Already turned aside after Satan in this portion of Scripture. The Apostle Paul is explaining the
Problem with what you would why you would not want to financially take care of a younger widow that's under 60
It's because that she needs to get married
God's will for that woman is for her to get married to bear children to guide the house
you know the Bible teaches that God's perfect will for a young lady is for her to get married and
To take care of her home and to raise her children
Now that is something that a lot of people will get upset by
And a lot of people in our society as we become more of a feminist nation that just seems shocking and horrifying
To a lot of people but that is God's perfect will for a woman and of course we understand there's situations
Where that doesn't happen, you know, I understand if you're a wife and your husband makes you work then it is what it is
There's different situations where that might have to be the case
But God's perfect will would be that a woman gets married bears children and stays home keeping the house
And here's the thing regardless of how our nation feels about this subject regardless about what our culture is like
You know, the Bible is never going to change on this issue. It says what it says. That's God's will but today
You have a lot of people that get angry about this even when I was in high school
One time I was in this English class and we had to write a paper about what we want to be when we grew up
And this one girl in my class
I remember specifically she wrote this
essay about how she wants to grow up and be a stay-at-home mother and to have kids and the teacher got up and
Ridiculed her and embarrassed her in front of the whole class saying you need to have higher goals for yourself in your life
You shouldn't just be someone's doormat and he just publicly humiliated this girl for wanting to do what's right
You know, that's what the public school is like a lot of times even me living in a very conservative state in the state of Idaho
You know
That's the type of things that young ladies are being brainwashed with
Getting made fun of by their teacher for wanting to do what God wants for their life
What a wicked thing that is, you know a lot of angry. There's a lot of angry
30 and 40 year old women in the workforce that have made a bunch of mistakes in their life that haven't followed
God's plan when it comes to this and they just despise women that choose to stay at home
They despise women that choose to be a submissive wife or that choose to raise a lot of children
So much so that a lot of these women actually equate and men to equate being a stay-at-home mom as being a slave
As being a literal slave. That's how out of touch with reality our nation has become but you know
I looked up a couple articles about this
Let me read for you a few quotes. So this quote this is actually a historical quote from a woman named Mary
Boykin chestnut and this is her diary from Dixie in
1861 so Civil War era living in the south. This is what this woman said
There is no slave after all like a wife
Poor women poor slaves all married women all children and girls who live in their father's house are slaves
So here's this angry bitter woman that's completely detached from reality
she's literally living in the slot in the south where there are slaves at this time and she says that all women and
All children are literally slaves. I
Mean has anyone in here actually ever, you know done any reading about what a slave's life is like
It is not the same as that of a housewife
But even in the 1860s there was people that believe this and today even more so
Here's a title of an article how men coerce women into domestic slavery
Here's another one housewife or house slave
Here's another one motherhood is invisible slavery
So this is what a large portion of our society believes that a woman staying at home
Being submissive to her husband raising children is a literal slave. Okay this last article
I actually want to read some of what it says here
It says when a woman has a child her own life is forfeit for the next 20 or so years
They don't get to focus on their books or their experiments or their research or their art or their music
the reason this is is
The reason this is the dominion of men is because it's the dominion of non mothers
By the time they're done raising children, they're into their 40s quite honestly
That's pretty young to be done raising children
And basically learning how to live for the first time or simply preparing for retirement and death
So this is their logic if you're a stay-at-home mom and you're done raising kids by your 40s
I mean you basically might as well just die at that point. I mean you're 40 years old. You're done
You're ready to die at 40 years old. Your life is over
I mean, what are you talking about?
40 years old is still young you still have a lot of life before you have 40 years old
No, you're just ready to retire and die these poor slaves
When a woman gets married
She is encouraged by all of her friends family and society to dress like a princess dressed in all white
She's treated like a helpless dainty and beautiful object that is to be prized and protected by her husband. How
Terrible, I mean how terrible that a woman would want to dress nice and look beautiful and be prized in the eyes of her
Husband and want to be protected by her husband. I mean, this is slavery. That's what slaves were like, right?
I mean slaves in Dixie in the 1860s
They were dressed in the nicest clothes and their master just wanted to pay for them and protect them and cherish them
That's what they that's what they did right? That's slavery Wow
That's
The roleplay for millions upon millions of weddings
Repeatedly across most of human civilization if you were creating female inequality on purpose
It would be hard to match this Wow
women paint their faces in order to not just be attractive to males but to be generally acceptable both to men and women a
woman who doesn't paint her face in a way that we now understand to exaggerate the signals of youth and fertility is
Mostly ignored by men and shunned by women
It's the male equivalent of moving to the woods building a shack and refusing to pay taxes
So if a man just leave society decides he doesn't want to work. He doesn't want to contribute to society
He doesn't want to live in the city. He just wants to live by himself
Build a shack in the woods and not pay taxes. That is the exact same thing as a woman deciding not to wear makeup
According to these feminists you following the logic here
Think about these three things for a moment
women are encouraged to think of themselves as
Princesses to retard their adult life until their 40s and to keep their faces painted
So they'll be respected by society and somehow we're confused as to why women seem like second-class citizens
Because that's exactly how we treat them. It's how men treat them. It's how women treat each other and it's how women treat themselves
When you sign up for number one motherhood
number two a traditional wedding and number three painting your face for maximum fertility signaling you are essentially signing an
inferiority
Contract let's not be delicate here. That is slavery
That's slavery guys being a mother having a wedding and wearing makeup is slavery
Those are the three characteristics that define what a slave is any questions
It
Might be a slavery that's embraced or that sometimes even brings great feelings of joy and contentment
To those experiencing it but it's still slavery
Yeah, you remember all those slaves in the south that had great feelings of joy and contentment, right?
