Now, what would I liken this unto?
Well, today you have men who have a hard time leading their house,
or maybe they just don't want to be in church, they don't want to read the Bible,
they don't want to go soloing, but their wife is on fire for God, right?
And what happens is, you know, if they have children, they have a family,
and the wife knows what God expects of their family, but the man is not stepping up to the plate,
by default, she will basically take charge.
Now, is that right? No, it's not.
It's not right. Why? Because that's out of order.
The order should be that the man is leading the house, amen?
The order should be that the man should be the spiritual giant within that household,
lead his wife, lead the children, be the example, say,
hey, we're going to church today, hey, we're reading the Bible,
hey, we're serving God, as for me and my house, we shall serve the Lord, right?
Not like, well, I don't want to go to church because I'm too tired.
Alright, we're going to stay home from church then.
More like, well, you know what, pop a B vitamin, or take a monster,
or do whatever you got to do, we're going to church.
False sleep during Brother Mahia's preaching, whatever you got to do, but we're going to church.
You see, it should never be a question whether we are in the house of God, amen?
That should be a part of just who we are.
Sunday should never be a matter of, should we go to church today?
Hmm, should I even be in the house of God today?
No, what you should be questioning is, should I even do anything else?
You know, because going to church is who we are.
But you know what, it takes a strong leader, a man, to actually do that.
Now what happens if he doesn't?
Well, the woman leads by default.
The woman leads by default.
And I've known women who do a great job leading their children,
and they're doing the best they can to lead their children, to lead their household,
because the man is not stepping up to the plate, okay?
Doesn't make it right.
I don't agree with it, I don't like it, it's not God's order, you know,
but sometimes it happens, okay?