Now, here's what we have to understand.
If you say, you know, pastor,
I'm a very submissive wife.
And the proof is that
I came to church today.
My husband wanted me to come to church
and I'm here.
Well, my question would be,
did you want to come to church?
And if your answer was yes,
I want to be at church.
You didn't submit to your husband
because submission
is when you do not want to do something
and you willingly go along
with what the authority says.
Your husband says, I want chicken.
You say beef and you say, OK,
you know, I'll go underneath
what my husband's wish is.
So the only proof of submission
is in a situation
where you don't want to do something
and your husband says to do it
and you willingly put yourself
underneath that authority.