I think something that probably every parent wonders before they first start disciplining their kids is you kind of wonder about this idea
Okay. Well, how do you spank like what what sort of advice? What do I do?
I remember when our son Zeph was being born and he's starting to get to that age and I'm just thinking okay
I remember asking the question and in hindsight
It sounds like a stupid question
But I never spanked my child before and I just said I I remember asking someone at the church who was had raised kids
Are very godless and so what do you do after you spank the child and like do you talk to them?
Like what do you do and it's it's pretty basic and it makes sense
But I just never done it and basically number one when you spank your kids
there is a specific place in the body that God has provided that has a lot of cushioning that provides pain and
no injury
and I believe that there's a reason why God created that part of your body for that purpose to
Discipline and spank your child because there is no injury when you spank that part of your child
It leaves a red mark and then it's gone in like 10 minutes, right?
If you cannot control your temper
Then you need to wait as a parent until you can to discipline your kids because you should not spank out of rage
Where you're just gonna lose it
You need to make sure that your emotions are under control and what you do is you spank the appropriate
Amount of times based on what they did and then what you do is you hug them
You say you love them and you explain why they got the spanking and
Other parents would say the same thing as me 99% of the time. They immediately hug and say I'm sorry daddy
Right. That's what the kids do
So you spank under control?
The specific place in the body that God has provided and you make sure you hug them and you explain and talk to them
You don't want these emotions to be going further because the thing about spanking feel it's dealt with immediately
And then the situation is gone and those emotions are gone
Look if you spank your child and then just say now get away from me. You're messing up majorly
Because you're gonna develop this
I mean your kids are gonna start to cry and
You're gonna develop this attitude with your kids where they're gonna get bitter and mad at you because of how you're doing it
Spanking is not fun
But the way you do it is you spank you hug you explain you say that you love them and that's how you do it