for a reason, and
don't be too sensitive, just realize where you can change and change.
And if you're a man, maybe you're just too soft.
Maybe you're just a little bit soft in some area, like you're a snowflake and get offended
by jokes.
Go over to Proverbs 24, I don't know if you've changed or not, but look at verse 10 now.
The Bible says this,
So number one, don't be feeble, be strong. Number two, don't be a fool, be smart. Number three, don't faint, be steadfast.
Hey, when there's any kind of opposition, when there's something that goes against you, you know what, don't faint, be steadfast.
actually endure some difficulty, have some faith in the Word of God, have some faith in the Bible.
You know, we go through, as our churches, we go through a little bit of persecution.
And I say a little bit, because have you ever read the Bible?
They're actually put in prison and killed, and horrible things are happening to them.
We have the occasional protester or something.
It's like, wow, big whoop.
The persecution that we endure is so light,
I feel like the apostles have second-hand embarrassment
when people are offended by our persecution.
They're thinking like, man, that's really sad.
You know, we're over here.
The apostle Paul is being drugged out of the city and stoned to death,
and you're like, a protester might show up.
Wow.
And you're so offended.
You know, that's fainting in the day of adversity.
And it's like, how are you going to go through the great tribulation when the anti-crisis
calling for your head and you're afraid of one little tiny dyke protester?
You're afraid of a faggot, some dude in a dress.
How are you afraid of that?
You know, it's just sad.
Or here's the thing, some pastors, they're afraid of the deacons of their church.
They're afraid of the deacons wise in their church.
How are you going to face the Antichrist when you can't even tell your wife what to do?
You can't even tell your church members what to do.
You can't even just be a man, hey, you know what, when you get a little bit of adversity,
don't faint, be steadfast.
Hey, you know what, churches, they're going to have ebbs and flows.
Churches are going to constantly have people come and go all the time.
Don't faint.
You know, this is what's sad.
I mean, how many people have moved across the country to come to this church?
Yeah, and I guarantee most of you didn't even have a friend here when you came.
But then you might make a great friend.
That's a cherry on the top.
But then what happens when your great friend leaves?
Why in the world would you leave the church?
You didn't move here for them.
You didn't move here for that person.
You moved here to go to a good church.
So why in the world if you lost a friend would you leave a church but you don't people do that?
Somebody moved like 1,400 miles to come to our church
and they live like 10 minutes from the church.
And I'm like, yeah, we're gonna have to probably move.
We moved like 20 minutes away, now it's too far.
I'm like, you moved 1,400 miles to come to this church
and now 20 minutes is too far?
Like what is wrong with you?
Who in here drives longer than 20 minutes to church?
Yeah, hands all over the building.
Yeah, it's just called reality. It's called life.
That's not being someone that's strong, that's someone that's soft.
That's someone that faints in the day of adversity.
A 20-minute car drive.
That is not adversity.
I mean, the adversity that men are fainting at...
I mean, have grown men tell me they can't come to church because now it's going to be a 20-minute drive.
I'm thinking like, wow, you're soft.
Wow, that's crazy.
Go to John chapter six, go to John chapter six.
I'm trying to get through these points real quick
because I have a lot more things to yell at you.
Why?
You need to stop being soft.
And you know what, sometimes when men come to me and they're being a little soft I might
be a little bit gracious to them, but you know what, I don't want you to think I will
be.
I want you to anticipate I won't treat you that way, okay?
Because you need to be tough.
And you know, hey, I'm not saying that men can't cry, I'm not saying that men can't
be emotional.
You know what, if your wife dies, I hope you cry.
If your children die, I hope you cry.
You can cry, okay?
If someone tells a joke about you and you cry you're a wussy
You're a pansy you're way too soft just like your teeth
Hey, you know if they broke me with a little poker
It should just be solid if someone throws a rock at my teeth and they break well, okay that happens right and at the end
Of the day. Yeah, obviously men can be emotional. Hey
We need to condescend a little state. We need to weep with them that weep
There's a time to weep and there's a time to cry, but you know what? It's not about your feelings getting hurt
Because of a joke or some little insensitive insensitivity or something, you know, that's just sad and it's embarrassing
It's just really really embarrassing and here's another thing that men do that are really soft is they fear
Soft men are afraid and they fear
But you know what, we should be, we should be sure.
Look what it says in John 6 verse 66.
From that time, many of his disciples went back and walked no more with him.
Then said, Jesus unto the twelve will also go away.
Then Simon Peter answered him, Lord, to him shall we go.