Why use such a harsh word here are the three main reasons
I think it applies you must sacrifice every waking moment to it or be considered a failure
It goes on and until you're in your 40s
So much of your life is then behind you you have essentially zero ability to exit the contract once you've entered it
What's so funny is like those things right there you you're sacrificing every waking moment to it
You're you have to do it into your 40s. Your life is behind you when you're done. You have no ability to exit your contract
What about men going to work?
I mean talk about sacrificing every waking moment to it and we don't just get a stop when we're in our 40s
It's till we die and guess what? There's no exiting that contract either
But guess what?
I'm not the one complaining about that because I don't think going to work is being a slave
And I don't think being a man is being a slave and I don't think being a wife
Being a stay-at-home mother is a slave
So the title my sermon this morning is you poor little house slave
You poor little house slave because let me tell you something being a stay-at-home mom while it is challenging
While it is I think the most respectable and one of the toughest jobs in the world
It's not even close to being a slave and if you have that mentality
Your brain is completely just captivated by the world
You have no understanding of Scripture or of God's will for your life
If you think being a stay-at-home mother is being a slave
What a joke, you know this attitude has zero
compatibility with Scripture with the Bible, you know
There's no room for Christian feminism and let me tell you something
The only person that would be offended by what I'm gonna preach this morning is a feminist
So if you feel yourself during the sermon feeling offended, let me just break some news to you. You are a closet feminist
So, how do you know if I'm a closet feminist if this sermon hurts your feelings this morning you are closet feminist
If not, then you're not so you get to judge yourself
number one
Being a stay-at-home wife has lots of great benefits
That's what I want to talk about first being a stay-at-home wife has a lot of great benefits
And look being a man has a lot of great benefits, too
But that's not what the sermon is about this morning. Okay, this sermon is about the poor little house slaves
So we're going to talk about the benefits of just an average
American housewife and I'm not talking about an independent fundamental Baptist housewife. I'm talking about just suburbia USA
Soccer moms just your average stay-at-home wife. This is what we're gonna talk about, right?
Let me ask you if this sounds like slavery. Here's some benefits that stay-at-home moms have in America. How about
Starbucks
You think I'm kidding, but let's just think about this for a second. Okay, you got you're a slave
You're enslaved by your husband domestic slavery. You had to look pretty on your wedding day
Your husband cherishes you and wants to protect you. I get it. You're it's terrible. You're a slave. All right, I understand
But did slaves really get to go to just Starbucks whenever they want?
Because I don't know if it's just me every time I go to Starbucks, you know what I see
I see a bunch of white middle-class
Stay-at-home mothers from suburbia USA. I
Don't see a bunch of battered beaten women in chains that are being held down by their husbands
No, you know what Starbucks is pretty cool. Coffee is pretty cool
It's pretty cool how in America stay-at-home moms can just spend money and go get nice drinks and here's thing the benefits
I'm listing this morning. I'm not even against a lot of these things or all of these things really
I'm just telling you the facts that this is not slavery
Many women in America go to Starbucks every day of their life
And hey, if you can afford that god bless you. That's cool. I'm not even saying that's a terrible thing
I'm just telling you you're not a slave
Wake up
How about this getting your hair and your nails done?
This is something that a lot of women experience in America
It's a luxury that ladies have here and if you can do that great, I'm not against this whatsoever
I'm just telling you if you go pay money
For someone to style your hair to color your hair and to paint your fingernails. You are not a slave
There's no one in China who is a literal slave right now that is getting their hair and nails done
Okay, I talked to a guy this week
That was kidnapped by the cartel in Mexico when he was 10 years old and
Spent his entire childhood in slavery and the women that he was with, you know what they weren't doing
They weren't getting Starbucks. They weren't getting their hair and nails done. They were being sexually abused their entire childhood
You know, that's what a real slave looks like
Sorry, stay-at-home moms in suburbia USA you getting your Starbucks and your hair done and your nails done is not slavery
You know that is that's you actually living a very blessed life and you should be thankful for that
Go to Proverbs chapter 31 Proverbs 31
Here's another benefit
Many poor little house slaves have today. How about all of their household goods being delivered to them by a service called Amazon Prime? I
Mean, this is slavery, right? You need something in your house. You pull out your little smartphone
You push a button and some dude being paid minimum wage brings all your household goods to your front door
What utter slavery you are living in? I mean, this is terrible. This is abuse
Look at Proverbs 31 verse 13
She seeketh wool and flax and worketh willingly with her hands. She is like the merchants ships
She bringeth her food from afar, you know the Proverbs 31 woman back in ancient times, you know
She's working hard with her hands
She's making things out of wool and flax and she has to she's equated to a ship
Because she has to go travel these long distances just to find good food for her family
We're here in America housewives
Just go on to the Walmart app or go on to the Kroger app or whatever and just all their groceries are just delivered to
their front door and
Hey, that's cool
That's great
My family lives a very very busy life and my wife does that and I think that's awesome that she doesn't have to
Gather up her four kids under five years old and go fighting through the grocery store
Look, that's great if you could do that, but let me tell you something if you're getting groceries delivered to your house
You're not a slave
You may be a feminist
You may be a complainer. You may have no understanding of the Bible, but you're not a slave
How about this Netflix Amazon Prime?
YouTube peacock Hulu all these streaming services where you just get to sit in the comfort of your home and just watch
Entertainment whenever you want look that is not slavery
That is something that has not been available to human beings for 99% of our world's history
This is not slavery
How about this the newest and greatest iPhones or smartphones with the unlimited data plan paid for by your master
Look that's not slavery, you know slaves and Dixie and slaves today
They're not given technology for their own use and benefit that's paid for by their masters. They don't have that stuff
They're without that stuff. So while feminists are angry as they're typing their blogs on their Apple computers
They're typing their blogs on their smartphones
It's bought for you by your husband
Oftentimes or your father these young feminist women, too
How about this nice home appliances?
Isn't that a blessing that we have in America today that you know women?
