She wants the church boy! Far more than the e-boy, she wants the church boy because the
church boy actually has values and convictions, he's a person who is respectable, who loves
the Lord, has character, knows how to treat a lady, and the strange woman would love to
come and just defile that person. It's happened throughout history, we see it in the Bible,
happens a lot. And so she's often characterized as pursuing men and more specifically she
will hunt for that precious life. Go to Proverbs chapter 7. Proverbs chapter number 7. He said
well what can I do to help my son avoid being trapped by the strange woman? Well listen
to the sermon, number one. But number two, I think it's important for moms to compliment
their sons throughout their lifetime. You understand? Because children, sons can be
insecure sometimes, especially when they become teenagers. They start getting pimples
and start looking all ugly and everything, no I'm just kidding. They just become insecure,
right? They become insecure. So I believe it's important for both mom and dad, but especially
mom, to really instill confidence and security into their sons, telling them that they're
handsome, that they're strong, building that confidence in them so that they don't
seek it anywhere else. You understand? They need that from their parents. And by the way,
vice versa, dads should do that for their daughters. You know, instill confidence in
their daughter, take them out for daddy-daughter dates and spend time with them, let them know
that they're beautiful, that you love them. Why? Because you don't want them seeking that
out somewhere else out in the world by some strange man. You understand? And so I believe
it's important for parents to instill confidence into their children so they're not blindsided
by some strange woman. Or when some strange woman comes to them, they're just like, no
thank you. No thank you. You know what I mean? Because a lot of times, you know, these men
get caught up with strange women because they're insecure. And they have some strange women
flattering them, and they've never received a compliment before in their lives, and it's
just like, I don't care if she's not saved, I'm going for her, because man, this is the
only thing I got. They don't have any confidence. They're insecure. And so that's how she will
hunt for them. Whereas, you know, a household that has parents, you know, praising their
children, and I'm not saying praise only. Obviously you need to, there's negative things
that need to be said as well. But I'm saying, you know, you're praising them, you're building
their confidence so they don't think that they're ugly or, you know, they're just weak
or they have this deficiency in their body or something like that. Instill confidence
in your children so that they don't seek that out in the world by some strange person
who has some underlying motive to destroy that person's life. Your son or your daughter's
life. You understand?