That's the words of eternal life and we believe and are sure that thou art that Christ the son of the living God
Hey, a lot of people quit a lot of people gave up
But you know what the disciples said hey, we're sure that you're Jesus Christ
And you know what don't give up on Christianity don't give up on the word of God
Don't give up on a great soul-winning church
Just be sure that you're gonna serve God be confident in the things of God. Don't be afraid
Don't fear don't give up because of adversity. Don't
be steadfast. Don't fear, be sure. We should be sure and steadfast. Isn't that what we
see in the hymns? Go over to 2 Timothy chapter 1. Hey, you know what you should do? You should
be ready for some persecution. You know, it's sad how athletes today that aren't even doing
any kind of real spiritual work can be more tough than Christians. You know, athletes,
They want to hit somebody and they want to get hit hockey players. They're ready to fight
In fact, one of their attributes that they look at them and they say hey
We're evaluating how good a player are their fighting ability is one of those assets and
How hard they hit people is another one of their assets and if someone's too soft
They don't want to play them and it's kind of sad how there's so many men that are just so soft
They can't take a hit and they can't give a hit
And they don't want to get hit
You know what as a man you got to be ready. Hey, I'm gonna take some hits
Second Timothy chapter 1 look at verse 8 be not that they were ashamed of the testimony of our Lord
Nor me as prisoner but be thou partaker of the afflictions of the gospel according to the power of God
Hey, if you're gonna serve Jesus Christ, you ain't all that will have God in Christ Jesus shall suffer persecution
If you try to serve God guess what your in-laws are gonna say bad things about you
Your parents may say things that are nasty about you your brother and sister and cousin and uncle and aunt and
Whoever your best friend your high school best friend your co-worker your boss your mayor your governor
Whoever they're gonna say me nasty horrible things about you. Just be a partaker of the afflictions of the gospel
Just say hey, I'm ready to take some hits
Hey, I'm ready for you to say nasty evil things about me because I know you're lying
I'm ready to do this because you know what, I'm supposed to be like Christ and I'm supposed to be ready to take some hits.
Jesus Christ had to be ready to take some hits. Why do you think he was praying in the Garden of Gethsemane?
He knew he was about to take some hits.
Now, he wasn't looking for the hits, he didn't necessarily just want to go through unnecessary pain,
but he said, hey, not my will be done but thine.
If God wants to give you some nasty hits, you should just take them.
Turn the other cheek, move on, and let's go.
If you're in this church and you think I don't want to take any hits,
I don't want any suffering, I don't want any pain, I don't want any persecution,
you're in the wrong church. You're not only in the wrong church, you're in the wrong religion.
Christianity, you're gonna take some hits.
Imagine signing up to play in the NHL and say,
I don't want to do this if I'm gonna ever get checked against the boards.
I don't want anybody ever hit me. They're gonna say, sorry, wrong sport.
You're looking for you're looking for a completely different sport. What's the stupid tennis alternative y'all play?
Pickleball, that's yeah, that's your sport
Sorry, you don't want to get checked against the boards pickleball
You don't want to run pickleball
You don't want to have to move too much pickleball. You want every age to be able to play pickleball
Look and look if you play pickleball, I'm not trying to attack you. You're just soft
Now look obviously at the end of the day, you know, why why does pickleball thrive because everybody can play?
It's like why does the nomin non-denominational church thrive because everybody can play?
But let me tell you something. This is a different kind of sport here. This is like the NHL
You're gonna get some checks here, and you know what it's for strong men
Why do you think strong men hate the non-denominational church?
It's boring, it's weak, it's soft.
You think the super athletic strong men are like, let's go play some pickleball.
They make fun of it.
They're like, it's a little soft.
And look, I'm not saying if you've ever played pickleball, you're a bad person or you can't
be a strong guy.
I'm just saying, if that's your highest level of activity, you need to go a little harder.
It's like the message of the bibles, okay? It's not really gonna do anything for you
Now look if you're being paid, you know my company they paid me to play pickleball other employees
I was like, okay, I guess
But I wasn't like hey, this is real hard. I
Wasn't like I'm going hard now man. I'm a real man because I played some pickleball
You know
That's not that's not hard. Look at first Timothy chapter number two
First Timothy chapter number two. So number one, don't be feeble, be strong. Number two, don't be a fool, be smart. Number three,
don't faint, be steadfast. Number four, don't fear, be sure. Here's number five. Don't be a feminist, be salty.
Doesn't the Bible tell us to be salt?
And you know, I like Paul. First Timothy chapter two, look at verse 12. But I suffer not a woman to teach. That's salty.
Hey, you know what not suffering means? He doesn't allow it. I don't allow women to teach
Well, what if they try? I don't allow women to teach. What if they want to I don't allow women to teach
The Apostle Paul allows some things. In fact, he said I endure all things for the elect's sake
He talks about how he's made himself a servant unto all.
Unto the Jew, I became a Jew.
Hey, unto the Gentile, he's gonna be a Gentile.
He's reaching the barbarians,
but I won't let a woman teach.
He's like, I'll go all kinds of things.
I'll be shit prep in the deep.
I'll do all kinds of things for you,
but I won't be a feminist.
The Apostle Paul even had a line.
He said, this line for feminism?
No, it's off limits.
I never will, I'm salty.
I will not allow a woman to teach.
And not only that, what did you say? Nor do you serve authority over the man.