They don't have to just sit there and get the clothes and just rub it on a washboard
Like my great-grandmother had to do when she was born in 1927 in the plains of South Dakota
You know, she had to work super hard and scrub the clothes and hang them on a clothesline and women today could just go
Boom button done. Just walk away
That's not hard work guys. That's a blessing that in America
We have these modern technologies that allow our lives to be easier
And look I could talk about all the ways that men's lives are easier nowadays to compared to the old times
But again the focus this morning is on the poor little house slaves of America not realizing how great they have it
in our country
You know a dishwasher. I mean, that's a great blessing that you could just throw your dirty dishes into the dishwasher
Push a button and it just does it for you
Ovens this is these are things that we take for granted that have not always existed
ovens
stoves
air-conditioning heater
Garbage disposals. I mean refrigerators freezers
Our lives are great and when you if you have those things which I would I would guess
100% of people in this room have those things you are not a slave
No, you're very blessed
Okay, here's something a slave doesn't have their own home. I
Mean a lot of American women in suburbia USA have their own nice home paid for by their master
You know read the book Uncle Tom's Cabin and it'll explain to you what slaves actually lived like in their living quarters
And it wasn't a nice home, you know a nice
$500,000 home in suburbia USA. No, that's a blessing that we have today
How about this Proverbs 31 look at verse 21?
She is not afraid of the snow for her household for all her household are clothed with scarlet
She maketh herself
Coverings of tapestry her clothing is silk and purple her husband is known in the gates when he sitteth among the elders of the land
She make it fine linen and selleth it and deliver it girdles unto the merchant
You know another great blessing a great benefit that housewives have today is nice new clothes
That they didn't have to make they didn't have to gather the material and sit there and sewing it and all that stuff
No, they could just go buy
Inexpensive nice new clothes and if a woman does make new clothes today, it's not of necessity
It's out of a hobby which that's another cool blessing if you could do that great
But look women today aren't having to make clothing for their children to survive the winter
They go to Walmart and buy a jacket
They go to Cabela's and buy a nice Carhartt or whatever, you know, that is not slavery
That's you living in the lap of luxury if you could do that
Here's another you know great advantage
That all of us have in this world today, but stay-at-home wives have how about this just desserts and snack foods?
This is not slavery
Look, if you've got a tub of ice cream in your freezer tonight
You are not a slave if you've got some cookies in your pantry and you've got some cakes that you're making and you've got chips
And snack foods, you're not a slave
No, you actually have a lot of benefits in your life
Look at Proverbs 31 verse 15
She riseth also while it is yet night and giveth meat to her household and a portion to her
Maidens look this person's having to wake up super super early and prepare everything from scratch. She doesn't have the nice appliances
She doesn't have all the great benefits that women at home have today
And so in a lot of ways ladies home lives are a lot easier today
Let's talk about some other things make up
Makeup is not something that was given to slaves
How about perfume you have perfume you want to smell good slaves didn't have that
Clothes of every style and color for every season right look great if you have that but a lot of ladies
They've got a summer wardrobe. They've got a fall wardrobe. They've got a spring wardrobe. They've got a summer wardrobe
Slaves did not have that
No slaves just wore the same clothes pretty much every day of the year and it was beaten and battered and tore up and
Dirty and gross and today stay-at-home wives have more clothes than they know what to do with and I'm telling you
You're not a slave
Vacations across America and across the world your average American housewife goes on vacations every single year
I mean, that's just a normal thing for a lot of American families
You know and us and the new IV our vacations are spent going to red-hot and stuff like that
But let me just tell you about the rest of America because I didn't grow up in church
I grew up in suburbia, USA
Every housewife is going on a nice vacation every single year. You're going on vacations. You're not a house slave
having her own vehicle
Many women have the blessing of having their own car then they could drive themselves wherever they want whenever they want newsflash
You're not a slave when you have your own car
access to cheap healthy foods with grocery stores
Internet I
Mean these these ladies are getting mad on the internet about how they're so oppressed, but they have internet
They're not a slave
How about this alarm systems cameras and 24-hour protection by your master?
You know this this is great
This is a great benefit that many homes in America have if you go soul-winning in the nicer areas of this
Town in the upper middle class or even just regular middle class
You're gonna see ring doorbells. You're gonna see cameras on every house. You're gonna see alarm systems
And I'm just telling you when you live in your own little castle
That's paid for by your master that provides for you shelter food
Air-conditioning heating and you have your own little alarm system and security to keep you safe from bad guys. You're not a slave and
I'm just trying to give you some perspective today
Because we live in the most blessed country in the world
Because we live in a place with so much wealth and prosperity for you not to get this stupid
Feminist complaining heart to think poor me. I'm a little slave because I'm a stay-at-home mother because I'm a stay-at-home mom
You know, that's a wicked attitude. The only person that would have that type of attitude is a feminist
You know, you've just lost
perspective
Number two women are a lot happier at home than in the workforce
They're a lot happier at home than in the workforce and ladies that have been in the workforce
You know, that's true and men that are currently in the workforce when you're around women and you see how they are at work
You know, this is true
They're miserable at work. They hate work
Proverbs 31 verse 27
She looketh well to the ways of her household and eateth not the bread of idleness
Her children arise up and call her blessed her husband also and he prays of her
Many daughters have done virtuously, but thou excel ist them all favors deceitful and beauty is vain
But a woman that fear at the Lord she shall be praised
Give her of the fruit of her hands and let her own works praise her in the gates. You know what?
women all want
Deep down inside what every woman wants is a husband that loves her
cherishes her and praises her and
Children that love her cherish her and praise her that is what brings a woman happiness and
The fruit of the Proverbs 31 woman which if you read the whole chapter, she's working super hard. She's investing into her home
she's investing into her family, you know, the Bible says you reap what you sow and
What does this woman sow she's sowing good into her home into her family
And what does she reap the love and respect and adoration of her husband and children?
