Let me also say this at this point. I have a double standard between my boys and my girls
I hate to break it to 2019 America, but boys and girls are not the same
There's a difference
Now my sons are gonna go out one day and be heads of household run their own life
They're gonna work and have a career. That's what they're preparing for. My daughters are not preparing for that
Because that's not God's will for women to go out and do their own thing and run their own life and be a businesswoman
That's not God's plan. So I'm not preparing them for that. I'm preparing them to be a godly wife
Mother homemaker because that's God's perfect will for their lives
Okay, and so what I mean by that is that when my sons are 14 15 16
They're I want them to go out and work and get jobs and they're they're already out working my three oldest boys
They go they go to work and they they get things done make money
And I think that's great
You know the sooner they can start working the better and and and start you know
As long as they get their schoolwork done and everything like that then getting out and working and getting that experience is valuable
But you know when my daughter's turned 16, they're not gonna go get a job at Taco Bell or McDonald's or something
So that they can make minimum wage and be flirted with and hit on by every unsaved worldly ungodly man
outside of my supervision
Okay, women the Bible says are the weaker vessel
Okay. Now women are just as valuable as men in Christ. There's neither male nor female and
obviously
Women and men have the same value and worth but they are the weaker vessel. I don't think that my son is
Gonna get raped out there, you know by some woman. It's just not gonna happen friend
But you know what women they go out in the world
they could be easier to seduce or to overpower or abduct or just
Influence and so they need to be protected by their dad
And if you actually study the old and I know some of this is controversial but so what
Who cares this world is a messed up place. We don't care what they think
We care what the Bible teaches and as I study the Bible
I see a father back in the law of Moses being able to guarantee his daughter's virginity
So how did he guarantee that?
he guaranteed that because he knew where she'd been and
He knew that there wasn't any opportunity for her to have lost her virginity because she wasn't out doing whatever unsupervised
And so my daughters are never gonna go out and do whatever unsupervised. They're gonna be supervised all the time
Until they get married. I'm gonna pass them off to their husband and then at that point it's on him
Okay, and obviously, you know once they're an adult and they're married they're gonna have a lot more freedom
But my teenage girls you say well, how are they gonna have money to buy things? I'm gonna pay for it
I'd rather go get a second job than to just send them down to be you know
Pawed at by every Taco Bell McDonald's employee. It's not worth it for that little three-hour shift minimum wage paycheck
To go down there and have all these bad influences. I'm not gonna send them to the public school system
I'm not gonna send them to a Bible college. I'm not gonna send them to the fast-food industry
No, they're gonna stay home with me and you know, they can get out and see the world with me
They can get out and see the world with my wife
They can get out and see things on some occasions with a big brother standing by ready to kick anybody's butt that
You know, it's the wrong idea
Folks we need to protect our daughters
Have you ever noticed that in a fundamental Baptist Church like ours? There's a demographic that's conspicuously missing
You single guys are like, yes. Amen, you know
Why because you have way more young men in a fundamental Baptist Church that are 18 to 25
Then young ladies that are 18 to 25. Why are the young single 18 to 25 year old ladies typically missing?
I'll tell you why because they're out living like the devil. That's why because their parents let them do whatever
They're not under any strong leadership. And so they turn 18 and they go out and do whatever and it's it's sad
You know, we need to make sure that we raise our daughters, right and yes allow them to have a good time
Yes, allow them to have friends and a life
But you know what? They need to be supervised and not just given just total freedom to go do whatever
it's not going to end well and you can like it or lump it, but that's what I believe and
That's what I'm as for me in my house. That's what we're gonna do