But to be in silence. Now, of course, we have to understand the context of this passage is teaching the Bible, teaching the Word of God.
That's clearly what it's saying.
Obviously, the Bible wants women to teach in other contexts. The Bible is explicitly clear. Women should be teaching their children.
You know, there's other
capacities and contexts upon women teaching. The Bible has women preaching the gospel to the lost,
but when we show up in church, the Bible says they're silent and
No women are allowed to teach, period.
Nor do you serve authority over men.
You know, it just doesn't make sense.
It's uncommonly, it's wrong and we need some salt.
You know what the Bible says of the salt they've lost savor?
It's good for nothing.
And men that are feminists are good for nothing.
Men allowed women to vote.
They are feminists and not salty.
Men who make their wives get jobs and won't provide, the Bible says they're worse than an infidel.
The Bible says if a man will not provide for his own and for his own house, he is worse than an infidel.
A strong man provides for his household.
A strong man pays the bills.
You know, there's that old adage of, he who has the gold makes the rules.
You want to rule your house, have all the gold.
You're gonna go put your wife in a pants and go make her be the boss?
Well, she's gonna probably boss you around too when she gets home
Men who allow their wives to tell them what to do are soft and they are feminist and they are not salty
They're good for nothing
You know, here's the thing. I can't technically force my wife to do anything because there's free will
But let me tell you something. She definitely can never force me to do anything
While I can't technically force my wife to do something she'll never force me to do something
I don't want to and as a man, I will do what's necessary to keep my wife in line
Obviously there's free will on the table
But you know what? I'm gonna do everything necessary to keep her in line and to do what she needs to do
Because that's what I'm supposed to do as a man. I'm supposed to rule over her
That's what the Bible says in Genesis chapter number three. I'm supposed to rule over you know what a ruler does he makes rules
How dare you have rules for your wife? Well, you know what? You're not salty. You're a feminist. I
Make rules for my wife. Well, that sounds like you're treating her like a child. I don't care what you think
Yeah, I have rules for my wife that she has to obey and she doesn't necessarily agree
She just does what I tell her
There are things that my wife doesn't want to do that would do differently if I didn't have a rule and I have a rule
And she does what I want
You know how many rules my wife has for me? Zero.
And if she tried to make one, she better try and make me do it and it'll never happen. Ever.
Oh, you're just, you're just mean. No, I'm salty.
You're a feminist.
I will do what's necessary to keep my wife in line and you know what?
Some men don't get this point because they have a very naturally submissive wife.
There are some women in this world who are just very naturally submissive
They're they're they're ready-made in that sense. You don't have you don't even have to do anything
They're just pretty much just gonna be yes, sir doing it. This is especially when you import from a foreign country
Why do you think these passport bros are shopping around just telling you
But but let me explain something to you if your wife is naturally submissive like that
You're in danger of becoming soft
You're in danger of becoming soft because you could become very weak and prideful and you don't realize
What's actually going on your relationship? Think about it this way?
If you have a home gym
And you have free weights
It's a lot easier to do a five pound dumbbell than a fifty pound dumbbell
It's a lot easier.
In fact, you could argue it's almost no work at all.
But here's the thing, you're not going to get strong by lifting five pound dumbbells.
And in the same way, if your wife is just so obedient and just so submissive, you never
end up building those muscles of actually understanding how to lead and how to rule
and how to deal with difficult situations.
And so sometimes you can become very soft.
But what happens is men don't realize they're soft, they think they're better than everybody
and it's even more dangerous.
And they think that their wife is awesome
because they're awesome.
Let me explain something to you.
If your wife is awesome, it's because she's awesome.
Like, it's crazy to me.
There'll be guys, they marry a woman.
You know, this woman's 20 years old.
They marry her two weeks from now
and she's really submissive and nice and sweet.
And they think it's because they're awesome.
I'm like, bro, what do you think
When you weren't in the picture you just happened to get a nice woman in fact you might even ruin it
By being so soft
You know, maybe it was the other people in her life that was influencing her
But at the end of the day, you know why she's awesome because she has free will and she's choosing to be submissive
And look is there anything wrong with a woman being submissive? No
I'm not saying hey. I'm not telling you ladies kick it up a notch
Because your husband's a little soft
I'm trying to say look if you got a really submissive wife don't look down on other guys and think oh
Man, he must be doing something wrong. That would be like you sitting over here bragging about lifting five pound dumbbells. Oh
Wow, that's amazing. You're so awesome. What a strong guy you are
But there's a lot of guys and then this is what they think they think oh, I'm such an amazing leader
That's why she's following me. Okay. What about the amazing leaders in the Bible? How about Moses?
I mean isn't this guy an amazing leader? Oh, yeah, Zipporah
Shouldn't she just do everything that he says but you know what she's doing. She's throwing bloody foreskins at him
How about David?
I mean, David is epic.
David is super awesome.
Every woman wants to be with David.
And then my cow is just running her mouth against him
and attacking him for wanting to serve God.