But where are a lot of women sowing today?
Well, they're sewing in the workplace and you reap what you sow they're going into the workplace and they're sowing into their corporate job
They're sewing into their job that they don't like and what are they're reaping. They're reaping a little paycheck
That's what they're reaping and that's that's their reward. But guess what that doesn't bring fulfillment
Especially in a lot of cases where you have dual income families. They're splitting the bills, right?
So women get a little taste of oh cool, I'm gonna go work
I'm gonna go make money and then it's like oh, yeah, here's the bill and it's just all gone and she's like
Well, that isn't fun. It's like yes
Welcome to our life. This is what we do. We go work
We go work our butts off at a job
That is not often very fun in the heat and the snow and whatever and then we get our paycheck our little piece of paper
you know what just
Just mortgage just bills rent insurance
food diapers clothes
Entertainment Starbucks everyday nails hair security systems gone. It's just gone, right?
But but here's the thing. I don't care because I'm I'm
Sewing into my family. I'm sewing taking care of them
I'm sewing raising them and so I'm more than happy to go work and do that
But ladies they have a little bit of a shock when they're like cool. I'm gonna go to work
It's like you make this little paycheck is just nothing. It's just gone
You reap what you sow, you know
You'd be a lot happier at home like the rest of the suburban housewives that I just described you in point one
That's a lot more of a fun life than going to work for some company. You don't care about doing some job
You don't like making very little money oftentimes
Go to first Peter chapter number three first Peter chapter number three
You know women are gonna be a lot happier
When they're sewing in the right places when they're sewing in the places that God told them to sew
And where did God tell women to so look at first Peter 3 verse 3?
likewise the wives
Be in subjection to your own husbands that if any obey not the word
They also may without the word be won by the conversation of the wives and here's what you have to understand
Is that the world values the exact opposite of what God values
So God values a woman that is in subjection to her own husband
What does that mean that she is placing herself under the authority of her husband that she says in her heart?
Hey, my husband's in charge. He's taking care of us. He's paying the bills
He's making the rules and I'm gonna listen to what he has to say. I'm gonna obey him
That's what God values, you know what the world values a woman that despises her husband
Rebells against her husband isn't gonna be some doormat for her husband is gonna listen to what her husband says
But she will go be in subjection to some random dude at a job that doesn't love her
That doesn't cherish her and want to protect her that just is gonna give her a crappy little paycheck
That's who women want to go so into today. That's who women want to go obey and be in subjection to today. Mr. Corporate USA
But what are they reaping from that?
Unhappiness, you know what our country's reaping from that divorce
Homes being shattered and destroyed because our country has gotten so far from what the Bible says to do
And when you don't do things God way God's way, you're gonna see serious repercussions from that
Look at verse 2 while they behold your chase conversation coupled with fear who's adorning
Let it not be that outward adorning of plating the hair and of wearing of gold or putting on of apparel
But let it be the hidden man of the heart and that which is not corruptible
Even the ornament of a meek and quiet spirit which is in the sight of God of great price
So again, we're talking about how God values things versus how the world values things
What does God value in a woman God values in a woman a woman that is meek a woman that is humble a woman?
That does not dress to draw attention to herself and to bring lustily attention to her body
But rather a woman that has a meek and quiet spirit
The Bible says that's not in the sight of man a grape of great prices in the sight of God a great price
But what is the world today value and what is the world today?
put of a great price is a woman that does you know anoint herself with all the jewels and
plates her hair and wears all the crowns and
Dresses in an ungodly way to show off her body to be immodest. That's what the world highly values today
But you reap what you sow and when women today are actually sowing into being meek and quiet and humble and
Dressing for their husband's eyes only not for other people. You know, what they're gonna reap in that is they're gonna reap a good marriage
But today women are going out into the workforce. They're not subjecting themselves to their husbands. They're subjecting themselves to a random stranger
They're not dressing appropriately. They're going to work and dressing inappropriately
You know what you're having you're having a bunch of adultery in our country
Because men and women are now working very close to each other
365 days a year and a lot of times these women are dressing like whores and
At this one company I worked at I met the director of the company the highest person in the company
Was a woman and when I met her she's wearing a skirt just barely below her hip and I'm like
This is the director of the company
Not a good example
First of all women directors that is a curse in and of itself on top of that dressing like a whore
You know, what a shame what a shame that is for our country
Look at verse
5 for after this manner in in the old time the holy women also who trusted in God
Adorned themselves being in subjection unto their own husbands even as Sarah obeyed Abraham calling him Lord
Whose daughters he are as long as you do well and are not afraid with any amazement, you know
I guarantee you that Sarah the godly woman who trusted in God and
Subjected herself to her husband was way more happy and fulfilled
Taking care of Abraham and doing what he said then these women in corporate America are working in the HR department
You know Sarah lived a happier life
Sarah and her latter end was more blessed by God
Then these women that just throw away all the blessings that they could be reaping by getting married and having children
Just for a meaningless job and what happens is these ladies they went to college
They took out the loans
They went the way of the world then they wake up one day at 40 years old with no kids
no husband and they realize that their life sucks and
Instead of realizing that they were the fools
That despised God's Word and that's why they're there in the situation that they're in. What do they do men?
Patriarchy I'm a slave
And they just want to hate on women that have done the right thing
Let me tell you something the feminists out there that hate their lives that have done everything wrong for 30 40 years
You're the one to blame. It's your fault
You know what? I'm so sick and tired of our country bending over backwards to just be nice and kind to all these divorced
feminist
Wicked people in our country while we sit and crap on
Stay at home wives and stay at home mothers who've actually done the right thing
You know what? I don't feel bad for you. I don't feel sorry for you
I'm not gonna cater to you and you know what? I'm dead sure not gonna give you money
Like first 75 is talking about the younger women. No if you're under 60 you go get married you go submit to him
You go let a man take care of you. Don't come asking me for money because you worked in the HR department for 20 years
You know something happens to you bad in your life. Now you need help. You know what forget that
I'm not interested in helping you. I'm interested in helping godly women
That have done what the Bible says in first Timothy 5, you know, then let's talk
But I'm so sick and tired of our country catering to these feminists
You know what?
