believe that the Bible teaches it's better to marry than to burn, you know, and the Bible
teaches that to avoid fornication let every man have his own wife and let every woman
have her own husband, to avoid fornication.
So the answer to avoiding fornication is to get married, that's what the Bible teaches.
Now obviously when you're a teenager that's not practical because you know you're still
too young and you're still getting established as an adult and everything and so you need
to be abstaining as a teenager and you just need to exercise self-control and wait until
you're an adult and then just because you're an adult you might not necessarily find the
right person right away but you need to pray that God will lead you to the right person
and listen guys you actually have to talk to girls you know you can't just expect it
to fall out of the sky you know you have to actually go out and look for it okay and so
you need to go out and meet people and work toward that because honestly living as a single
guy is dangerous if you're one that has a strong urge in that area you know you need
to get married that's the best way to do it and of course many churches and many sectors
of our society will discourage you from getting married and they want you to be 30 when you
get married and you know or they want you to at least wait until you finish this or
finish that or whatever but you know what I think getting married young is a good thing
in today's society now I'm not saying to rush out and just marry the first person that
comes along but honestly there's nothing wrong with getting married you know if you can find
a godly person to get married to there's nothing wrong with getting married young you
know and it's actually good for you say well you know you got to go live life but you know
what your life is not over when you get married you know I mean it's not like that's it life's
over it was fun now it's just time to begin the suffering phase you know you know you
can still enjoy life after you get married but honestly when my parents were getting
married but when my parents got married my dad was 20 and my mom was 19 and that
was normal back then I mean that was just what everybody was I wasn't
considered but then when I got married when I was 19 everybody's like whoa what
are you doing you're getting married you're 19 or a pastor Roger Jimenez in Sacramento
California he got married when he's 18 whoa what are you doing well you know
what isn't it amazing how he's serving God you know and he hasn't gone off the
deep end and he's married and has children and doing a good work for God
but then there are some of the other people who didn't get married in the
same church youth group that just kind of went off and floated around in their
single years and whatever and got away from the law and got backslidden and
everything else so in a sense getting married sometimes kind of keeps you
straight anyway you know and keeps you on the right path with with God because
it's responsibility it's good for you