Do you think that's a coincidence that the two greatest leaders
in the Bible wives won't submit to them?
Because there's this stupid idea of, quote,
servant leadership that just says, look,
if you're just an awesome leader,
everybody's just going to serve you magically awesome.
Okay, then, isn't Jesus our leader?
I mean, riddle me this.
If servant leadership is biblical, then why are we not all perfect?
Because Jesus is our leader.
Didn't he serve?
Wasn't he a servant?
Did he have a perfect example?
So then how come we're not perfect?
How come everybody's not a die-hard Christian and follower of Jesus?
I guess your stupid little servant leadership doesn't really make sense.
Now, let me tell you something.
Being a great leader maximizes the results.
If you're a great leader, you will maximize the results of those under you, but there
is no guarantee.
And you know what it really takes?
It takes someone that has the free will to make the choice to say, you know what?
I want to serve Jesus.
You know why people are in this church?
Because they had free will and they chose to serve Jesus Christ.
You know why people got baptized?
Because they chose with their free will to get baptized.
It's not like you're so much better of a soul winner because your convert got baptized.
It's because they have their own free will, want to serve Jesus Christ at the end of the day.
And in the same way, those under your authority have to exercise their own free will
and take their own responsibility for their actions and say,
I'm going to make the right decision. I'm going to make the right choice.
Now as a good example and a good leader, you will encourage those under you to make good decisions.
And you can influence them, but you can't guarantee it, can you?
But let me tell you something. You know, I'm sick and tired of men allowing their wives to tell them what to do
Men need to just tell their wives to get in line
And they need to get in line
That's how the world works and if she won't get in line. Well, that's her fault. I
Mean Mike. I won't get in line. Okay be barren
Sephora you don't want to get in line. Okay. I'm gonna marry an Ethiopian woman now
Vast you won't get in line, okay, you're all going to replace you with Esther.
I mean, God has no problem just replacing women.
God has no problem just killing women.
You want to just be this stubborn and rebellious woman, God could just kill you and give him
another wife.
Is that what you want?
Do you want your husband, you don't want to be the submissive wife that your husband
deserves, well maybe God will just give him a new one.
You know, God's attitude was with Moses when the children of Israel were stubborn and rebellious.
You want me to just kill them all and start over?
Maybe you're still alive because your husband's asking God to keep you around.
Have you ever thought about that?
You know, I've seen this sad video, the president, I think it's president, of France, Macron.
Is it president?
I don't even know if that's the right term.
Macron got, like, you know, B-Slapped by his wife.
I call it wife for a reason, but he just got completely just slapped down by his wife, whatever it is.
And it's just, like, that's so embarrassing.
That is super wrong.
Now, there's another guy that got slapped publicly by his wife.
It was Dana White of the UFC.
This was a few years ago or something.
And you know what Dana White did?
He knocked her down. I'm telling you what she like slaps him and then he's just like
She went down
Now then the media somebody got a video of this and uploaded it and it just got all this attention
Everybody's freaking out and losing their mind
You know, I I watched it. I just said like yeah
move on
You know the world loses their mind over this kind of stuff, okay?
And of course Dana White made this huge apology and I'm so sorry and there's no excuse and
I should never, you know, do this kind of stuff and whatever.
And I'm just like, you know, everybody gets all mad about what he did.
But I'm thinking like, why is no one mad that a woman totally disrespects her husband and
slaps him in public?
You know, people say like, oh, how dare you act like it's not that big a deal.
Well, how dare you act like it's not a big deal for a woman to slap her husband in public?
And to think that there should be no consequence to that.
You know, how is that okay?
How is it okay?
Sorry if my mic's down.
This is important stuff.
I need to yell about this louder.
Look, how is it okay for a woman to slap her husband in public with no consequence?
Riddle me that.
That is evil.
And you say like, oh, how dare he do that?
Well, you know what?
If you're going to slap your husband in public, you know, I'm going to look the other way.
He's like, oh, you're condoning violence.
You're condoning violence by allowing women
to slap their husband in no consequence.
So which one is it?
What do you like?
Now look, I don't think men should beat up their wives
or their children.
That's ridiculous.
I've never heard anybody advocate for that.
That is just super bad.
But you know what to say?
There shouldn't be consequences for women
to just disrespect their husbands is ridiculous.
And that's a bad society.
There's a lot of men today that allow their wives to speak for them, just like Ahab allowed
Jezebel to speak for him and to write letters in his name.
But let me tell you something, my wife's not going to go online and speak for me.
I'm not going to go on my wife's channel and my wife's podcast to defend myself from
attackers.
My wife's Facebook account is not going to go online and defend me publicly and then
This is soft
We're talking about soft men, you know being salty is at least defending yourself go to Drone 25
Say, where's the Bible in this? I'll show you do Drone 25 all right
You know what we need some men that are tough today and can fight their own battles
And it's soft when you need your wife to fight battles for you
You know why let me then explain something to you also if your wife is getting involved in a fight, you know why?