This feminist ideology can just go straight to hell and our nation needs to just completely wipe this down the toilet
Get rid of this ideology because it has destroyed our nation, you know women voting has destroyed our nation
And you know what Kamala Harris is a curse of God on our nation if she gets elected
Let me tell you what that is. Just a curse of God on our nation
You know why why this is happening because a lot of Baptist preachers would be angry at what I'm saying this morning
You know what? Woe unto those people
Because the Bible teaches what I'm saying not what this feminist ideology is saying
Let
Me read for you Proverbs 29 verse 18
The Bible says where there is no vision the people perish but he that keepeth the law
Happy is he you want to know who the happiest people on earth are the people that follow the law of God the best and
You'll find the happiest women in this world are women that got married young that started having kids young that obeyed their husband
That allowed their husband to be the boss and invested in their family for 20 30 40 years
You know when they're old, they're the happiest women on the planet
Why because they've got a lot of grandkids?
because they have a lifelong relationship with a good spouse that they've
Invested in and poured time into and they're with their best friend because they weren't wicked and got a divorce
They stayed with their husband. And so now they're happy but let me tell you something the most miserable women on this planet
are the ones that get divorced that
Take, you know birth control their whole life and ruin their bodies to where they can't have children or many times
They spent their entire youth killing their children through abortion. They've spent 20 years being a murderer
Then they wake up one day and want to change things and they're just shocked and horrified that their body isn't gonna change on a dime
For the abuse that they've been doing to it. Let me tell you those are the most miserable women in America
The old cat ladies the blue haired
Feminist weirdos that hate the ladies in this room. Those are the miserable ones the women that were protesting our church
Those were the most miserable women ever
I mean this one she just was horrific her voice sounded horrific and she even she even just told me she's like yeah
I've got autoimmune disease and I'm like, I'm not shocked. You know, you're some filthy sodomite. You probably have AIDS
I'm not shocked that you have this life. But guess what who keeps the law of God. That's the person that's happy
Sodomites aren't happy the feminists aren't happy the woman in your HR department
Not happy
HR ladies are the saddest scariest ladies alive because they just hate themselves
They hate their life and they just want to take it out on you
That's why HR departments are the worst departments in any company
Because it's filled with the old cat ladies that have nothing to show for their lives
They're just miserable
self-loathing
Feminists and I'm not sorry for them
Go to first Timothy chapter number five first Timothy chapter number five
And what's so funny is every job I've ever worked since being married and since having kids
When my female co-workers find out that I am the sole provider and that my wife stays at home
She doesn't work at all and that she has kids
They always are sitting there lamenting to me about how much they wish they could have that life
And how much they wish that their husband would let them do that or they'll say oh, yeah
I used to do that when I was younger. I really miss doing that. That's so great that you're doing that
I'm so happy for you because every woman knows she'll be happier at home
Every single time I've never worked with some person like that and they're just like
Disgusted by it. They're always you can tell they're envious of it. They're like, I wish my husband was like that
I wish that my family followed that biblical model, but you can you just have to get rid of this world's brainwashing
That's been in your head for so long
Number one being a stay-at-home mother has lots of benefits
Number two women are happier at home than in the workforce number three the devil wants women out in the workforce
The reason why so many people are in the workforce is because this is the course of this world
This is the devil's plan for women is for women to be in the workforce. Look at 1st Timothy 5 verse 11
But the younger widows refuse for when they have begun to wax wanton against Christ
they will marry having damnation because they've cast off their first faith and
With all they learn to be idle wandering about from house to house and not only idle but Tatler's also and busybodies
Speaking things which they ought not I will therefore so God's will is that the younger women marry
Bear children guide the house give none occasion to the adversary to speak reproachfully
Notice for some are already turned aside after Satan
So what does it look like for a woman to be turning aside after Satan?
Well, it looks like the opposite of what he just said, what did he say?
He says I will that these women would get married that they'd bear children that they would guide the house
Why because that's not going to give an occasion to the adversary or the enemies of God to speak reproachfully
And you know what a lot of nations today think about America is they think that we're some feminist hellhole and we kind of are
Why because women have not been following what God wants men have not been following the model that God wants so we've given occasion
for the enemies of God to speak against us because our nation's been failing in this area and
And what's the result look at verse number five fifteen?
For some are already turned aside after Satan
So notice it is Satan's desire for a woman to not get married to not have children to not
Guide the house and and you want to know why that is is because a woman that is not married
That's just out on her own. She's just living her own life. She's got a job. She's got her own apartment. She's got no kids
She's free. You know what that woman is. She's vulnerable and she's unprotected and the devil wants to use
Ladies pride of thinking I'm a superwoman. I don't need no man. I'm safe
I'm just fine
He wants to trick women into thinking that's true so that they could be alone and they could be vulnerable to the devil's attack
And you know what? Let's just be honest. You don't really find a lot of independent fundamental
Baptist God-fearing single women that are just out on their own living their own life
You don't really find that that often you want to know why because those ladies are unprotected and vulnerable and they're very easy for the attack
of the devil
That's why the Bible saying hey when someone's not in this position
What are they they learn to be idle?
When a woman doesn't have a lot of responsibilities at home her tendency and honestly, this is man's tendency to is to be idle
So God wanting to keep women from this trap of being idle. He gives them a job to do. It's called being a wife
It's called being a mother but when they turn aside from this unto the devil, what are they?
