1 Timothy 5 verse 8,
You see in verse number 8, it says,
His own.
It says,
His own house.
It says,
He hath denied the faith.
And what you're seeing is the responsibility
is upon the man to be the primary provider
in his family.
Now, it's interesting because in other versions
of the Bible,
they change this verse quite a bit.
It says in the NIV,
anyone who does not provide for their relatives
and especially for their own household
has denied the faith
and is worse than an unbeliever.
There's two major switches there.
Number one, it takes away the masculine pronoun.
Completely removes it.
It doesn't really make a lot of sense
because in the same passage,
it puts a responsibility upon the women
to guide the house
so there would have to be a responsibility for the man.
But the other thing it does
is it changes his own to their relatives.
Now look, God's responsibility upon me
is to provide for my wife and my kids,
not my cousins,
not my aunts and my uncles.