You're losing
If you're if you're winning in a fight your wife's just gonna sit there and cheer
Your wife's in here like sock them get them. No no mercy rip is that all she's like Mortal Kombat finish him, you know
That's what she's saying
If you're winning and just totally crushing the opponent. She's just backing off and just like that's my husband, you know
After he's done with him. She's he's gonna get me in line, too. You know, that's what she's thinking
You know why she gets involved in the fight?
Because she notices her husband losing.
And of course, that's brought up in the Bible.
What happens when men are fighting and the husband's losing?
Deuteronomy 25, look at verse 11.
When men strive together, one with another,
and the wife of the one draw near,
Ford noticed this, to deliver her husband
out of the hand of him that smited him.
What is the context two men are fighting one is losing when the guy is losing because he's a loser
What happens the wife draws near she needs to try and rescue her husband and she put a fourth her hand and take them by the secrets
Then that's not cut off her hand. I shall not pity her
How how in the world can I get up as a Baptist preacher and say how dare
Dana White slap his wife when the Bible says cut her hand off. I
Mean did you read the did you read the Bible with me?
I'm reading the King James Bible the word of God
It says if a woman gets involved in a spat and she does a cheap shot to the guy cut her hand off and
Then you're offended by a guy slapping down his wife
You don't believe the Bible. You're a feminist. I'm salty. I
Think look if a woman's gonna go out there and grab men by the secrets they should get their hands cut off and that's not Afghanistan
Puzzarenski, that's King James Bible
We don't need Afghanistan to get our wives in line. Well, you know what the Bible is saying this I
Mean what church did you walk into? Do you think I believe the Bible here?
The good bad the ugly the wise getting their hands cut off
You know, I preached this years back and a bunch of Baptist lost their mind
Started pulling their hair out and letting their wives defend them after this verse
And I'm just thinking like why would you let why would you do that?
Look my wife's not going to defend me and even if I'm losing can I just lose an honor I
Don't need my wife to start taking cheap shots for me
And of course why do women take cheap shots because that's the only way they can contend
She can't actually beat a man, but she could do a cheap shot to basically gain advantage in this situation.
And you know what the Bible is saying? That's so wicked, it's so evil.
This principle should be women should not contend with men.
They should allow their husbands to defend themselves.
And you know what? You're a soft man when your wife has to defend you.
You know, women today, they're complaining about mansplaining.
And, you know, it's soft when men are afraid to mansplain.
You know, what is mansplaining?
Mansplaining is when a man explains to a woman
what she already knows.
And then they complain about this idea like,
well, I already knew that.
You know what it made me think of?
It made me think of how when we go out soul-winning
and we're asking someone how to be saved
and they're like, be a good person.
You can lose your salvation.
You can't live every want.
And then you explain them in the Gospel
and they're like, oh, I already believe what you told me.
No, you didn't
That's why I just explained it to you
And it's like all this mansplaining. It's like they're using all the wrong terminology and don't know what the heck
They're saying and you explain to them. They're like, oh, I already understood that. I knew that
That's women excusing. You know what I mean?
It's woke using this is my new term. It's woke using when you claim that you already understood this stuff
Even though you really didn't just like there's all these unsaved people that were explaining them how to be saved and then
They're like, oh, I already got that. No, you didn't
Why because there's so many things that men need to step women straight on and
Let me tell you something. Why in the world are we letting women vote?
We need to man-splain to them why they're not allowed to vote
We need to man-splain to them why they're not in charge
We need to man-splain to them the things because they're somehow just not getting it.
Why they need to just obey us.
You know, men need to be salty today. They need to tell their wives what to do.
You need to correct your wife.
If you never correct your wife, you might be a feminist.
If you don't have consequences for your wife disobeying you, you might be a feminist.
If you don't have answers for your wife, you might be a feminist.
If you don't provide for your family, you're a feminist.
If you don't lead the family, you're a feminist.
If you don't go to Faith Ward Baptist Church
and you live here, you're probably a feminist.
There are so many men today that can't go to church and again
They're so shocked and horrified that a man might tell his wife what to do or their soul against quote violence
While they're slapping their husband around
While they're telling their husband what to do
While they're the ones wearing the pants
Hey, you know what you need to take our soul winning too
Hey, you need to have some controversial takes
And you need to stand up for what's right.
And I've just seen so many men take soft stances because they won't correct their wife.
The rife says something wrong, or lies, especially about a pastor.
And instead of just saying, you know what, my wife lied and is wrong, they just side
with their wife and that's soft.
It's soft to say that you can't just say what's right, you know what?
So they lie, they rail, they quit church because they have to side with their wife because they're afraid of the
Consequences of their wife. My wife isn't gonna give me consequences. Let me tell you something. I don't sleep in the doghouse
I don't even have a doghouse because I don't have a dog. I
Sleep in my bed every night that I'm home. I
Wear the only pants in our household
I tell my wife what to do, you know what, I'm sick of all these soft men today that won't leave their family.