They're idle and they're vulnerable to attack
What else they do wandering about from house to house and not only idle but Tatler's also and busybodies
Speaking things which they ought not
You know again, let's let's forget Baptist women for a minute. Let's just go to
American suburban housewife this woman this this type and I'm talking about right here
you know she does she spends a lot of time on social media and
of users of social media the people that spend the most time on these sites are women and
Let me tell you something that is a vulnerable position to be in when you've got no authority
You've got no checks and balances. You're just doing whatever you want on the internet
You know, you're in a dangerous position and isn't it funny how you know?
Disgusting services like OnlyFans that's blowing up in our society today
That this is becoming so popular and so accepted in our culture today that I'm seeing articles that high school students are doing this
That their teachers know about it their schoolmates know about it
It's just something that's totally becoming accepted. You know, I've noticed that these women aren't married mothers that are doing this
You know who it is?
It's these free and independent and strong-willed feminist women that are falling victim to the devil
And you have to understand that
God is not just giving you commandments because he doesn't like you he wants you to suffer
He wants you to have you wants you to be a little house slave
No, he wants to protect you from all the evils that are out there and you know, how God has implemented a way to protect women
It's called dad
It's called husband and you know what? There's there's never a time in a woman's life where she shouldn't be under dad or husband
Because she's not safe when that's the case
Because guess what when you're living in your mat in your master's home with all the security systems, you know
It's gonna be hard for someone to come harm you but when you're living in a college dorm
And everyone's drinking alcohol and you got a bunch of perverts that are spiking women's drinks
You know what you are in danger in that situation and bad things can happen to you
You know, I would venture to say that the majority of women and and you know, this isn't a fun topic
But let's just talk about it the majority of women that are getting raped today in our culture are not
Stay-at-home moms and stay-at-home wives. You know what it is. It's usually a bunch of women dressing like whores there
I said it. Oh, you're victim blaming. No, I'm not victim blaming. Let's go ahead and put the rapist to death
But let's just talk about the reality
most people getting raped are
Silly women that have no husband and no father and they're out being the independent strong women thinking they're so tough
Let me tell you something. You're not tough
You're vulnerable. You're weak and any man that wanted to hurt you could hurt you just get that through your head
Just realize and I'm not saying that to be mean I'm saying that because I don't want that to happen to you
You know, I
One time had an experience where this young teenage girl road raged on me and she literally got out of the car in
The middle of the freeway and I say I stayed in my car just laughed but I'm just thinking like what planet
Do you live on?
Little 16 year old girl to think that you are safe
Stepping out on a man in traffic
Like if I was some crazy that wanted to hurt you I could just pick you up and throw you off the median and
I would never do that. I would never ever do that
But here's the thing. I'm just trying to wake you up to the reality that there's men out there that would do that to you
There's men out there that will kidnap you that they will rape you and they will dump your body in a river or lake
Trying to wake you up. I don't want that to happen to ladies. That's why I'm so angry at this
Ideology of feminism that's harming homes and harming women and look the devil
Wants ladies to be out of the home today and in the workforce why because that's where he could destroy their lives
That's where he can hurt them. And you know what? Let's let's talk about another unpleasant subject adultery
You want to know why so much adultery is happening today?
Because men and women are working together for eight hours a day at the office and let me just explain something to you
Men are attracted to women and women are attracted to men and you know what you're supposed to be with your wife
Your wife is supposed to be with your husband, but when you're just having this work relationship with another woman all day long
You know what?
I don't care how strong you are that could get to your heart
That could cause you to start having feelings for someone and guess what happens every single day in America work related adultery
I've seen it in companies that I've worked for where some
People go off on lunch break and cheat on their spouses
What a wicked and terrible thing that is, you know what that's not empowering to women that's destroying our country that's destroying our homes
Look at first Timothy chapter number two, if you'll turn there first Timothy chapter two
First Timothy 2 9 in like manner also that women adorn themselves in modest apparel with shame faceness and sobriety
Not with broided hair or gold or pearls or costly array
But which become if women professing godliness with good works let the woman learn in silence with all subjection
But I suffer not a woman to teach nor to usurp authority over the man but to be in silence
verse 13 for Adam was first formed then Eve and
Adam was not deceived but the woman being deceived was in the transgression
Verse 15. This is the important part
Notwithstanding she shall be saved in childbearing
What is this talking about? This is not talking about how to go to heaven
Okay, you know whosoever shall bear a child shall be saved. It's not what this is saying
This is saying hey
We live in a world where there's a lot of danger where there's a lot of temptations and just like Adam and Eve
You saw Eve was tempted by the devil and she was deceived
She was enticed her husband was not doing a good job leading her or protecting her what happened she sinned
She caused her husband to sin, but you know, what's gonna save women from going down the same road that Eve went down
Physically speaking what's gonna save them from living a life of sin and a life that's being vulnerable and in danger. It's childbearing
Why is that because like I said when God or when we are idle
We're more susceptible to sin men and women and so man he looked down and said alright Adam
You're gonna work by the sweat of your face all the days of your life
Not till you turn 40 like the house slaves complain about all the days of your life then he tells Eve
Hey in sorrow
You're gonna bring forth children and you're gonna be subjected unto your husband and then again here in first Timothy 2
He's bringing up the story. She shall be saved in childbearing
What is this saying God saying hey?
