And the Bible says that if you refuse to spank, you actually hate your children.
It's not that you love them, you hate them.
A lot of times people say, I'm too loving to spank, but I promise you this,
everybody that will not spank their kids will yell at their kids.
Because of the fact when your kids are acting up,
it's like it's very hard to control your emotions sometimes.
And if you don't just make it a habit to spank your kids and hug them
and then tell them that you love them,
what you're going to do is be very harsh and yell at your kids.
It's going to provoke your children to wrath, as the Bible says.
All of us that are fathers and mothers that have spanked our kids,
isn't this true?
Spank your child, you hug them,
and like a minute later your kids don't remember
and they're running around playing again.
It's like it's nothing.
And I was surprised when I,
because I was really scared when I first started spanking.
Are my kids going to hate me?
They're over it immediately.
It is an extremely rare situation where your kids hold resentment in their hearts.
Usually with just in a few minutes,
say, why is that?
I think that if they know that you love them,
the nurture overrides basically them being upset at you.