What happens if she, you know, blah blah blah, I don't know, we don't need to find out.
Oh man, your wife must be so oppressed. Go ask my wife, she seems real happy.
It's like well what happens you know if you need to you know push comes to shove well the worst thing I've ever done
My wife is tickler, okay?
But it works you know hey I
Don't have to get physically violent
But at the end of the day, you know you can still lead your household you can still rule your household and
Yeah, if you had a really really stubborn rebellious wife, and you took away her keys or credit card or something or tickled
Or I'm not gonna get mad at you
You think I'm gonna get mad at men?
I mean, there's so many men today
that are just so soft today.
Can you even stand up to your wife?
It's sad.
You need a man up.
You need to be not feeble, strong.
You need to not be a fool, you need to be smart.
You need to not faint, you need to be steadfast.
You need to not fear, you need to be sure.
You need to not be a feminist, you need to be salty.
And I have one last one for you.
Go to 1st Corinthians 6.
Feminism is destroying America.
It's destroying men.
Men today are way too soft.
We need men to be strong.
And let me tell you something, women like strong men.
Have you ever seen one of these romance novels?
The guy on the cover does not look like Richard Simmons.
The guy on the cover doesn't look like Emmanuel Macron.
The guy on the cover doesn't look like Barack Obama.
He looks like Hulk Hogan or something you know he looks ripped and shredded and
he looks like he tells that woman what to do and you know what the whole
novel's about the man telling her what to do for some reason women just like
that and you know maybe she's maybe she's just a little bit rebellious
because she's wanting you to just get her back in line have you ever thought
I mean, it's just, it's insane to me today how people are just so afraid of the natural order of things.
Women like to be dominated by a strong man, and they hate soft men.
Japanese men are struggling to get women because they're not strong.
And I'm not saying all of them, but I'm just saying that's a big problem in their country today.
There's men that are struggling. You look at the Philippines.
You know, just by and large, if you just compare just the average random dude here and the
average random dude there, you know, they're a little bit softer.
And so I think that the women there, they're just more attracted to American men in that
context.
But you know what, it's not, if America became too soft, well then the next strong guy will
come along and sweep her off her feet.
Because women just want to be swept off their feet by some strong guy.
And women like to have a guy that's strong financially,
he's strong mentally, he's strong physically,
he's strong in every way.
And he's not like a faggot.
He's not faggoty.
That's my last point.
Don't be faggoty.
Be straight.
Amen.
What does the Bible say in 1 Corinthians chapter number six?
Verse nine, it warns about a particular sin.
It's only mentioned one time.
But it, that's all the dimensions I need.
Verse nine.
Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God?
Be not deceived, neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate,
nor abusers of themselves of mankind, nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkers, nor vials, nor extortioners,
shall inherit the kingdom of God.
Hey, the Bible is saying being effeminate is a sin, and look, every sin sends you to hell,
and look, being effeminate is acting like a woman.
You're not quitting yourself like men, you're being like a woman.
What's a woman? She's soft.
Look, there's nothing wrong with being soft.
If you're a woman, but if you're a man, you need to be strong and you need to be strong so your wife can be soft and you need to be straight and not act like a faggot.
Don't talk with a soft, lispy voice. It is weird and it happens when men come into this church and they sound like that.
That's what I'm thinking.
Maybe I should just start saying it.
Don't dress in queer, tight, bright shorts,
or in queer-looking clothing, or having long hair,
or looking effeminate.
Men should just not look effeminate, not sound effeminate.
And look, if you struggle with that, change.
Just grunt or something.
Just be like Tim the toolman.
Hey, Pastor Sally, I would way rather talk to you.
Hey, Pastor Sally, how's it going?
I really like your sermon about being strong.
I really like that point about not being faggoty.
Shut up!
Quit being effeminate.
Dude, in June, you don't want to go around
talking to people like that.
People will be afraid of you like what's wrong with you sound like a man speak like a man dress like a man
Don't act like a faggot don't look like you're about to go to the parade this month
And go dress with a bunch of queers
You know go to go to Romans one
Probably should go there every every week this month
You know being a feminine is is not cool. It's not trendy. Nobody likes it
Girls don't want you to marry them. They want to go shopping and look I hate shopping
What men in here hate shopping? Amen. Yes. I hate shopping because I'm not a faggot
Okay, I'm not gonna go hold your purse and go tell you you look beautiful in every outfit or whatever
You know what I don't care
I'm not into clothes. I'm not into vanity. I'm not into makeup. I'm not into all this frilly stuff
I'm a man and at the end of the day, you know faggots are super into their appearance, aren't they?
They take hours to groom themselves like a woman
They want to be soft and they want their skin to look all so clean and nice and shiny
And they want to wear the bright colors and talk all soft. Don't talk soft to me
Talk like you want everyone else to hear our conversation.
Has something cool to say, right?
You know, I preached this one time.
I said, look, if you're struggling with being soft,
you know, maybe get a louder car.