I've given you a task to do ladies
So that you could be saved from living a life of sin and so that you could be saved from the consequences of
Living a life of sin and you know the godliest people the godliest women in our world are women that are wives that are faithful
Wives to their husband that have children that raise their children
That keep their house that their home is their work and their work is their home
Those are the happiest and those are the godliest women in our society
You
Say well, you know motherhood's hard and being a stay-at-home wife is so hard and it's so much work
And it's like that's the point
Yes, it is hard. Yes. It is a lot of work. Yes, you are gonna have sleepless nights
Yes, you are gonna be cleaning up vomit. Yes, you are gonna be changing diapers
Yes, it's gonna be hard and that's the point
But the Bible says it is good for me that I have been afflicted that I might learn thy statutes
And you say, you know men complain to going to work is so hard. Yeah
God wants it to be hard
So that you're not as some idiot derelict on the side of the road because look at those people the homeless people are they living
Godly lives. No, you know what they're doing. They're shooting up heroin. They're sleeping with anything. They can they're living a debauchery
Filthy lifestyle and so God has given us work for our own benefit never stop working
Even if you're retired, even if you get old you could still find something to do
You can still read your Bible. You can still go soul-winning you can still volunteer in the church
You can still do things that are productive
but you know what God never wants us to be just to be sitting around in our butt doing nothing and
Thinking that that is empowerment. Oh, I'm working on the slave. No. No God's actually protecting you by giving you work to do
Look at some 2nd Timothy 3
2nd Timothy 3
verse 6 for of this sort are they which creep into houses and
lead captive notice silly women laden with sins and
led away with diverse lusts
You know, who's not
Silly and careless and laden with sin
stay-at-home wives
Stay-at-home mothers. Those aren't silly women, but you know who is silly women
24-year-old college grads that go into the HR department
Those are silly and careless women laden with sin and
So obviously it's not what God wants you to be
Let me read this for you. You can turn to Isaiah chapter 14. Let me read this for you
This article is entitled the societal cost of the marriage decline
The marriage decline because think about this. What is this point?
The point is that the devil wants women in the workforce and if the devil wants women in the workforce
There should be a consequence that's negative to that right because the devil doesn't want anything good
What do we see in America today?
Do we see an increase of marriage an increase of having children or do we see a decrease?
We see a huge decrease. There's a huge epidemic in America right now of young people
Just never getting married not wanting to get married and saying I'm never having kids for any reason
It says this marriage rates are plummeting more young people are delaying or avoiding dating altogether
Pew research recently found that one in four
40 year old American adults have never been married
That's crazy
25% of 40 year old American adults have never been married not just that they've been divorced
They've never been married. That's crazy
Parenthood is viewed with much greater apprehension among young people than it once was young women express
Growing reservations about starting families and many believe marriage benefits them less than it does men
So, you know many young women they are they don't want to be poor little house slaves, right?
I mean because that's terrible to have a husband loves you and protects you provides for you. Let's not do that
one Pew study
found that less than half
45% of young women ages 18 to 34 without
Children say that they still want to have kids at some point in the future
so women of childbearing age
Less than half of them who don't have kids
Say that they actually want to have kids in the future. That's crazy. How sad how we how we lied to and brainwashed
Half of the young women of childbearing age in America that being a mom is so terrible that being a wife is so terrible
It's because of things like public school that make fun of and ridicule women that say that they want to be stay-at-home moms
It's because they have turned aside after Satan and after the devil's plan
says this
Among young men nearly six in ten report that they want to be fathers
So 60% of guys say that they want to be fathers, but honestly, that's that's incredibly low, too
I mean, that's crazy 60 only 60% of men want to be fathers
Like who has been brainwashing and lying to our children? This is a terrible terrible mentality
The birth rate the birth replacement rate in the United States is one point six two percent
So the average couple they're having less than two kids in their lifetime
So they're not even replacing themselves
And you just have to realize the devil's doing all these things the devil wants women out of the house
The devil wants women in the workforce
The devil wants women not to have children
The devil wants to influence men also to not want to get married and have children
And what's the result of that is our nation is literally dying. I'm talking literally dying
Because we're not even replacing ourselves. And what is that? That is the devil wanting to weaken us
To weaken our families to weaken our countries. This is what the devil does look at Isaiah chapter 14
verse 12
How art thou fallen from heaven Oh Lucifer?
Son of the morning, how art thou cut down to the ground notice this which didst weaken the nation's
What is the devil's goal?
One of the goals of the devil is to weaken the nation's and he does this with all sorts of different tactics
But let me tell you something today
Feminism is weakening our country people say Oh
Diversity is our strength and our workforce is getting better because we have more female police officers
No, that's weakening our country
You want to know why because no female officer on this planet could do anything to guys like brother
Samson down in pure words Baptist Church
And you know what? You don't know what they could do. They could shoot and kill him. That's it
You know, it's not strengthening our nation to have a bunch of women police officers running around our streets
It's not strengthening our nation to have like in Vancouver, Washington
An entire fire department of only women firefighters
How would you like to be in a burning building and here comes 120 pounds Susie to drag your 250 pound?
But who's a dead weight?
Up and down stairs out of a fire. That's not strengthening our country. That's the devil weakening our nation
Let me tell you what's weakening our nation women CEOs
Women directors
Women politicians, I mean whoa into America that Kamala Harris is even on our ballot
What a sad and disgusting state we've come to how much has the devil weakened our country
Where we went from dudes like George Washington to Kamala Harris
How does this happen?
Diversity is our strength. Look, you know diversity of skills may be our strength
diversity of
Being more educated in certain areas could be a strength. Sure, but you know, it is not a diverse diversity
that's a strength is diversity of
values of
Religions and here's the thing the religion of Christianity the religion of the Bible, you know what it teaches
It teaches that feminism is satanic
It teaches that women should be at home
So diversity of bringing women into our workforce taking them out of the home is weakening our country
Why because children now have to go to public school where they're taught by some god-hating
Atheistic faggots where they're made fun of for wanting to be a stay-at-home mom where they're made fun of for being an independent fundamental Baptist
They're we he's weakening our nation because kids are growing up in families where they're being raised in daycare
They're not being raised by mom and dad that love them. They spend all day in school
They spend all day after school in daycare and then they play video games the rest of the night and that's their entire childhood from
ages 6 to 18
You know, he's weakening our nation today because kids are growing up in broken homes
Because mom and dad were at work committing adultery and they find out about it and they get a divorce
And now their kids being raised by some other dad who knows who he is
who knows who the new other mom is and what she believes what she cares about and
The the trauma and emotional damage that children growing up without a mother and without a father in the home
That's weakening our country, you know, it's weakening our country
You know kids that grow up in the black community that statistically speaking don't have a father
Because dads are running around being a bunch of whoremongers
because they're have no character to stay with one woman and
Because these black women have to go out into the workforce because they have no man with them at home
And so these kids are growing up without a dad and without a mom even you know what they resort to crime
gangs
Selling drugs violence and it's weakening our country
Can you not see today how just the simple thing of feminism is affecting so many other areas of our nation
And you know what being a stay-at-home mom is not being a house slave
That's actually a blessing of God go to Genesis chapter number 14
Genesis chapter number 14
You
Know a lot of wicked people
Really all wicked people are motivated by money
Level says for the love of money is the root of all evil
But you know, there's some people that while they're still motivated for money
There could be other factors for them that motivate them even more. Let me show you something Genesis 14 verse
14 if you remember
Abraham's nephew Lot was taken captive in a battle and Sodom. Let's pick up the story in verse 14
And when Abram heard that his brother was taken captive
He armed his trained servants born in his own house
318 and pursued them unto Dan and he divided himself against them
He and his servants by night and smote them and pursued them unto Hobah
Which is on the left hand of Damascus and he brought back all the goods and also brought again his brother Lot
so he saved his brother and his goods and the women also and the people and
The king of Sodom
Went out to meet him after his return from the slaughter of Kedorlaomer and of the kings that were with him
at the valley of Sheva
Which is the Kings Dale and Melchizedek king of Salem brought forth bread and wine
And he was the priest of the Most High God and he blessed him and said blessed be Abram of the Most High God
Possessor of heaven and earth and blessed be the Most High God which hath delivered thine enemies into thine hand and he gave him tides
Of all verse 21 notice and the king of Sodom said unto Abram Abram notice this phrase right here
Give me the persons and take the goods to thyself
You know what? The devil is really really interested in doing
destroying people and
oftentimes
destroying children and
while there are reprobates in this world where their number one motivating factor is money money money money and
You know, there's also wicked people in this world where their number one motivating factor is just hurting other people
There's people that Proverbs talks about where they can't even fall asleep
Until they have figured out a way to hurt other individuals
You want to know where a lot of these people exist they exist in the daycare
They exist in the public school. They often exist at these churches where they have ministries where people have access to kids alone and
The idea of having women in the workforce is giving these reprobates just a open killing field
Letting those children sit there as just sitting ducks because there's no one to protect them because they're not at home with mom
They're not at home with dad and you know what the kings of Sodom out there in our country
they're saying hey keep the goods to thyself give me the persons and
Well, you're where you will find the most child abuse. It's gonna be places like this
It's gonna be places like school like daycare like church ministries where people have unfettered access to kids alone, you know
Women staying at home would solve a lot of these problems
Women being housewives and mothers would solve a lot of these problems
My last point really quick go to Romans chapter number nine Romans chapter number nine
So number one being a stay-at-home mom has a lot of benefits number two
Women are happier at home than in the workforce number three the devil wants women in the workforce
Number four we need to be content with who God made us to be look at Romans chapter 9 verse 20
Nay, but oh man, who art thou that reply ist against God shall the thing formed say to him that formed it?
Why hast thou made me thus?
You know
It's a prideful and a wicked attitude to be unhappy or uncontent with the way that God has made you
And you know us as Christians we need to just be happy with the way God has made us
I mean isn't this the whole crux of the issue with the transgender movement in our country a bunch of people
looking up at God saying why hast thou made me thus and really what's the difference between a transgender and a
Feminist Christian that despises the Word of God that looks up to heaven and says why has thou made me thus?
Why have you made me a poor little house slave?
Why do I have to stay at home and take care of kids, why do I have to obey my husband?
Hey, my question is why is the thing formed saying to him that formed it? Why hast thou made me thus? That's my question
It's a wicked attitude to have and I'm telling you the only people that would have an attitude like this are Christian feminists
So let me tell you something if you're offended by this sermon this morning. You are a closet Christian feminist
And you need to change your heart and realize that God has given you his word
God has given you his commandments for your own benefit
Let me read for you first John 5 3 says for this is the love of God that we keep his commandments and his commandments are
Not grievous, you know
Men we're commanded to go to work and it's hard. It's not fun at least for a lot of people
It's not a lot of fun
But you know what God commanded us to do it for our own benefit and men shouldn't be trying to shirk their
Responsibilities or go away from being a man and saying to God why hast thou made me thus and for ladies
You know being a stay-at-home mom you have one of the hardest jobs in the whole world
And whenever I have to stay home with all of the kids, I realize that it's a tough job
And I appreciate the work that the ladies put into their homes and I acknowledge and I cherish and I respect
Women that do that because that is a high calling right there raising the next generation is a serious responsibility
I have a lot of love and respect for that
I have way more respect for the lowliest woman in this room
That just with a humble heart goes on and carries on about her business
Serving her husband and her children than I do for the highest CEO woman in America
Then I do for any special forces female soldier or any female president of any nation or anything
You know any HR woman that's for dang sure
You know
I've got respect for the ladies in this room that actually love God and keep his commandments rather than the women that look up to heaven
Despise the Lord and say why hast thou made me thus?
You know, so I just want to leave you this morning with this thought be content with who God has called you to be
Men women children just embrace your role in life and do it with all your might. Let's pray Lord. Thank you for your word
Thank you for the
Safety that can be had by following your instructions and your commandments
I just pray that you would bless the families in this room
Pray that you bless us with happy marriages with more children
With children that grow up to love you and I just pray that the ladies in this room would have the right heart
Towards their role that they wouldn't look at themselves as lower or as slaves
But rather they would thank God for who you created them to be
And I pray that though their job is hard that as they go doing their job that they would lean upon you for strength
To do it and we know you'll empower them to do so. Love you in Jesus name we pray. Amen