Someone got offended by this.
Some man got offended by this.
I'm thinking like, what is wrong with you?
Look, there's a reason why girls like guys on motorcycles
and on bikes and on loud, nice, expensive cars.
It seems like a strong guy that can provide.
Riding in his chariot.
Riding on the big horse.
The knight in shining armor.
Okay? Not a rainbow colored
outfit. Prancing along.
Like a little fairy.
The fairy is galloping in the forest.
No, it's the white knight with a sword
on a stallion.
Right? On a strong,
fast stallion
that they're gonna get on and they're gonna
gallop off to their castle.
Whereas this big castle they're gonna live in.
Oh, but you want to be soft and hang out with the faggot in the forest.
Well, you know what?
It goes shopping or something, right?
That's at the mall.
But you know what?
The Bible says that being effeminate is a sin and it's like being like a faggot because
they want to be soft.
And look, why would I want to act like something that God says is a punishment?
You realize being gay is a punishment?
That's why I always explain to people the door.
And you want to hand them a Sodomite Deception Ticket or invite to that?
I just say, look, people hate the gospel, and God punishes them by making them gay.
Watch this movie.
You know what they do? They laugh, and they're like, I want to watch this movie.
It works every time. In fact, they're like,
I was kind of busy, but I want to see that right now.
I had a lady she couldn't close the door fast enough.
She's like, I gotta go, I'm cooking.
I gotta go, I gotta go.
And I'm like, hey, okay, let's just pray.
We got saved.
And I'm like, hey, just by the way,
some people hate the gospel.
God punishes them by making them gay.
And she was just like, what?
I'm gonna go put the food on hold.
I wanted you to show me that in the Bible right now.
Like Romans one, hun.
Let's read it.
So just start reading Romans one.
Food can wait.
Look what it says in verse 18.
Something on this earth reveals God's wrath.
I mean, can we not all agree the text is saying something on the earth is revealed from heaven,
what is revealed from heaven, the wrath of God?
What is that? Anger.
God has revealed to all of us how God is angry with certain people.
That's the whole context, that's the whole setup of this whole passage.
God is revealing something to us.
What has He revealed?
Verse 26,
For this cause, God gave them up unto vile affections,
for even their women did change the natural use into that which is against nature,
and likewise also the men leaving the natural use of the woman
burned in their lust one toward another,
men with men working that which is unseemly,
and receiving in themselves that recompense of their error.
which was meat, meaning it's suitable.
And even as they did not like to retain God of the knowledge,
God gave them over to a reprobate mind
to do those things which are not convenient.
So notice, if you give up on God,
he will give you a reprobate mind.
That's what he gives people.
He doesn't necessarily force them to be a faggot,
but what he does is he gives them a reprobate mind
and allows them to become a faggot as a punishment.
That's out of their own heart and that's the wrath of God being revealed from heaven is that some people have been given a
reprobate mind
because as a man
The absolute worst punishment you could ever get is being a faggot
It is the worst thing imaginable John Chris is some said I would rather go to hell
10,000 times than be a faggot for one second. I'm paraphrasing, but that's basically what he said
I mean look if you said if again I'm saved I can't I can't not go to heaven
But if I was unsaved and God said all right, you can live a little bit longer be a faggot go straight to hell straight to hell
I mean, it's not even a question
Not only are these people faggots they want to be faggots. That's even worse
It's not against their will. They want it. They desire it. They long for it. It's insatiable.
This disgusting, filthy punishment from God. The Bible is saying this is the worst punishment from God.
And then there are straight men acting like them. Dressing like them. Being soft like them.
We should be the exact opposite of that, and not go around acting like we're being punished by God by being a faggot.
And let me tell you something, the men in this church don't look like faggots or act like faggots.
When one comes in, it stands out like a sore thumb and we throw it out.
You go to these non-denominational churches and they just blend in.
You go to some old IAB churches and they blend in.
You go to North Valley Baptist Church with Jack Trieber and not only they blend in they'll put you in the music ministry as the music pastor
as a faggot
They have all of them in their Bible college bunch of faggots. It's disgusting
It's disgusting that churches the man can be so soft that a faggot can show up and we can't even tell the difference
It should be a black and white difference between the faggots and a saved, born-again
child of God, man, quit you like men and don't be soft.
Don't sound like a queer, don't dress like a queer, don't act like a queer, act like
a man, and I'm sick of it.
What does the Bible say in verse 32?
These people are worthy of death.
It's disgusting, it's weird, I can't even wrap my mind around why a guy would act like this.
We have so many soft men today and you know what, our church needs to stand out
where people are looking from the outside in and say man the men over there are strong.
You know they're not feeble, they're strong, they're not fools, they're smart, they don't faint, they're steadfast,
they don't fear, they're sure, they're not feminist, they're salty, they're not faggoty, they're straight.
And boy, if I could just do one thing,
I would just say I want men to just not be easily offended.
Just, can I just press that?
Can you just not be offended?
Stop being offended.
Stop giving up.
Be tough.
Endure some hardships.
Tell people what to do.
Someone needs to be told what to do.
And you're the person to do it.
Be the man, you know, it used to be who's the man in charge here
Isn't it isn't it like the feminist thing like serving the man
It's like oh, we're working for the man
It's the man in charge. Someone needs to be in charge be that guy
Be that man be that ruler and you know, I believe in being a benevolent dictator all day long
But obviously we rule for the benefit of others be like Jesus. He rules for the benefit of others. He cares about others
You know, he's strong
Jesus Christ is not feeble. He's smart. He's not a fool. He's steadfast. He didn't faint at the cross
He's sure he didn't fear. He's salty. He's not a feminist. He's straight. He's not a faggot
You know what and you need to rule with authority
We need to man up, we need to toughen up, we need to endure hardness, we need to quit you like men.
You need to be strong, you need to be very courageous.
When we started this sermon, we talked about soft.
Soft is yielding readily to pressure.
You need to be steadfast and unmovable.
You know, the apostle Paul said this,
but none of these things move me.
Neither count I, my life, dear unto myself.
I will not move from this stance.
I don't care how many men become feminist, I'm not going to become feminist.
I don't care how many of you dress like a queer, I'm never dressing like a queer.
I don't care how many of you allow your wives to slap you around and tell you what to do,
my wife's never doing it.
I don't care how many of you quit, I'm not quitting.
I don't care how many of you all get offended, I'm not going to be offended.
I'm not going to get easily provoked, I'm going to stay new IFB, I'm going to stay preaching
the King James Bible, I'm going to stay preaching the hard truths of the Bible, I'm going to
keep reading about women getting their hands cut off, whether you like it or not.
And you know what, we need some other men to stand up and be men, and so we can right
the wrongs of our country.
Our country is failing because of soft men, and it's, you know what's embarrassing?
It's embarrassing how many pastors were in the new IFB, and they've just proven that
That's embarrassing.
It's embarrassing to think like, you're so soft, you're so easily offended.
You don't seem to want to rule.
You don't seem to have more respect to the Bible.
You know, it's just sad to see how many men are failing.
And I always wonder like, who are these men that voted women into power?
And I'm just like, it's these guys.
Who are the men that allowed the government to have rules where you can...
Put your husband in prison for marital rape.
Right.
Who are the men that enforce divorce proceedings against other men?
Who are the men that are allowing our United States military to walk around in high heels
as an exercise and sensitivity training?
You know, our military has the men walking around in high heels
to prove what it's like to be a woman?
You know why I don't need to know what it's like to be a woman?
I'm never gonna be a woman.
I mean, you know what?
Let's apply this to every other area.
Should I put on black paint so I can know what it's like to be a black person now?
Isn't that, like, wrong or something?
Because you know what, I'm not black and I never will be black.
Do they need to put on some stilts to see what it's like to be 6'10"?
I'm never gonna be 6'10".
I mean, do I have to gouge my eyes out?
Does no one it's like to be blind?
God willing, I'll never be blind.
I don't have to try everything out.
I'm not going to be everything.
Why can't I just be comfortable being myself?
And you know what, I'm a man.
And I'm going to keep being a man.
God didn't create me to be a woman, or a feminine,
or a queer, or a faggot.
He didn't create me to be a Calvinist,
because I don't believe in it.
You know he didn't elect me to be a Calvinist
Riddle me that
He didn't choose me to live in a different time in a different country to be a different height to be different
I am who I am and you know what?
I'm proud to be who I am because I'm fearfully and wonderfully made and I'm in the image of God
And I'm a man and God's a man and he wants men to act like men. Do you want to honor God be a man?
It's dishonoring to be effeminate and queer and soft and stop being soft.
I'm going to make fun of you.
It's closing prayer.
Thank you, Heavenly Father, so much for giving us this Bible and this instruction.
Thank you for being such a strong man.
Thank you for your example.
Thank you that when you sent your son, the Lord Jesus Christ down here, he didn't show
us some kind of a soft example, but a strong example.
One that wasn't feeble, but one that was strong.
One that didn't faint, but was steadfast.
One that didn't fear, but was sure.
One that wasn't a feminist.
But one that was confident in who he was.
He was salty. He was straight.
He was smart.
He was ready to do the task at hand.
I pray that he would raise some men today
that would be willing to be a man
to step up to the challenge.
To do something tough, to do something hard, to do what's right,
to tell people what to do, to actually rule.
You gave us the ability to dominate the earth
and to rule over this earth.
And I pray that we get some good Christian men to start ruling,
to rule their houses and to rule their state and rule their country
and rule Christianity.
And I pray that you would just help men to be more manly.
In Jesus' name we pray, amen.
Amen.
Lastly, let's turn on our hymnals to song number 131.
Song number 131. Christ is all I need.
Song number 131.
Sing it out on the first.
Christ is all I need.
I need your dismiss.